3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have? ( Archived) (17)

Jan 7, 2009 7:59 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.
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Jan 7, 2009 8:25 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.


Morning! wave No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.
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Jan 7, 2009 8:27 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
I have no guidelines in which I go by... No specific set of rules I date by.... Those things are stupid to me....
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Jan 7, 2009 8:28 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
woody636: Morning! No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.
What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man.
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Jan 7, 2009 8:32 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
pubwrite08: What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man.


Thx, darlin! blushing
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Jan 7, 2009 8:35 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
woody636: Morning! No expectations whatsoever. Whatever happens; happens. For me, the lady has to feel completely comfortable; I just sort of follow her lead. If/when she's ready, it'll happen. In the meantime, just enjoy the companionship and doing different things together.


I feel the same way! All good things, in their time.wave cheers
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Jan 7, 2009 8:42 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
wixomwizard: I feel the same way! All good things, in their time.


thumbs up Hey Wiz! What's up, bud? Life treating you okay? cheers
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Jan 7, 2009 8:50 AM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.


Stop putting expectations on relationships. Go with the flow. If it is meant to be then it will happen.
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Jan 7, 2009 1:50 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Three days?

No waylaugh


Three dates? Not likely unless we're talking once a week.



And by the way, after waiting THREE MONTHS to see the goods....


.....it was a disappointment and I'd wasted three months sigh


rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Jan 7, 2009 1:58 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
No guidlelines here, just let it happen when the time feels right.
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Jan 7, 2009 2:03 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
just when it feels right
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Jan 7, 2009 2:24 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
i follow my body's guidelines if i want it i get it that cud be first date r tenth date as long im comfortable with the person who says there shud be a right r wrong time jmo
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Jan 7, 2009 2:28 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
redbellypirhana
redbellypirhanaredbellypirhanaPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Threads 793 Posts
It happens when it happens!!!...head banger But I like it when it happens sooner then later!!!...head banger head banger head banger
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Jan 7, 2009 2:32 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
buzzy: Stop putting expectations on relationships. Go with the flow. If it is meant to be then it will happen.


I agree with you buzzy...if you try and force it to happen...it will never work out...JMO
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Jan 12, 2009 7:22 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
3 months is an awful long time to wait to be disappointed.

arabella: Three days?

No way Three dates? Not likely unless we're talking once a week.
And by the way, after waiting THREE MONTHS to see the goods.........it was a disappointment and I'd wasted three months


This is the point I was feebly trying to make.
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Jan 12, 2009 7:39 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
fireliter: sure we all have some guideline when we expect to get "a little action".

just curious what type of guidelines are adhered/used from a male and females perspective about when its time/expected for "a little action" to occur.


I don't have a set guideline. It's whatever feels right with that person. I've had anything from a 3 drink rule to a 3 date rule...and none of it's wrong. wine
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Jan 12, 2009 7:48 PM CST 3 date rule or 3 day rule, what guidelines do you have?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Rule, guidelines and plans are meant to be changed. They are only something you establish until you get into real life. Then it either happens or it don't.
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