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Jan 3, 2009 5:09 AM CST Your two cents please
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.
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Jan 3, 2009 5:11 AM CST Your two cents please
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Shadow_lover: Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.


If the trip is paid for, then go and have a great time...
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Jan 3, 2009 5:12 AM CST Your two cents please
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Shadow_lover: Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.
Take the holiday, what harm can it do? Suck down those pina coladas and enjoy.wine
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Jan 3, 2009 5:15 AM CST Your two cents please
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
confused You purchased an engagement ring for someone you hadn't met yet?
Hock the ring, hop on the plane, and enjoy yourself........
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Jan 3, 2009 5:20 AM CST Your two cents please
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
If you are heading to somewhere north and cold in March, stay in West Palm laugh
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Jan 3, 2009 5:28 AM CST Your two cents please
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Shadow_lover: Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.


Whats the worst thing that can happen ?

You have a holiday.........

Hock the ring and hav a blowout



grin
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Jan 3, 2009 5:36 AM CST Your two cents please
Vido1
Vido1Vido1Koeln, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany7 Threads 3 Polls 169 Posts
If she doesn't respond, she probably has got a few doors open! Before you make plans like this, make sure you have seen her on webcam (coz this is a 99% gurantee that this person is real!)

I had a contact like this, saw the lady several times on cam, had lot's of chats with her and finally went all the way to see her - but the real person was a bit different from what I expected. We had a good time, and we're still in contact, but there will be no more!

Main rason: she was too young and I didn't know b4.
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Jan 3, 2009 5:36 AM CST Your two cents please
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Does hock mean pawn? Or sell?

God the new words I learn in English everyday.

And my father is English.
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Jan 3, 2009 6:02 AM CST Your two cents please
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
Sell the ring. Use the proceeds on the holiday for drinking money and enjoy.

Their loss not yours....
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Jan 3, 2009 10:19 AM CST Your two cents please
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
Sommerauer71: Does hock mean pawn? Or sell?

God the new words I learn in English everyday.

And my father is English.


Yes it means pawn normally but it can be taken either way, in this case I think it would be just sell.
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Jan 3, 2009 10:23 AM CST Your two cents please
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
By all means take the trip and enjoy life. Hell you might find the woman of your dreams while you are not looking in this city. As far a the ring. I would put it up somewhere in your house and look at it from time-to-time to remind you to be more careful in the future, but don't stop looking. The right lady is out there looking for you.
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Jan 3, 2009 10:24 AM CST Your two cents please
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Shadow_lover: Yes it means pawn normally but it can be taken either way, in this case I think it would be just sell.


Thank you, it is a new word for me.
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Jan 3, 2009 10:47 AM CST Your two cents please
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
In response to: Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.






bouquet I'm sorry things didn't work out. Knowing you, you already have a feeling of what you want to do-whatever that may be. I suggest you do what you want to---one never knows...wink


wave luck my friendteddybear
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Jan 3, 2009 11:58 AM CST Your two cents please
Beethovenfan
BeethovenfanBeethovenfanWest County St. Louis, Missouri USA6 Threads 219 Posts
ohhh...most definitively take the trip...if things don't work out..,maybe you will make a new friend....teddybear
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Jan 3, 2009 12:08 PM CST Your two cents please
pahotman
pahotmanpahotmanMonroeville, Pennsylvania USA43 Posts
Have a blast dude!!!! GOGOGOGOGO!!!!!wave
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Jan 3, 2009 12:13 PM CST Your two cents please
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Hey Shadow...hope you are well...handshake

I know where you are going. If you want to go there for vacation, it would be a cool trip. But if you don't want to go there, exchange the tickets to go somewhere else.

If there is no chance with her, then why go to where she lives? Go where you would like to go...good luck to you.
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Jan 3, 2009 12:14 PM CST Your two cents please
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
SO, James, what do you want to do? Is it a location that you would normally want to visit? If so, take the trip. hug
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Jan 3, 2009 12:23 PM CST Your two cents please
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Shadow_lover: Well awhile ago I met someone on here, and we had problems with traveling to one another. I did go all the way, bought the ring with plans of long term, but things didn't work out for us. I had been planning a trip to see her at the end of March, but I never said anything because I was worried something might go wrong. Now we have not spoken in some time, but I still have this trip as a possibility, so my question is do I still get on the plane and take the trip as a vacation, or do I scrap the trip all together? There is no chance of being with her, so it would be a vacation and nothing more. Your opinions are apriciated.


send me the ringgrin
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Jan 3, 2009 12:27 PM CST Your two cents please
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
i like my idea much better then these advices

send me the DAMN RINGgrin
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Jan 3, 2009 12:35 PM CST Your two cents please
blissfull
blissfullblissfullANGOLA, Indiana USA3 Threads 96 Posts
my dear, the fates have been more kind than they appear. you still poccess the ring, your freedom to continue searching, and tickets to exchange or use.

seems this girl really managed to get deep in your soul, i'm sure the void is very painful. i'd definitely take the trip i'm sure you need a vacation and a new view to regain your prespective.

it's a new year, time for a new quest,

tt
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