cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
i found him/her, that's the love of my life, i swear it's exactly what i was looking for"?
And then you insistently send her/him messages beging for her to realise that you were meant to be?
Don't
Ever had that experience guys?
This made me realise that dreams are dreams and the truth is completely different. How many times we fantasies even with a relationship that we are having? How many times we believe that the person loves us even though the person doesn't call, doesn't contact you for ages? Why do we have to believe that he/she must be shy or going through some difficult time that can't call you? Have you ever loved someone but couldn't contact her/him for long even though you had all the technologies available to you? Isn't clear that when you love someone you want to hear, be with that person? If you call that person every six months, that's lust, right?
cristina: i found him/her, that's the love of my life, i swear it's exactly what i was looking for"?
And then you insistently send her/him messages beging for her to realise that you were meant to be?
Don't
Ever had that experience guys?
This made me realise that dreams are dreams and the truth is completely different. How many times we fantasies even with a relationship that we are having? How many times we believe that the person loves us even though the person doesn't call, doesn't contact you for ages? Why do we have to believe that he/she must be shy or going through some difficult time that can't call you? Have you ever loved someone but couldn't contact her/him for long even though you had all the technologies available to you? Isn't clear that when you love someone you want to hear, be with that person? If you call that person every six months, that's lust, right?
cristina: i found him/her, that's the love of my life, i swear it's exactly what i was looking for"?
And then you insistently send her/him messages beging for her to realise that you were meant to be?
Don't
Ever had that experience guys?
This made me realise that dreams are dreams and the truth is completely different. How many times we fantasies even with a relationship that we are having? How many times we believe that the person loves us even though the person doesn't call, doesn't contact you for ages? Why do we have to believe that he/she must be shy or going through some difficult time that can't call you? Have you ever loved someone but couldn't contact her/him for long even though you had all the technologies available to you? Isn't clear that when you love someone you want to hear, be with that person? If you call that person every six months, that's lust, right?
Hum
I am a tad confused at your question here Cris.
Contact? Yes it is important, I think more so for women, we need contact.
Yes, there are times when contact is difficult. Not many people are uncontactable these days. They choose to be if they are.
I waited to strike, I mailed, I got a response, if I had not, then I would have let it go.
Dreams can become real, Cris.
I dream, of running off into the sunset, but I am a realist and I make my own dreams.
And when you love a person, it is perfectly natural to be want to have contact with that person, perfectly natural.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Sommerauer71: Hum
I am a tad confused at your question here Cris.
Contact? Yes it is important, I think more so for women, we need contact.
Yes, there are times when contact is difficult. Not many people are uncontactable these days. They choose to be if they are.
I waited to strike, I mailed, I got a response, if I had not, then I would have let it go.
Dreams can become real, Cris.
I dream, of running off into the sunset, but I am a realist and I make my own dreams.
And when you love a person, it is perfectly natural to be want to have contact with that person, perfectly natural.
Yes, let it go if you don't have a response Yes, it's perfectly natural to wan contact when you love someone... Unwilling to contact- we can't risk saying that a person may choose not to contact even if he/she is burning of love for you...and you feel the same way for him/her?
cristina: Yes, let it go if you don't have a response Yes, it's perfectly natural to wan contact when you love someone... Unwilling to contact- we can't risk saying that a person may choose not to contact even if he/she is burning of love for you...and you feel the same way for him/her?
Hi gorgeous.
I think we have to accept it if a person does not want contact.
It is all to easy to contact people, sms, email, but if there is no response, then that is not love.
Why would a person who loves you, not want to contact you?
cristina: i found him/her, that's the love of my life, i swear it's exactly what i was looking for"?
And then you insistently send her/him messages beging for her to realise that you were meant to be?
In a word....NO.
Well, I don't say OMFG....that's the love of my life or I swear that's exactly what I was looking for...
But I think to myself "would I", and say hell yes.
I then insistently send her messages with all kinds of desperate sales pitches of myself and a wonderful future together. But I only make promises for one night of furious passion.
Well, I don't say OMFG....that's the love of my life or I swear that's exactly what I was looking for...
But I think to myself "would I", and say hell yes.
I then insistently send her messages with all kinds of desperate sales pitches of myself and a wonderful future together. But I only make promises for one night of furious passion.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
StressFree: In a word....NO.
Well, I don't say OMFG....that's the love of my life or I swear that's exactly what I was looking for...
But I think to myself "would I", and say hell yes.
I then insistently send her messages with all kinds of desperate sales pitches of myself and a wonderful future together. But I only make promises for one night of furious passion.
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And then you insistently send her/him messages beging for her to realise that you were meant to be?
Don't
Ever had that experience guys?
This made me realise that dreams are dreams and the truth is completely different. How many times we fantasies even with a relationship that we are having? How many times we believe that the person loves us even though the person doesn't call, doesn't contact you for ages? Why do we have to believe that he/she must be shy or going through some difficult time that can't call you? Have you ever loved someone but couldn't contact her/him for long even though you had all the technologies available to you? Isn't clear that when you love someone you want to hear, be with that person? If you call that person every six months, that's lust, right?