having Children (26)
yup i yusta tell my mom sworen to fun loyel to nune then i met my wife became a father of 2 step kids then i was lucky enuff to have my sun come in to the world at 10 lb lol i wold never chang it for the world children bring mutch joy and pride in to the world
and like i sed i yusta tell my mom sworen to fun loyel to nune i trooly ment it but things change
yes you can get invalved with some one ho dosent want kids and thats alrite but you have to ask your self do you want kids and are you ok with not having kids ever that meanes no one to cearry on your blud line and your dna leaves this world when you diy
realy think about waht yor life wold be doing with out had you exspireinced father /mother hood you can never poot a price on it it is price less
i wish you the best of luck on your choyse
from a prowd singl father of an 11 yer old boy
and like i sed i yusta tell my mom sworen to fun loyel to nune i trooly ment it but things change
yes you can get invalved with some one ho dosent want kids and thats alrite but you have to ask your self do you want kids and are you ok with not having kids ever that meanes no one to cearry on your blud line and your dna leaves this world when you diy
realy think about waht yor life wold be doing with out had you exspireinced father /mother hood you can never poot a price on it it is price less
i wish you the best of luck on your choyse
from a prowd singl father of an 11 yer old boy
I think sometimes younger women are more likely to say they don't want children but I wouldn't let that deter you from dating them. Sometimes it takes us a few years to realize we really do want children in our lives, whether they are planned or not planned.
When I was in my early and mid-twenties I always swore that I didn't want any children of my own but once I was 28 my point of view changed. My first child was not planned and my second child was - now all I can think is just how boring my life would be without both of them. I live every second for them - children help you realize just how important the little things in life are. Their excitement, innocence and unconditional love makes everything worthwhile.
Enough of me babbling, just know not to give up entirely on all the young ladies out there who say they don't want children initally. Of course I do realize some of them may never change their minds and may be just as happy without children but some of us can become wonderful mothers and just need a little extra time to realize it.
When I was in my early and mid-twenties I always swore that I didn't want any children of my own but once I was 28 my point of view changed. My first child was not planned and my second child was - now all I can think is just how boring my life would be without both of them. I live every second for them - children help you realize just how important the little things in life are. Their excitement, innocence and unconditional love makes everything worthwhile.
Enough of me babbling, just know not to give up entirely on all the young ladies out there who say they don't want children initally. Of course I do realize some of them may never change their minds and may be just as happy without children but some of us can become wonderful mothers and just need a little extra time to realize it.
How about if a women cannot get pregrant would you hold that against them...
Silly_Gurl: I think sometimes younger women are more likely to say they don't want children but I wouldn't let that deter you from dating them. Sometimes it takes us a few years to realize we really do want children in our lives, whether they are planned or not planned.
When I was in my early and mid-twenties I always swore that I didn't want any children of my own but once I was 28 my point of view changed. My first child was not planned and my second child was - now all I can think is just how boring my life would be without both of them. I live every second for them - children help you realize just how important the little things in life are. Their excitement, innocence and unconditional love makes everything worthwhile.
Enough of me babbling, just know not to give up entirely on all the young ladies out there who say they don't want children initally. Of course I do realize some of them may never change their minds and may be just as happy without children but some of us can become wonderful mothers and just need a little extra time to realize it.
When I was in my early and mid-twenties I always swore that I didn't want any children of my own but once I was 28 my point of view changed. My first child was not planned and my second child was - now all I can think is just how boring my life would be without both of them. I live every second for them - children help you realize just how important the little things in life are. Their excitement, innocence and unconditional love makes everything worthwhile.
Enough of me babbling, just know not to give up entirely on all the young ladies out there who say they don't want children initally. Of course I do realize some of them may never change their minds and may be just as happy without children but some of us can become wonderful mothers and just need a little extra time to realize it.
Hi Gurl,
I like your view.
walley: yup i yusta tell my mom sworen to fun loyel to nune then i met my wife became a father of 2 step kids then i was lucky enuff to have my sun come in to the world at 10 lb lol i wold never chang it for the world children bring mutch joy and pride in to the world and like i sed i yusta tell my mom sworen to fun loyel to nune i trooly ment it but things change yes you can get invalved with some one ho dosent want kids and thats alrite but you have to ask your self do you want kids and are you ok with not having kids ever that meanes no one to cearry on your blud line and your dna leaves this world when you diy
realy think about waht yor life wold be doing with out had you exspireinced father /mother hood you can never poot a price on it it is price less
i wish you the best of luck on your choyse
from a prowd singl father of an 11 yer old boy
realy think about waht yor life wold be doing with out had you exspireinced father /mother hood you can never poot a price on it it is price less
i wish you the best of luck on your choyse
from a prowd singl father of an 11 yer old boy
I think question of want to have children or no is one of the most important question you need to ask the potential future partner. If both agreed then it will be no problem.
I still think it is enough raison to make decide for or for the start of relationship.
funnylovgal: How about if a women cannot get pregrant would you hold that against them...
I do really sympathise and feel for this man or women who can’t have children even if they want. The only thing I can say, I hope they can adopt some one who will make fill that emptiness in their live.
Hi Oceans I feel if you really want children & most of know if we do or we dont then it makes sense not to get involved with someone who flat out doesnt want them I can appriciate that some do change their minds but hey lets face it It is a bif issue not like buying a new sofa ..
figgure out what you want before you start dating .
JMO
Kizzy
figgure out what you want before you start dating .
JMO
Kizzy
funnylovgal: How about if a women cannot get pregrant would you hold that against them...
repeatedly
ocean_1: I do really sympathise and feel for this man or women who can’t have children even if they want. The only thing I can say, I hope they can adopt some one who will make fill that emptiness in their live.
take mine ,,fargordy22222: take mine ,,far
Hi Gordy,
What, do you have more than enough?
kizzy27: Hi Oceans I feel if you really want children & most of know if we do or we dont then it makes sense not to get involved with someone who flat out doesnt want them I can appriciate that some do change their minds but hey lets face it It is a bif issue not like buying a new sofa ..
figgure out what you want before you start dating .
JMO
Kizzy
figgure out what you want before you start dating .
JMO
Kizzy
Hi Kizzy,
It seem you have been there already .
I think both agreed, it is a big issue need to be discuss before getting involved in relationship.
Come on any more opinion.
The thread is Starving.
The thread is Starving.
ocean_1: Come on any more opinion.
The thread is Starving.
The thread is Starving.
Awww poor, Ocean. Here's a tissue - lol. Sorry you're not getting a huge response.
I already have a child, so yes, I could get involved with someone who didn't want children. In fact, i'm 22, and I don't know if I want another. If I had no kids and really wanted them, ya I might still date the person but I wouldn't be thinking it as long-term/lasting unless they changed their mind. You either can give up the idea of children, or find somebody who can give it to you. The choice is whatever is easier.
Silly_Gurl: Awww poor, Ocean. Here's a tissue - lol. Sorry you're not getting a huge response.
Hi darling,
Did you see that?
Poor response to an important issue.
Thanks for comforting me.
When I was younger, I always KNEW that I would be a mom....unfortunately, to this day, I am not....
however, I would LOVE the idea of having at least one! My timer is ticking BUT I do not lose hope....
Funny thing is that men my age have already HAD their kids and don't want anymore....and I do....THAT causes a problem, with me anyways...... cause I cannot be with someone whom does not want to share in that joy with me....
so really, it isn't all about the YOUNGER women not wanting kids but moreso, the OLDER ones who do!
I think that when we are young, we want to "explore the world" and all it has to offer....may it be travelling, dating, living life to the fullest or just getting a career on track....as we get older, the thought of a child does cross our minds...but that usually happens when we DO meet someone and feel that this is the person whom we want to live the rest of our lives with...and with what better addition than a child!
JMO!
cheers
Curvy
however, I would LOVE the idea of having at least one! My timer is ticking BUT I do not lose hope....
Funny thing is that men my age have already HAD their kids and don't want anymore....and I do....THAT causes a problem, with me anyways...... cause I cannot be with someone whom does not want to share in that joy with me....
so really, it isn't all about the YOUNGER women not wanting kids but moreso, the OLDER ones who do!
I think that when we are young, we want to "explore the world" and all it has to offer....may it be travelling, dating, living life to the fullest or just getting a career on track....as we get older, the thought of a child does cross our minds...but that usually happens when we DO meet someone and feel that this is the person whom we want to live the rest of our lives with...and with what better addition than a child!
JMO!
cheers
Curvy
ocean_1: Why some young women don’t want to have kids?
Can you get involved with some one (male/female) who doesn’t want ever to have children?
Please feel free to drop your though .
Can you get involved with some one (male/female) who doesn’t want ever to have children?
Please feel free to drop your though .
hi babe......xxx
Well i guess some women just dont want that responsiblity.....and they want their feedom
....but i had always wanted kids so ev eryones different babeshope u got you ur mail xxxtalk soon babsie
ocean_1: Why some young women don’t want to have kids?
Can you get involved with some one (male/female) who doesn’t want ever to have children?
Please feel free to drop your though .
Can you get involved with some one (male/female) who doesn’t want ever to have children?
Please feel free to drop your though .
I must admit, when I was younger, I never thought I would be a mom one day. I just could not see myself in that role. I was not even interested in kids. I had my first child at the age of 26 and my second when I was 31! I do not know what I would do without them. I would be so lonely sometimes, especially being single. Kids are sometimes challenging but so much worth it! So, if you meet a young woman who says she does not want children, give her a chance anyway. I am sure if you are right for each other, she may contemplate having children with you one day, like I did with the father of my children.
Good luck in your search.
bluebabsie: hi babe......xxx
Well i guess some women just dont want that responsiblity.....and they want their feedom....but i had always wanted kids so ev eryones different babes hope u got you ur mail xxxtalk soon babsie
Well i guess some women just dont want that responsiblity.....and they want their feedom....but i had always wanted kids so ev eryones different babes hope u got you ur mail xxxtalk soon babsie
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Can you get involved with some one (male/female) who doesn’t want ever to have children?
Please feel free to drop your though .