Hate Mail.....Why send them.... (19)

Dec 5, 2008 8:39 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
Listen folks on here the UK forum and on other forums I read about people getting hate mail...

To the people who send hate mail can you please explain what sort off kick you get out of it...Because I really don't understand...

I have never sent hate mail ...neither have I recieved any..And any one who sends me hate mail, I will do two things..

1.......Report you the the mods

2......Block the person who sent it....


Why send them..................
Dec 5, 2008 8:53 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
Angel_Diva
Angel_DivaAngel_Divawales, South Glamorgan, Wales UK62 Threads 2 Polls 901 Posts
i did name and shame and got it so badly wrong about someone....and i was big enough to say sorry....he wasnt rite for me but will make someone a nice b/f...

but hate mail...nope never sent it.

i named coz i was fed the wrong information...

hate mail is the same so im gulity of that one.

But least i can hold me head up and say i made a mistake...hate mail...well thats being lower than me......
Dec 5, 2008 9:06 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
I've never got any hate emails and never sent any.Why should I? roll eyes
Dec 5, 2008 9:32 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
never had any never sent any , those that do send usually got the wrong end of the stick and get a kick out of winding people up (sad) i had demented phone calls, hey your dealing with the leisure here i said in fact they were dealing with the police and were promptly arrested

do as the phoenix says IGNORE THEN BLOCK applause handshake
Dec 5, 2008 10:53 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
IMO - If permitted by the thread starter

If *anyone* neither sends nor recieves hate mail there is no reason to comment upon it at all. All that achives is to give it publicity and draw attention to senders and the subject and give them potentially more ammunition.

I would just refer the message/s to the mods with a well worded complaint in words of one syllable and delete.
Dec 5, 2008 11:00 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
FreedomLover: I'm sorry to hear that. You are one of the nicest people on CS. Also, why is there such a double standard? It ok for men and not for women. !



Sorry FL...I really don't understand...Could you flesh it out a little..In my defence i'm a thick mick....
Dec 5, 2008 2:35 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
baileysqueen: if you don't like the thread or the person don't talk to them and don't read the thread simple!!!



thumbs up
Dec 5, 2008 4:55 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 1,565 Posts
THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU LOVELY PEOPLE

Thanks for your support, kindness and nice words. and helping me through this.

Gotta say the mails were pretty nasty, but then, when I sat back and thought about things - I came to conclusion - I brought it on myself!!

People on here don't know the real me, they just know me via my posts - and to be honest. I do come across as a right 'slapper'! For a lot of it I am sorry! But also am not sorry too. I love having the banter on here with you all and from what I can see, you feel the same too?? Well, I have not have any mail of any of you to tell me I have over stepped the mark - Yet!! lol

So long as I Know the real me, the friends whom mail and chat with me know the real me, but most important, so long as I am a good mom and my kids know the REAL me........ THAT is all that matters to me!

And for anyone whom wants to send hate mail... How about you just ask me first, what I meant, before judging me - You just might be surprised!!!handshake
Dec 5, 2008 4:58 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
jojo69: THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU LOVELY PEOPLE

Thanks for your support, kindness and nice words. and helping me through this.

Gotta say the mails were pretty nasty, but then, when I sat back and thought about things - I came to conclusion - I brought it on myself!!

People on here don't know the real me, they just know me via my posts - and to be honest. I do come across as a right 'slapper'! For a lot of it I am sorry! But also am not sorry too. I love having the banter on here with you all and from what I can see, you feel the same too?? Well, I have not have any mail of any of you to tell me I have over stepped the mark - Yet!! lol

So long as I Know the real me, the friends whom mail and chat with me know the real me, but most important, so long as I am a good mom and my kids know the REAL me........ THAT is all that matters to me!

And for anyone whom wants to send hate mail... How about you just ask me first, what I meant, before judging me - You just might be surprised!!!


that is why you are the president of support
the leisurehandshake
Dec 5, 2008 5:06 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 1,565 Posts
Seabiscuit: I've never had one.. Far to shy for all that business


LMAO With the mail you send........................ You only get praise mail back!!! wink LOL
Dec 5, 2008 5:09 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
jojo69: LMAO With the mail you send........................ You only get praise mail back!!! LOL


You mean the ones that are guaranteed to put a smile on your face? Those jokey ones grin
Dec 5, 2008 5:12 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 1,565 Posts
Seabiscuit: You mean the ones that are guaranteed to put a smile on your face? Those jokey ones


yeah of course!! rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 5, 2008 5:13 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 1,565 Posts
Seabiscuit: Certainly seems a good un don't she


Mial me you, and tell aunty jojo!! grin
Dec 5, 2008 5:14 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
jojo69: yeah of course!!


I thought that was it...
Dec 5, 2008 5:49 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
ohh am all bashful now a good un? and wise? and common sense? never usually mix in the sentence with me lol!!

i am the annoying person who satnds in doorways and doesn't realise people are trying to get through!! opppss

i was just shocked i have never received hate mail as of yet! and i have said far worse things!!!

also if those people are not big enough to reply in the forums but must reply by private email then they are cowards! slagging me off via email would of really peed me off and i would of not been as big of you jo i probably told everyone who they were!!
Dec 5, 2008 6:03 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
you deserved it?? woman you must be mad!

you said you had a f/bud so what!!! argh! you didn't deserve it! maybe it is a generation thing but nowdays it is so common i have no clue why anyone would do that to you when you bring nothing but happiness and fun to the forums! i know people who have 5!

in all honesty i think this is better than naming and shaming cause this way theyknow exactly who they are, we all don't so we won't jump on them. but they realise how they got you totally wrong.

damn clever lady in red!
Dec 6, 2008 5:28 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
are u nuts....


like i say tell um to foxtrot uncle charlie kilio...off[/quote]

Well said Angel -

However May I please advise and correct your International code just in case the mods don't now it tongue rolling on the floor laughing

It shoud have read * Foxtrot Uniform Chalie Kilo Oscar Foxtrot Foxtrot * but you were right anyway - rolling on the floor laughingrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

wine Mike
Dec 6, 2008 6:36 AM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
Angel_Diva
Angel_DivaAngel_Divawales, South Glamorgan, Wales UK62 Threads 2 Polls 901 Posts
mike1937: are u nuts....like i say tell um to foxtrot uncle charlie kilio...off[/ quote]

Well said Angel -

However May I please advise and correct your International code just in case the mods don't now it

It shoud have read * Foxtrot Uniform Chalie Kilo Oscar Foxtrot Foxtrot * but you were right anyway -

Mike


thanks Mike i couldnt remember what U was...............
Dec 6, 2008 1:45 PM CST Hate Mail.....Why send them....
FreedomLover
FreedomLoverFreedomLoverEverett, Washington USA28 Threads 867 Posts
jojo69: THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU LOVELY PEOPLE

Thanks for your support, kindness and nice words. and helping me through this.

Gotta say the mails were pretty nasty, but then, when I sat back and thought about things - I came to conclusion - I brought it on myself!!

People on here don't know the real me, they just know me via my posts - and to be honest. I do come across as a right 'slapper'! For a lot of it I am sorry! But also am not sorry too. I love having the banter on here with you all and from what I can see, you feel the same too?? Well, I have not have any mail of any of you to tell me I have over stepped the mark - Yet!! lol

So long as I Know the real me, the friends whom mail and chat with me know the real me, but most important, so long as I am a good mom and my kids know the REAL me........ THAT is all that matters to me!

And for anyone whom wants to send hate mail... How about you just ask me first, what I meant, before judging me - You just might be surprised!!!


thumbs up People do jump to conclusions.
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