Jealousy (153)
LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Jealousy from insecurity. If the person doesn't trust you or believe you when you tell him then what else can you do?
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LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
yes, it can be a little troubling at times....to have to explain ones self.....when there is no explaination that will be good enoughAlso when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
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Jealousy is a wasted emotion. Either you want ME or you don't!!!! if you want someone else...see ya, bye bye..ciao, and all that stuff
NEXT!!!
NEXT!!!
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LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
If they can't trust you, you're better off w/out them :)
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shipoker58: Jealousy is a wasted emotion. Either you want ME or you don't!!!! if you want someone else...see ya, bye bye..ciao, and all that stuff
NEXT!!!
NEXT!!!
Yeah, but you've made it clear you weren't in the game so I'm not sure your advice is that solid.
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jlw45: yes, it can be a little troubling at times....to have to explain ones self.....when there is no explaination that will be good enough
No, I'm talking about when you really really like someone and you haven't done anything wrong and you want to have something serious and have been working towards that by talking to them and planning stuff then they're always accusing you. I don't mean silly stuff like on this site.
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Jealousy for me is weird. I'd never be jealous over someone I hardly know, or whatever. Jealousy for me comes with 1) Time.....you gotta LOVE someone to get jealous 2) A reason...........why are they making you feel jealous. Usually it's when they're doing something you don't trust them doing, so why don't you trust them? And can you ask them to stop whatever it is making you jealous?
For me, i'd never feel jealous unless I was feeling like I was being cheated on, or my man is doing something like being a flirt, which I wouldn't go for.
For me, i'd never feel jealous unless I was feeling like I was being cheated on, or my man is doing something like being a flirt, which I wouldn't go for.
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If they get that jealous after one or two online contacts imagine how insecure they would be in real life.
Ignore their stupidity and move
I have noticed that we show as being online when actually logged off too. That can certainly be a bit misleading
Ignore their stupidity and move
I have noticed that we show as being online when actually logged off too. That can certainly be a bit misleading
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The guys are jealous because you're pretty and they don't want to lose you to another guy (even though they probably dont even have you to themselves yet)
That's my guess based on the way guys seem to act.
I get jealous sometimes and I think it's a natural human emotion. When I was ummmm....less thin....I use to get jealous of the thin girls getting all the cute guys. Then I started jogging and got thin. Now I don't get jealous I get even.
That's my guess based on the way guys seem to act.
I get jealous sometimes and I think it's a natural human emotion. When I was ummmm....less thin....I use to get jealous of the thin girls getting all the cute guys. Then I started jogging and got thin. Now I don't get jealous I get even.
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LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
ah yes tis amazing how many other demons within get stirred and awakened when jealousy raises its head
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LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
I really hate that it does this. I never turn my computer off and always keep CS open in one window, and sometimes when I have a second at work or am passing through the room, I'll hit refresh to see if any new, interesting threads have been posted. Then for the next 45 minutes I'm ''online'' when I'm not.
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My Husband knew from the start that i am jealous..
He loves me for me..
its not his problem that i am..
and for some of you to say its easy to stop being jealous..
Its not..its just like smoking..its hard to quit..
when one is jealous..or cheating..when someone tells you
stop cheating..but you like/or do it all the time..they say
they will stop..but do they???
I have worked on it alot..but as i said my Husband gives me no
reason to make me jealous..
I have been like this all my life..
He loves me for me..
its not his problem that i am..
and for some of you to say its easy to stop being jealous..
Its not..its just like smoking..its hard to quit..
when one is jealous..or cheating..when someone tells you
stop cheating..but you like/or do it all the time..they say
they will stop..but do they???
I have worked on it alot..but as i said my Husband gives me no
reason to make me jealous..
I have been like this all my life..
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ahh Jealousy...hey jealousy......hey jealousy hey jealousy...
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cardsfan24: ahh Jealousy...hey jealousy......hey jealousy hey jealousy...
You talkin to me
What you gotta say
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I have trouble with the concept of an LDR because of these issues, but I think if two people have agreed to be exclusive long distance until they meet, and it's on a site like this, then it would take a lot of good communication between them. There are many of us on here that are harmless flirts, some of us here and in RL. One would have to have established quite a bit of trust, and have enough security in what has been built up.
If I dated someone from here, especially one of the ones who does flirt quite a bit, I would do so knowing that already. I would not be upset by that flirting because I would know that it's part of their personality. As Ship said, you either want to be with me or you don't. If you don't, fine...if you do, and I understand that, then being yourself is fine.
Honestly, I'm not going to stop flirting on here. I'm not going to stop flirting in real life, either. But, if I've told you I want to be with you exclusively, and it's an LDR, you're going to have to trust me when I say that because I don't lie, I don't cheat, and I don't play games. Period. If I've entered into an LDR with someone, then I give them that same trust in return.
Yes, as was said earlier, jealousy comes from insecurity. If a man is that insecure that he has to check where I've been, and what time I logged off, then I agree:NEXT!
If I dated someone from here, especially one of the ones who does flirt quite a bit, I would do so knowing that already. I would not be upset by that flirting because I would know that it's part of their personality. As Ship said, you either want to be with me or you don't. If you don't, fine...if you do, and I understand that, then being yourself is fine.
Honestly, I'm not going to stop flirting on here. I'm not going to stop flirting in real life, either. But, if I've told you I want to be with you exclusively, and it's an LDR, you're going to have to trust me when I say that because I don't lie, I don't cheat, and I don't play games. Period. If I've entered into an LDR with someone, then I give them that same trust in return.
Yes, as was said earlier, jealousy comes from insecurity. If a man is that insecure that he has to check where I've been, and what time I logged off, then I agree:NEXT!
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kissmedeeply: You talkin to me
What you gotta say
singin the Gin Blossoms...hehe...What you gotta say
Im not jealous i just throw em to the curb if they want me to get jealous..
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cardsfan24: singin the Gin Blossoms...hehe...
Im not jealous i just throw em to the curb if they want me to get jealous..
Im not jealous i just throw em to the curb if they want me to get jealous..
I have to admit i am..
That is one thing i remember eric saying..
he wouldnt get involve with a woman being jealous
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LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
HMMMMMMMMM.....I can't say...I have a man harem and they all seem to be quite fine with each other...one basket seems to tip and lead to nothing but broken eggs so now I'm working off lists....
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aberfoyle: If they get that jealous after one or two online contacts imagine how insecure they would be in real life.
Ignore their stupidity and move
I have noticed that we show as being online when actually logged off too. That can certainly be a bit misleading
Ignore their stupidity and move
I have noticed that we show as being online when actually logged off too. That can certainly be a bit misleading
I know some women that think you should not be "flirting" with another woman on here if you are talking with them on the phone..
What exactly, is "flirting"??
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Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.