ragskuttleLondon, Greater London, England UK91 posts
Some muscle is nice but not like bodybuilder big that is too much. Woman also like the muscles in the brain to be used more than the muscles in mens pants! Though the latter is handy too.
Sure they are still great and nice looking on a man. But it's more about what kind of man he is. Some with muscles want to prove how tough they think they are , that gets old after after awhile.
mylifewithu: Sure they are still great and nice looking on a man. But it's more about what kind of man he is. Some with muscles want to prove how tough they think they are , that gets old after after awhile.
Ah yes Toughness. A side effect of testosterone.I find myself using it as a cover up for lack of being smooth operator.
I tend to go more for a well-built man. To me, it means he take care of himself & has pride in his appearance. But if he's obsessed with his body... well, I'd rather he was obsessed with mine!
sweetowen: I tend to go more for a well-built man. To me, it means he take care of himself & has pride in his appearance. But if he's obsessed with his body... well, I'd rather he was obsessed with mine!
Wow! Very candid of you. I see what ya mean though.
heartbreaker99: Just for the record.My IQ is 133.Its more a lack of personality that I hope my physicality covers up.
Its about self perception then - seems to me that the more effort a person puts into covering up their percieved deficiencies, the more they build walls which keep them from the realities - a lot of wasted energy imo.......
Heart is important. It comes to others more easily than others. i havent been in love for years.Ive developed a bit of resentment and callousness over the years.Id trade my arms for true love any day.
I fall in love with the inside...that makes the outside attractive to me, regardless of musculature. It's brains, wit, and heart that will make me fall in love. And not necessarily book-smarts...there are many types of "smarts", and all are good.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
heartbreaker99: Heart is important. It comes to others more easily than others. i havent been in love for years.Ive developed a bit of resentment and callousness over the years.Id trade my arms for true love any day.
yes for me the same..Never been Married..gave up on love for about 10 years..
but now i am married and so much in love..
Patience..and just be open for it..if you stumble on it..
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