Is it best to let her walk away?? (14)
TamaroryPlymouth, Devon, England UK23 Threads 2 Polls 503 PostsHey, is it best to let a girl walk away from your life because of distance troubles?? even though you both have strong feelings for each other... is every weekend often enough to see her?? or is it better to step aside and let her reunite with her ex boyfriend??
2 words sum this up! feelings and trust.
you say you both have strong feelings for eachother so distance shouldn't be a problem.
and if you trust eachother seeing her ex will not be a problem.
hope this helps you!
you say you both have strong feelings for eachother so distance shouldn't be a problem.
and if you trust eachother seeing her ex will not be a problem.
hope this helps you!
Tamarory: Hey, is it best to let a girl walk away from your life because of distance troubles?? even though you both have strong feelings for each other... is every weekend often enough to see her?? or is it better to step aside and let her reunite with her ex boyfriend??
If she wants to get back with her ex... let her go.
I couldn't be with someone who wishes they were somewhere else. But that's just me.
If the distances are such that u can facilitate seeing each other once a week then I don't see it being much of a problem. However I fear the fact that you are even asking questions like these suggests that you aren't sure about the relationship.
To put it this way - if I ever feel doubt setting in over whether I can trust another person then I feel its best to let it go...
In the early days of a relationship its important for both people to let each other know how they feel and not to let the other person wonder. If a girl is making you feel like u are second to her ex then let her go!
To put it this way - if I ever feel doubt setting in over whether I can trust another person then I feel its best to let it go...
In the early days of a relationship its important for both people to let each other know how they feel and not to let the other person wonder. If a girl is making you feel like u are second to her ex then let her go!
but thats the thing.. the distance is only like laois and clare! its nothing really, but im just back from oz and havent a car yet.. and she was putting me before her ex last week in her messages and stuff, then just last night she said that he asked her again and she might take him up cause he lives in her town, its really screwed up too cause she has medical conditions and her ex is used to her behaviour and doesnt think i realise how bad she can get, but im not even getting a chance you know?? it sucks basically!
Tamarory: but thats the thing.. the distance is only like laois and clare! its nothing really, but im just back from oz and havent a car yet.. and she was putting me before her ex last week in her messages and stuff, then just last night she said that he asked her again and she might take him up cause he lives in her town, its really screwed up too cause she has medical conditions and her ex is used to her behaviour and doesnt think i realise how bad she can get, but im not even getting a chance you know?? it sucks basically!
well if she's even thinking about going back to her ex, she's not thinking of you! its a toughy do what you feel is right for you
Slenderblonde: If she wants to get back with her ex... let her go.
I couldn't be with someone who wishes they were somewhere else. But that's just me.
I couldn't be with someone who wishes they were somewhere else. But that's just me.
I totally agree with Slenderblonde.......I,ve had that experience and it,s better to let go and see if it,s meant to be she will come back
Good luck in what ever you choose.
Tamarory: but thats the thing.. the distance is only like laois and clare! its nothing really, but im just back from oz and havent a car yet.. and she was putting me before her ex last week in her messages and stuff, then just last night she said that he asked her again and she might take him up cause he lives in her town, its really screwed up too cause she has medical conditions and her ex is used to her behaviour and doesnt think i realise how bad she can get, but im not even getting a chance you know?? it sucks basically!
if she is saying these kinds of things to you then she is being childish,you look young which leads me to believe she is young and those are fazes we go through,I remember once as a child getting mad at my boyfriend and giving him his bracelet back so many times because of some reason or other,well one day he didn't offer it back,,,,to this day I have learned my lesson,it is one that has to be learned,you know what is in your heart,think it through,one thing you need to keep in mind? we each one of us has the key to unlock us from any situation that has us bound to it by chains.Distance should not play a part,I have said this a thousand times,who are we to tell fate where our hearts belong? good luck.
Tamarory: Hey, is it best to let a girl walk away from your life because of distance troubles?? even though you both have strong feelings for each other... is every weekend often enough to see her?? or is it better to step aside and let her reunite with her ex boyfriend??
i was in a relationship like that once
we were so in love
then a ex boyfriend came back to her home town
she changed and i could tell she was not for me
anyhow she said she wanted a break
i suprised her by saying ok
a few weeks later i was in a pub and she and her ex was there
i walked over and congratulated her and wished them health and hapiness
she was gobsmacked
a few days there was texts and messages on my phone
she was sorry and wanted us to get back together again
she seen she had made a big mistake
i thought long and hard and in the end decided
i would not take her back
cos that could happen again at any time.
my advice to you is
let her go
i dont think u should give up cause lots of couples between working alweek and travel still manage to have go relationship, lots dont see each other during the week, i reckon your afraid of her ex talking to her and that were your mixed feeling are coming in think you have to ask yourself a few more questions
Come here now tama, never ever settle for second best!
If she wants to reunite with her boyfriend in the first place, it's a clear indication that her feelings are not that strong.
Ur a damn nice looking fella who can do miles better, distance shouldnt matter, if its meant to be, it will be, I learned the hard way. The way I look at it, yes, relationships need work, but when it starts to become a struggle review ur situation.
Life is too short and u are too young honey, move on.
If she wants to reunite with her boyfriend in the first place, it's a clear indication that her feelings are not that strong.
Ur a damn nice looking fella who can do miles better, distance shouldnt matter, if its meant to be, it will be, I learned the hard way. The way I look at it, yes, relationships need work, but when it starts to become a struggle review ur situation.
Life is too short and u are too young honey, move on.
just wanna stop by and say thanks to everyone for their input, i appreciate it heaps.. i thought non stop about it and in the end ive decided to move on although its not what i really want to do, but theres no point fighting it? so im gonna go to the rag week in galway tomorrow night and just go mad! i'll have a drink for everyone that posted!
thanks again
thanks again
Tamarory: just wanna stop by and say thanks to everyone for their input, i appreciate it heaps.. i thought non stop about it and in the end ive decided to move on although its not what i really want to do, but theres no point fighting it? so im gonna go to the rag week in galway tomorrow night and just go mad! i'll have a drink for everyone that posted!
thanks again
thanks again
Chin upIf it's meant for you it wont pass you by.
I agree-I wouldn't to feel like I was the runner-up either. I've had that before and I have to say, it's a horrible feeling. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't be thinking about her ex and vice versa.
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