truth ! share what you percieve about yourself ! (10)
Dude1969: Its a new year, chance of a new start, reflect on ones life
and find truth in attitude and perception of yourself.
how do you see yourself, how do you think you failed yourself so far,
or here's my tuth, my consistent mistakes with ALL
my former patners has been my inability to see my failings.
its somtimes to much to surround a person with affection and concideration at the sacrifice or oneself, it leaves the other feeling clostofobic within the relationship and choking on well meaning. I find it hard to tear myself away from doing the good guy thing and concentrate on what is needed to be done to keep the balance IE: letting her do things for me, paying for her own travel,clothes,food, and letting her show me affection without over doing the appreciation. a simple rose can say I love you just as much as doing everything and anything.
if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !
and find truth in attitude and perception of yourself.
how do you see yourself, how do you think you failed yourself so far,
or here's my tuth, my consistent mistakes with ALL
my former patners has been my inability to see my failings.
its somtimes to much to surround a person with affection and concideration at the sacrifice or oneself, it leaves the other feeling clostofobic within the relationship and choking on well meaning. I find it hard to tear myself away from doing the good guy thing and concentrate on what is needed to be done to keep the balance IE: letting her do things for me, paying for her own travel,clothes,food, and letting her show me affection without over doing the appreciation. a simple rose can say I love you just as much as doing everything and anything.
if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !
Dude1969: if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !
Sorry dude pressed the wrong button....
If you squeeze a lump of coal long enough you'll have a diamond....Think positive..Happy new year
phoenix: Sorry dude pressed the wrong button....
If you squeeze a lump of coal long enough you'll have a diamond....Think positive..Happy new year
If you squeeze a lump of coal long enough you'll have a diamond....Think positive..Happy new year
I am thinking positive, I know the problem and know the solution.
being to good. and nice scare's the crap out of some women.
and being a hard man all the time is just counter produtive.
finding a balance is the start to a new beginning. acting on it is the hardest part...
good luck for the year, I hope you find the key to solice and contentment. and a good woman to share it with.
James
you got that rite fellas but a lady will move the goal posts on ya aswell my exwife fell for me coz i was a soft touch and would do any thing for her. but after a few years she changed her wants to the hard man type so inevetably we split,so is this my fault for being a softy or hers for changing.............
ducattimattie: you got that rite fellas but a lady will move the goal posts on ya aswell my exwife fell for me coz i was a soft touch and would do any thing for her. but after a few years she changed her wants to the hard man type so inevetably we split,so is this my fault for being a softy or hers for changing.............
Maybe it was none of your faults 
... Could be you just outgrew each other, loads of marriages don't last forever, so don't take it too personally 
Plenty of more fish in the sea anyway, you just need to make sure your rods long enough to reel them in
And always remember the "Golden Rule" ... if you can't have the one you love, then love the one you're with
Happy 2009
Dude1969: I wouldnt say your a cow with your gob, your quite right on, stand up for yourself. aint nothing wrong with that !
mwah ! good luck and all the best for 2009
mwah ! good luck and all the best for 2009
Thank you xx (I know.... well we both know... There will be others whom will disagree with you!!) But Thank you! Best of luck to you and yours in 2009!!
Jojojo69: Thank you xx (I know.... well we both know... There will be others whom will disagree with you!!) But Thank you! Best of luck to you and yours in 2009!!
Jo
Jo
we've had a one or two missunderstandings. and you've never been over aggresive or vindictive.
you gave me chance to exsplane, apologise or whatever. and accepted/ trusted my word. and then played it all down.
your a babe... true to reality
Shhh ! you know I thought you was only about 26 !
Dude1969: we've had a one or two missunderstandings. and you've never been over aggresive or vindictive.
you gave me chance to exsplane, apologise or whatever. and accepted/ trusted my word. and then played it all down.
your a babe... true to reality
Shhh ! you know I thought you was only about 26 !
you gave me chance to exsplane, apologise or whatever. and accepted/ trusted my word. and then played it all down.
your a babe... true to reality
Shhh ! you know I thought you was only about 26 !
JAMES!!! Behave ya self and stop being a charmer!! LOL
All joking apart, we have had slight ermm confliction, but we have sorted it... We are still mates!
As for trusting your word??? You know I do!
Quote:-- Push me into a corner and be nasty with me. And I am a cow with my gob!!!! Unquote..
OMG sounds like dream conditions.
OMG sounds like dream conditions.
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and find truth in attitude and perception of yourself.
how do you see yourself, how do you think you failed yourself so far,
here's my tuth, my consistent mistakes with ALL
my former patners has been my inability to see my failings.
its somtimes to much to surround a person with affection and concideration at the sacrifice or oneself, it leaves the other feeling clostofobic within the relationship and choking on well meaning. I find it hard to tear myself away from doing the good guy thing and concentrate on what is needed to be done to keep the balance IE: letting her do things for me, paying for her own travel,clothes,food, and letting her show me affection without over doing the appreciation. a simple rose can say I love you just as much as doing everything and anything.
if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !