Are there men out there that are not abusive? ( Archived) (36)

May 29, 2006 5:25 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Sonigirl
SonigirlSonigirlAlexandria, Minnesota USA4 Threads 71 Posts
angel I once took a test after going out with many men...none of them seem to be what I was looking for. It appears that I am looking for 3% of the male population. Most women will settle for 70% of men out there! My friends all say that I am way too picky. However I really dont want to go through all the things that I went through in my marriage. Dont get me wrong! I worked very hard at my marriage but you cant work at something while the man that you love is beating you emotionally throwing things at you and telling you that he loves you and he just wants you to listen to everything he has to say and follow his rules. Life was way to hard that way!
Please tell me that there is a good man out there that will treat me right! Treat me like the Lady that I am!wine
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May 29, 2006 5:29 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
smalltowngirlON
smalltowngirlONsmalltowngirlONMidland, Ontario Canada28 Threads 401 Posts
Yes there are a lot of great men out there, and you will find one who will treat you the way you deserve. Just take things slow, and day by day.

Good luck to you...
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May 29, 2006 5:33 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
shallyjean
shallyjeanshallyjeanWinnipeg, Manitoba Canada45 Threads 624 Posts
sigh I have no idea.. all I am doing is fishing and hoping that I find one who has some scruples with kids, animals, and me... then that will mean he is not abusive... I was in a very abusive relationship for a few yers... and NEVER will I let that happen again...professor doh
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May 29, 2006 5:33 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Unionjoe
UnionjoeUnionjoeMedia, Pennsylvania USA48 Threads 760 Posts
Are there women out there that don't like abusive, drug using, Controlling men?

Ask anyone that has met me, or been in a relationship with me. I have never tried to hurt them. It ain't worth it. My personal integrity is worth more than that.

Joe
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May 29, 2006 5:34 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
what joe said!
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May 29, 2006 5:36 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Unionjoe
UnionjoeUnionjoeMedia, Pennsylvania USA48 Threads 760 Posts
Look, there's another of those guys your asking about....

Hi Paul. Hope your doing well.

(Great guy, Sonigirl..)
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May 29, 2006 5:37 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Doing good Joe and you?
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May 29, 2006 5:38 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Unionjoe
UnionjoeUnionjoeMedia, Pennsylvania USA48 Threads 760 Posts
VERY WELL, THANK YOU
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May 29, 2006 5:47 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
nobodyzfool
nobodyzfoolnobodyzfoolglendale, USA20 Threads 414 Posts
Yes, there are good men out there. I know that it is hard for you to trust my opinion but I am a good man. I cannot even fathom what goes through a man's mind who yells and throws things at not just a woman but anyone. This is just my opinion and you can take it like you want but have you thought of meeting with other women who feel the way you do? It sounds to me like you have become dependant on the way that this man treats you and you don't know how to get away. Once you find your way out of this existence you will be able to see that there are nice men out there. God bless you and keep opening yourself up to the people on these threads. There are some very nice people here, male and female that are more than willing to help you. Hang in there and keep writing!

Rob
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May 29, 2006 5:49 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
rascal
rascalrascalpinola, Mississippi USA6 Threads 157 Posts
i agree....good men are here
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May 29, 2006 6:15 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
I'm only interested in a best-friends relationship.

I have no interest in anything else, and never have.
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May 29, 2006 7:05 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
no all men are the same..... rolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2006 7:06 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
shallyjean
shallyjeanshallyjeanWinnipeg, Manitoba Canada45 Threads 624 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing What are you talking about??? Yes.. if you break wind I consider this a NASAL ASSAULT!~!!rolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2006 7:09 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
kiss
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May 29, 2006 7:14 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
betrayed
betrayedbetrayedAustin, Arkansas USA47 Threads 699 Posts
napalm is a jelly-type gas that burns at 2000 degrees. It not only killed you, it tortured you..
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May 29, 2006 8:11 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
<<<<<<--------- is not abusive
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May 29, 2006 8:23 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
There are lots of men out there...some are abusive some are not..the same applies to women...but the right one does exist out there for you...hug
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May 29, 2006 9:22 PM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
truckinman738
truckinman738truckinman738Montezuma, Kansas USA2 Threads 233 Posts
<<<<<<<definitely not abusive, I'm a teddy bear.innocent
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Jun 3, 2006 6:24 AM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
gravedigger22
gravedigger22gravedigger223 Threads 352 Posts
If you feel that 97% of men are abusive , you will have a long and cynical search !

tongue
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Jun 3, 2006 6:29 AM CST Are there men out there that are not abusive?
yellow_rose64
yellow_rose64yellow_rose64Stickville, Indiana USA29 Threads 1,123 Posts
Hi Digger...It ain't nice to stick yer tongue out at the

ladies.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hug


Rose.
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