Christmas Came Early ( Archived) (19)

Dec 7, 2008 10:54 PM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
One of the rare times when I have a serious post..

Sometimes, good things happen when we least expect it. After 6 years, my 27 year old son and I have been able to repair our relationship. If you have children regardless of thier age you know how important they are and what a pain in the butt they can be at times. Then again, we (parents) are quite possibly a pain too.

It really is amazing how we can be so blind to the things/people that are most important to us. We're also quite adept at ignoring that nagging voice in the back of our heads or allowing pride to get in the way of reason. It's even more amazing to get that surge once things are made right again.

Anyway, this could not have come at a better time as I am soon departing the country again and I really wanted things straight before I left. I could not have asked for a better Christmas present.

May each of you enjoy a Merry Christmas equal to or greater than the one I just enjoyed. santa waving
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Dec 7, 2008 11:22 PM CST Christmas Came Early
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Sparky55: One of the rare times when I have a serious post..

Sometimes, good things happen when we least expect it. After 6 years, my 27 year old son and I have been able to repair our relationship. If you have children regardless of thier age you know how important they are and what a pain in the butt they can be at times. Then again, we (parents) are quite possibly a pain too.

It really is amazing how we can be so blind to the things/people that are most important to us. We're also quite adept at ignoring that nagging voice in the back of our heads or allowing pride to get in the way of reason. It's even more amazing to get that surge once things are made right again.

Anyway, this could not have come at a better time as I am soon departing the country again and I really wanted things straight before I left. I could not have asked for a better Christmas present.

May each of you enjoy a Merry Christmas equal to or greater than the one I just enjoyed.



That's good to hear and has to be a Christmas miracle....good things can and do happen at this time of year...when people finally realize just what's really important to them and open their hearts...glad to hear it sparky and have a Merry Christmas....santa waving hug teddybear hug bouquet yay
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Dec 7, 2008 11:41 PM CST Christmas Came Early
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Jerry, I could not be happier for you, my friend. What a blessing. hug
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Dec 7, 2008 11:53 PM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Thanks Hugz and Dana. It was a great day.
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Dec 7, 2008 11:56 PM CST Christmas Came Early
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
That is indeed great news. Yes the very best Christmas present!
Merry Christmas to you Jerry christmas cool
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Dec 8, 2008 12:23 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
That's terrific, Jerry! I'm so happy for you and your son (for I'm sure that this has given HIM a wonderful Christmas as well!).

Where are you going next?

A Very Merry Christmas to you!
All the best,
Jeffrey
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Dec 8, 2008 2:57 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Jerry, I could not be happier.......you have made my day

crying (tears of happiness) teddybear
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Dec 8, 2008 3:08 AM CST Christmas Came Early
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Sparky55: One of the rare times when I have a serious post..

Sometimes, good things happen when we least expect it. After 6 years, my 27 year old son and I have been able to repair our relationship. If you have children regardless of thier age you know how important they are and what a pain in the butt they can be at times. Then again, we (parents) are quite possibly a pain too.

It really is amazing how we can be so blind to the things/people that are most important to us. We're also quite adept at ignoring that nagging voice in the back of our heads or allowing pride to get in the way of reason. It's even more amazing to get that surge once things are made right again.

Anyway, this could not have come at a better time as I am soon departing the country again and I really wanted things straight before I left. I could not have asked for a better Christmas present.

May each of you enjoy a Merry Christmas equal to or greater than the one I just enjoyed.
You don't get much better than that. Merry Christmas to you. wine christmas happy
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Dec 8, 2008 3:18 AM CST Christmas Came Early
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
Sparky55: One of the rare times when I have a serious post..

Sometimes, good things happen when we least expect it. After 6 years, my 27 year old son and I have been able to repair our relationship. If you have children regardless of thier age you know how important they are and what a pain in the butt they can be at times. Then again, we (parents) are quite possibly a pain too.

It really is amazing how we can be so blind to the things/people that are most important to us. We're also quite adept at ignoring that nagging voice in the back of our heads or allowing pride to get in the way of reason. It's even more amazing to get that surge once things are made right again.

Anyway, this could not have come at a better time as I am soon departing the country again and I really wanted things straight before I left. I could not have asked for a better Christmas present.

May each of you enjoy a Merry Christmas equal to or greater than the one I just enjoyed.


Same here! My son has only recently started talking to me again and he's only 23 but ignored me 99.999% of the time the past few years....... I'm very pleased for you (and myself too).

thumbs up
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Dec 8, 2008 3:23 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
That is a wonderful thing for the both of you! Just awsome......
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Dec 8, 2008 3:26 AM CST Christmas Came Early
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
A very Merry xmas to you.....that is truely wonderful news....wave
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Dec 8, 2008 7:41 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Thanks you all very much for your comments. And again, Merry Christmas to all.
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Dec 8, 2008 7:53 AM CST Christmas Came Early
lovenkisses
lovenkisseslovenkissesSomewhere in, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 208 Posts
Sniff! That made my eyes burn. These are the stories I love to hear!

Very happy for you!thumbs up
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Dec 8, 2008 8:32 AM CST Christmas Came Early
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
this is awesome news sparky. while i was reading this , couldnt help but cry.....going through a simular situation with my son. not as many years, but we are trying to get it together.
thanks for sharing, this was lovely. great thread btw and merry christmas to you toohug bouquet santa waving christmas happy
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Dec 8, 2008 8:41 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
lovenkisses: Sniff! That made my eyes burn. These are the stories I love to hear!

Very happy for you!


Thanks... I am really fortunate...
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Dec 8, 2008 8:46 AM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Thanks Katie, I wish you luck with your son. I think most of us are hardheaded sometimes especially when it comes to family. I guess it's because we know they'll forgive us for just about anything. Merry Christmascold santa waving christmas happy
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Dec 8, 2008 9:14 AM CST Christmas Came Early
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
Sparky55: Thanks Katie, I wish you luck with your son. I think most of us are hardheaded sometimes especially when it comes to family. I guess it's because we know they'll forgive us for just about anything. Merry Christmas
thank-you so much. i think we are both frustrated but i have been through sooooo much with him! but thanks for the encouragement.hug
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Dec 8, 2008 10:19 AM CST Christmas Came Early
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Sparky55: One of the rare times when I have a serious post..

Sometimes, good things happen when we least expect it. After 6 years, my 27 year old son and I have been able to repair our relationship. If you have children regardless of thier age you know how important they are and what a pain in the butt they can be at times. Then again, we (parents) are quite possibly a pain too.

It really is amazing how we can be so blind to the things/people that are most important to us. We're also quite adept at ignoring that nagging voice in the back of our heads or allowing pride to get in the way of reason. It's even more amazing to get that surge once things are made right again.

Anyway, this could not have come at a better time as I am soon departing the country again and I really wanted things straight before I left. I could not have asked for a better Christmas present.

May each of you enjoy a Merry Christmas equal to or greater than the one I just enjoyed.



though it doesn't look good on my resume:


I am very happy to hear of a reunion of family. At the end of the day, that is all you really have!
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Dec 8, 2008 3:54 PM CST Christmas Came Early
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
pretzelman: though it doesn't look good on my resume:I am very happy to hear of a reunion of family. At the end of the day, that is all you really have!


Thanks Ship Pretzelman. I'm sure that comment didn't hurt your resume..beer
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