Can we at times to be honest? ( Archived) (58)

Dec 14, 2008 3:42 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
I just replied to another thread about honesty. I think at times that I am to damn honest for my own good. Do you think at times we tell to much about our self on here? Or is it ok to tell of the horrid things that has happened in our pasts? I do not want to be judged from things that has happened in my past. But yet the past is that past......dunno
What do all of you think?
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Dec 14, 2008 3:44 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
The past is what has made us who we are today. I share mine if it is relevant to the subject at hand, and have shared quite a bit of it. If what I've been through, and come through so positively and strongly helps one other person, then it's worth what I experienced, and that I shared it.
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Dec 14, 2008 3:46 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Shirley my own mother told me many years ago;
Jenny, you talk too much..........about yourself.
I don't know if this has to do with honesty perse but
just being an open book, having nothing to hide.
So yes you/we/I can be too honest for our own good.
Are we women not to be somewhat mysterious?
Lol I never make it.
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Dec 14, 2008 3:48 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hollandgirl: Shirley my own mother told me many years ago;
Jenny, you talk too much..........about yourself.
I don't know if this has to do with honesty perse but
just being an open book, having nothing to hide.
So yes you/we/I can be too honest for our own good.
Are we women not to be somewhat mysterious?
Lol I never make it.


rolling on the floor laughing Neither do I...mysterious is not something I've ever been called. Open book is more like it.
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Dec 14, 2008 3:50 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
druidess6308: Neither do I...mysterious is not something I've ever been called. Open book is more like it.

Exactly Dru....I"m the same. hug
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Dec 14, 2008 3:52 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I think there are some things that need to be kept back as it's almost impossible to give completely accurate information on a thread. Some things are better said in person.


But that's just my opinion... Whatever works for the individual.
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Dec 14, 2008 3:54 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
My mother has told me for years... Shirley you will not find what your looking for because you tell to much.
Well if/when I find that special person I do not want their to be any surprises. I have not told all but when I find that right person for me, I will.
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Dec 14, 2008 3:55 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Indyfella: I think there are some things that need to be kept back as it's almost impossible to give completely accurate information on a thread. Some things are better said in person.But that's just my opinion... Whatever works for the individual.


Thank you Indy!
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Dec 14, 2008 3:56 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Shirley49WV: Thank you Indy!



I would never tell anyone I have a dungeon room with whips and chains. Some women might not understand.



















jaw drop









laugh
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Dec 14, 2008 4:00 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Being honest cost me a lot of money....and more.

That said it cant get worse and there's no advantage in me lying about it.cheers
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Dec 14, 2008 4:01 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Indyfella: I think there are some things that need to be kept back as it's almost impossible to give completely accurate information on a thread. Some things are better said in person.But that's just my opinion... Whatever works for the individual.


True...which is why I corrected something left out of one story on the two threads it had been shared on. I'd never written the story before, and left out a bit of important information since it's a very personal thing that was hard to share. That turned out to be rather pertinent info that got left out.

However, the reason that I did it in the thread was to share it with someone in particular, and since it was already written in here, it was easier to do it that way than to write it again. Sometimes I find it easier to share those things here in forums than to write them one-on-one.

hug
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Dec 14, 2008 4:01 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Sometimes you can be honest and still be honest! by this I mean.

A lady comes to my father and is proud of her hat......which is awefull looking. But not wanting to hurt her feelings and taste is subject. my father said in all honesty after being asked an opinion.

"You know, anyone thats wants that kind of hat, thats the one they should buy if they can."

She replied, "Thank you I like it too."



grin Me daddy not so dumb!rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2008 4:02 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Indyfella: I would never tell anyone I have a dungeon room with whips and chains. Some women might not understand.


Oh you bad boy!rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2008 4:02 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
druidess6308: True...which is why I corrected something left out of one story on the two threads it had been shared on. I'd never written the story before, and left out a bit of important information since it's a very personal thing that was hard to share. That turned out to be rather pertinent info that got left out.

However, the reason that I did it in the thread was to share it with someone in particular, and since it was already written in here, it was easier to do it that way than to write it again. Sometimes I find it easier to share those things here in forums than to write them one-on-one.



I wasn't being critical about anything at all. hug
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Dec 14, 2008 4:04 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Sometimes you can be honest and still be honest! by this I mean.

A lady comes to my father and is proud of her hat......which is awefull looking. But not wanting to hurt her feelings and taste is subject. my father said in all honesty after being asked an opinion.

"You know, anyone thats wants that kind of hat, thats the one they should buy if they can."

She replied, "Thank you I like it too."
Me daddy not so dumb!


Understandable on that count. tongue
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Dec 14, 2008 4:05 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Indyfella: I wasn't being critical about anything at all.


I know. I was just responding with an example. hug
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Dec 14, 2008 4:07 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
lorax111
lorax111lorax111richmond, Virginia USA22 Threads 2 Polls 1,002 Posts
Indyfella: I would never tell anyone I have a dungeon room with whips and chains. Some women might not understand.


Indi if you want to attract those women you should advertise how nice/ and how not nice the dungeon is.


Dennis
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Dec 14, 2008 4:07 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
What I was referring to was out past. Plain and simple do we need to tell all the bad things that has happened? And maybe our infidilty.....
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Dec 14, 2008 4:14 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
lorax111
lorax111lorax111richmond, Virginia USA22 Threads 2 Polls 1,002 Posts
Shirley49WV: What I was referring to was out past. Plain and simple do we need to tell all the bad things that has happened? And maybe our infidilty.....



Yes but not on the first date.


Dennis
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Dec 14, 2008 4:16 PM CST Can we at times to be honest?
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Sometimes you can be honest and still be honest! by this I mean.

A lady comes to my father and is proud of her hat......which is awefull looking. But not wanting to hurt her feelings and taste is subject. my father said in all honesty after being asked an opinion.

"You know, anyone thats wants that kind of hat, thats the one they should buy if they can."

She replied, "Thank you I like it too."
Me daddy not so dumb!


Very diplomatic. laugh I remember one of my teachers at the GIA said that when people showed him their diamonds which were of poor quality he always told them, "I'm sure that brings you a lot of pleasure." Which I thought was a nice way of avoiding their real question.
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