Do we really exist? ( Archived) (27)

Dec 15, 2008 10:21 AM CST Do we really exist?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I was wondering how much each of us exists in others' RL worlds. Are we thought about, talked about, etc.? Or do we go away as soon as the little electronic box is turned off? What impact do we have on each other's lives also?
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Dec 15, 2008 10:25 AM CST Do we really exist?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
sweetowen: I was wondering how much each of us exists in others' RL worlds. Are we thought about, talked about, etc.? Or do we go away as soon as the little electronic box is turned off? What impact do we have on each other's lives also?


For me, some people definately exist when the box is turned off. Ive met the most amazing women and they are a huge part of my life now. They have done so much for me and their support had been unwavering

Thank you girlies

Friends forever



teddybear
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Dec 15, 2008 10:25 AM CST Do we really exist?
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
People only exist after I shake there hand.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:25 AM CST Do we really exist?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
sweetowen: I was wondering how much each of us exists in others' RL worlds. Are we thought about, talked about, etc.? Or do we go away as soon as the little electronic box is turned off? What impact do we have on each other's lives also?



Hum Owen

Interesting.

For me I have personal friends here, over in the EU so they are a part of my life, friends are. The fact that I meet them on the forum there is an added bonus for me.

One man is particularly real, I wake up next to him.

After that, good discussion and the occasional spat leaves my mind when I click 'Sign out Sommerauer71'
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Dec 15, 2008 10:35 AM CST Do we really exist?
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
Hmmm! is any of it any of it real, here, there or anywhere?
I was thinking about it earlier today funnily enough. I had a bit of a lights out experience some years back, and I was wondering if in reality that was the last moment I really experienced and everything since was just my imagination.

Then I thought about it for another minute or so and thought what the hell do I care as I seem happy enough where I am now. roll eyes
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Dec 15, 2008 10:38 AM CST Do we really exist?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
I think about owen VERY often. Probably too often. As I see patients, I often say to myself, "She is pretty, but not as pretty as owen." or "I wonder what owen is doing right now?"

It has become quite a habitual thing.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:39 AM CST Do we really exist?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
DazzleYou: I think about owen VERY often. Probably too often. As I see patients, I often say to myself, "She is pretty, but not as pretty as owen." or "I wonder what owen is doing right now?"

It has become quite a habitual thing.



Oh DR Dazzle, that is lovely.

I like that.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:40 AM CST Do we really exist?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
***Do we really exist?


Ask the I.R.S.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:41 AM CST Do we really exist?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
sweetowen: I was wondering how much each of us exists in others' RL worlds. Are we thought about, talked about, etc.? Or do we go away as soon as the little electronic box is turned off? What impact do we have on each other's lives also?


For me they definitely continue to exist - a whole cast of characters that has both influenced, vexed, and amused me. It's like being part of a community - akin to living in a large neighborhood where people tend to stay in touch.

But then my computer's almost always on - at least hibernating - so one can never be sure...dunno wine
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Dec 15, 2008 10:44 AM CST Do we really exist?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Hi Sweet, wave

I think it's like every interaction we have, we take from it what pertains to us as an individual

We can allow ourselves to be influenced a small bit or a lot, or even not at all.

I try to enter some discussion that I'm interested in and find myself learning from some people.

Its why I interact........to learn other peoples point of view so I can have a rationilisation.

The Big Chill

''Ever gone a day without havin a rationalisation''

Anyway gr8 thread and sorry about bein all serious ...........not like me doh

wave
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Dec 15, 2008 10:45 AM CST Do we really exist?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
sweetowen: Actually, I was thinking about this yesterday, as I was driving. Funny what you think of while you're supposed to be paying attention to traffic....


laugh

Long drives "away from it all",are great for that.

Get back in Nascar driver mode.Vroom Vroom.Hey mister,get outta my way.
Actually,it's probably icy there too.Carefu.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:46 AM CST Do we really exist?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
CrosstownTraffic: Hmmm! is any of it any of it real, here, there or anywhere?
I was thinking about it earlier today funnily enough. I had a bit of a lights out experience some years back, and I was wondering if in reality that was the last moment I really experienced and everything since was just my imagination.

Then I thought about it for another minute or so and thought what the hell do I care as I seem happy enough where I am now.


Ironically, I've had the same thought. When something major happens to us & we come out of consciousness, are we still there or have we just entered a new rhealm?
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Dec 15, 2008 10:47 AM CST Do we really exist?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
DazzleYou: I think about owen VERY often. Probably too often. As I see patients, I often say to myself, "She is pretty, but not as pretty as owen." or "I wonder what owen is doing right now?"

It has become quite a habitual thing.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Yeah right! Sure you do!
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Dec 15, 2008 10:47 AM CST Do we really exist?
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Some CSers exist in my RL.. I have met quite a few from here and have visited them, they have visited me. I dated a CSer for 6 months. I have partied with 100s... Heck last Jan.. I shared a flat with 4 of them, strangers now friends.. (even the one who left his Calvins on the coffee table rolling on the floor laughing )

conversing hug
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Dec 15, 2008 10:48 AM CST Do we really exist?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
sweetowen: I was wondering how much each of us exists in others' RL worlds. Are we thought about, talked about, etc.? Or do we go away as soon as the little electronic box is turned off? What impact do we have on each other's lives also?



I know all my friends and one special Irishman exist in my daily life...I think about all of them often...wonder what they are up to and miss them on a regular basis when I haven't spoken to them in awhile...so no...they don't go away when my comp is turned off....they are with me all the time....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Dec 15, 2008 10:51 AM CST Do we really exist?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
sweetowen: Yeah right! Sure you do!



Ummm, actually I do.
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Dec 15, 2008 10:58 AM CST Do we really exist?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Ambrose2007: For me they definitely continue to exist - a whole cast of characters that has both influenced, vexed, and amused me. It's like being part of a community - akin to living in a large neighborhood where people tend to stay in touch.

But then my computer's almost always on - at least hibernating - so one can never be sure...


Agreed!thumbs up

I'm too lazy to add my own thoughts....
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Dec 15, 2008 10:58 AM CST Do we really exist?
Flesh and blood here very real person full of complexities who has come to have a genuine fondness for a lot of the people on this forum. hug
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Dec 15, 2008 11:00 AM CST Do we really exist?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Dawn7z: Flesh and blood here very real person full of complexities who has come to have a genuine fondness for a lot of the people on this forum.



And us for you too darlin....hug teddybear hug bouquet heart beating
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Dec 15, 2008 11:05 AM CST Do we really exist?
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
sweetowen: Ironically, I've had the same thought. When something major happens to us & we come out of consciousness, are we still there or have we just entered a new rhealm?


"You think that's air your breathing?"
The Matrix
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