I once took a test after going out with many men...none of them seem to be what I was looking for. It appears that I am looking for 3% of the male population. Most women will settle for 70% of men out there! My friends all say that I am way too picky. However I really dont want to go through all the things that I went through in my marriage. Dont get me wrong! I worked very hard at my marriage but you cant work at something while the man that you love is beating you emotionally throwing things at you and telling you that he loves you and he just wants you to listen to everything he has to say and follow his rules. Life was way to hard that way! Please tell me that there is a good man out there that will treat me right! Treat me like the Lady that I am!
I have no idea.. all I am doing is fishing and hoping that I find one who has some scruples with kids, animals, and me... then that will mean he is not abusive... I was in a very abusive relationship for a few yers... and NEVER will I let that happen again...
Are there women out there that don't like abusive, drug using, Controlling men?
Ask anyone that has met me, or been in a relationship with me. I have never tried to hurt them. It ain't worth it. My personal integrity is worth more than that.
Yes, there are good men out there. I know that it is hard for you to trust my opinion but I am a good man. I cannot even fathom what goes through a man's mind who yells and throws things at not just a woman but anyone. This is just my opinion and you can take it like you want but have you thought of meeting with other women who feel the way you do? It sounds to me like you have become dependant on the way that this man treats you and you don't know how to get away. Once you find your way out of this existence you will be able to see that there are nice men out there. God bless you and keep opening yourself up to the people on these threads. There are some very nice people here, male and female that are more than willing to help you. Hang in there and keep writing!
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Please tell me that there is a good man out there that will treat me right! Treat me like the Lady that I am!