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Jun 13, 2005 10:41 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
I've been trying to tell my love of my life that I love him, but he doesn't believe in love. I truely care deeply about him and want to tell him how much I love him but it hard to say the words "I love you" to him when he doesn't believe in love. How can I tell him how much I care about him with out saying the words I love you?
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Jun 13, 2005 10:59 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
chilipepr
chilipeprchilipeprWest Jordan, Utah USA4 Threads 40 Posts
Umm... Doesn't believe in love, eh?

So if one of his family members dies, he doesn't really care that much because he didn't love them? Different love, I know, but same principal.

I think someone telling you that they don't believe in love is full of crap and possibly messing with you.

That, of course, is my own opinion.

Good luck with that one.

Chili
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Jun 13, 2005 11:03 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Yeh, dosnt believe in love? Whats with that?!

Ok maybe u could say..

theres no one else i care for more then you, you mean absolutely everything to me and that will never change.

thats all i can think of right now- im sure i can come up with more.

goodluck hun
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Jun 13, 2005 11:18 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
thanks chili
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Jun 13, 2005 11:21 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
thanks simmy for your ideas!!!!! any ideas are good. I'm trying to write a poem for him telling him how much I love him and what he means to me.
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Jun 13, 2005 11:30 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
steben
stebenstebenFairlawn, Ohio USA9 Threads 265 Posts
biting my tongue!
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Jun 13, 2005 11:45 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
why bite your tongue why not say what you think?
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Jun 13, 2005 11:51 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
steben
stebenstebenFairlawn, Ohio USA9 Threads 265 Posts
ok , are we talking about your boyfriend or the guy you went to see in another country that you referred to in your other thread?
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Jun 13, 2005 11:58 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper, I hate to say it but if he says he doesn't believe in love then he probably doesn't feel it. Its hard to feel the way you feel towards someone who doesn't return the emotion but to say you don't believe in love is the same thing as saying its never happened to you....not even now
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Jun 13, 2005 12:55 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
I believe in love but my boyfriend don't!!!!!!my friend does want to take a chance with me and want to date me.
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Jun 13, 2005 1:04 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
tallmanindallas
tallmanindallastallmanindallasRichardson, Texas USA18 Threads 294 Posts
casper How about this poem?


Is it okay to feel afraid?
because I am .... sometimes
afraid of taking a chance,
afraid of losing,
even afraid of winning sometimes.
I'm scared to love too much,
scared to hold on too tight,
when you may want to be free;
scared of letting go
when I need you to hold me.
And I need to know
if it's okay to feel afraid,
because sometimes I am ....
because I love you so much.

hope it helps
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Jun 13, 2005 1:08 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
nice poem tallman!!!!! not very many poets anymore. and Yes it helped
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Jun 14, 2005 11:34 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Everyone believes om love Casper, he is just trying to protect himself from being hurt.
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Jun 14, 2005 11:59 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
babycountry28
babycountry28babycountry28saint joseph, Missouri USA15 Threads 351 Posts
I believe anyone can tell someone they love them but whats really important is to show them you love them.
Actions speak louder then words.
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Jun 15, 2005 7:02 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
dempewolfchristy
dempewolfchristydempewolfchristy25 Threads 424 Posts
There are many words other than love you can use such as cherish Its easy to get that meaning when you say I cherish you
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Jun 15, 2005 10:30 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
mike, you said once you dont believe in love and you hurt the ones you say you care about. and to me that shows you dont care about them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jun 15, 2005 11:14 AM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
kitkat28
kitkat28kitkat28Sterling, USA2 Posts
I had a similar problem with an ex-boyfriend. With him, "not believing in love" meant several things:
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1. He'd been hurt badly, and he was scared.
2. He wanted to play around with every woman in sight (including me).
3. He wasn't ready to make a commitment.
4. He wassn't mature enought to admit that he'd been hurt, was scared, and wasn't ready to commit.

Is it possible that any of these things could apply to your situation?

You can show him you love him! Be patient, understanding, don't make demands on him, don't make him talk about something when he clearly isn't ready, don't issue ultimatims.

Be his friend! Go out with your friends, date other people, get invloved in hobbies or volunteer work. Let him see that you're happy with your life the way it is. Maybe that will help him come around.

Good luck!
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Jun 15, 2005 2:01 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
Casper7ace4e
Casper7ace4eCasper7ace4eravenna, USA5 Threads 35 Posts
kit, him and I broke up and he was controlling and accused me of doing things that I wasnt doing. he was all 4 of what you said. I lost all my friends because of him. He wouldnt let me have any friends that was guys and I had all friends that was guys. I got along better with guys then the girls around here. he's the type of guy that would get a woman to think she's in love and that he's in love with them then change by mentally and emotionly abused the woman then take just about everything that the woman have and dump her and say it isnt her then get back with her and do it all over again. it was all a mind game with him. and the worst part of it was that he would sleep with me and then act cruel to me afterward. read what (mikes2005) 4 and half yrs relationship with his ex girlfriend did to him and then you would see what mine did to me
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Jun 21, 2005 6:37 PM CST how can you tell the love of your life that you love them when they dont believe in love?
kitkat28
kitkat28kitkat28Sterling, USA2 Posts
I'm sorry you were treated like that by someone who said he loved you. I think that's horribly wrong. It's good to know that you're not with him any more. I hope that you find what you're looking for. Good luck!
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