I've been single 5 years as of this month :( (15)

Sep 29, 2008 5:59 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
boarduser
boarduserboardusercork, Cork Ireland34 Threads 91 Posts
I've changed my appearance and look a hundred times better than what i used to but nowadays women are only attracted to me when they are wasted drunk and the ones that are sober and attracted to me are of a unattractive larger-than-life nature!! frustrated

To give myself a brief description i am of a fun but slightly quiet nature and i'm quite clever in some areas such as art and sports and i am very pleasant towards women to the point that i don't really like taking the mick out of them tongue

so i ask this forum to help me in the ways of being "a bad boy" devil in order to get women professor to like me!!

P.S. I'd also like to point out that when girls come over to me and my friends they talk to them but they blank me out, except in recent times since i got my "new look" i do get noticed by a rare women every now and again, but nothing comes of it.doh
Sep 29, 2008 6:09 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
I dont know hun dunno confused dunno confused there is no accounting for taste and I have given up trying to understand what attracts people to each other. Just go out and have fun handshake comfort
Sep 29, 2008 6:14 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
ladylumps: I dont know hun there is no accounting for taste and I have given up trying to understand what attracts people to each other. Just go out and have fun

we all have to start somewhere i was single 7 years before i decided to try dating again.wave
Sep 29, 2008 6:18 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Be 8 years for me in November. smoking


Maybe I smell funny.laugh
Sep 29, 2008 6:19 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
boarduser
boarduserboardusercork, Cork Ireland34 Threads 91 Posts
True wave Unfortunately for me people just don't have the same taste as me...at least i look a lot better now than before, that's something i guess and i've been reading up on body language recently conversing applause

I think it may also be down to my friends sort of downsizing me in public...they still think i'm the quiet guy from secondary school but i've come a long way since then...in fact now i think they may be trying to sabotage my lovelife because i'm the only single guy left and they need someone to live vicariously through sigh

i think i might hang out with more positive people from now on... grin
Sep 29, 2008 6:33 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
kidatheart: Be 8 years for me in November. Maybe I smell funny.



Gee Harry, if you were here I'd date you!

I was single for 5 years after my marriage broke up!
Sep 29, 2008 6:37 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Post: True Unfortunately for me people just don't have the same taste as me...at least i look a lot better now than before, that's something i guess and i've been reading up on body language recently

I think it may also be down to my friends sort of downsizing me in public...they still think i'm the quiet guy from secondary school but i've come a long way since then...in fact now i think they may be trying to sabotage my lovelife because i'm the only single guy left and they need someone to live vicariously through

i think i might hang out with more positive people from now on...



Your nick, ain't the may west.

As for body language, non verbal language is far stronger than verbal language!

Also, you ARE very young. Seriously!


Minx!















wave
Sep 30, 2008 4:09 AM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
was never to sucessful myself with the ladies seven yrs since last gf
only advice i can give is be yourself and dont change the core of who you are no point in being someone else to get a date just be happy in who you are and the right woman will come along
Sep 30, 2008 4:39 AM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
tallaght_guy: was never to sucessful myself with the ladies seven yrs since last gf
only advice i can give is be yourself and dont change the core of who you are no point in being someone else to get a date just be happy in who you are and the right woman will come along
as 4 attraction dors anyone belive the saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Sep 30, 2008 7:58 AM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
emigre
emigreemigre40 minutes from the beach, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 173 Posts
you have my total sympathy, dodge. i'd clocked up a similar mileage until recently.

human beings have evolved to be very good at spotting tiny differences - that's in general, for instance we can all see immediately if a pattern on clothing is broken by a tiny stain. unfortunately society puts pressure on people to live life from a script and those that do can spot immediately those that don't and reject them. for instance i would rather say nothing than talk for the sake of it but a lot of people are uncomfortable with that and expect you to laugh/criticize/sympathize/accept/dismiss when they do and as soon as they suspect you aren't going to they assume you are weird. it can be anything, anything that might lead people to suspect that you may not be what the americans call a "regular guy". the irony is of course that without individual humans being different we would never have evolved to our present status at the top of the food chain.

this is my theory anyway. to see people living from a script watch big brother for ten minutes. the only good news is that there are people who actually welcome people being different, you just have a much lower chance of meeting them. if my theory is right, though, it ought to follow that cs members are probably less judgmental than average so you're probably in the right place.
Sep 30, 2008 2:27 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
Elise39
Elise39Elise39Portumna, Galway Ireland21 Threads 667 Posts
emigre: if my theory is right, though, it ought to follow that cs members are probably less judgmental than average so you're probably in the right place.
I think your right on this...I find people here to be a bit more understanding than the average...

BTW..it's been 4 years since the last boyfriend...sigh KEEP THE FAITH.
Sep 30, 2008 3:58 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
emigre
emigreemigre40 minutes from the beach, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 173 Posts
little_miss: Dont talk to me about pigs!!!

you have experience of our trottered friends ?
Sep 30, 2008 3:59 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
little_miss
little_misslittle_missOffaly, Ireland81 Threads 1,701 Posts
emigre: you have experience of our trottered friends ?


well i love those little 4 legged trotters, and will be proud owner of one soon!!
Sep 30, 2008 4:06 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
emigre
emigreemigre40 minutes from the beach, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 173 Posts
little_miss: well i love those little 4 legged trotters, and will be proud owner of one soon!!

will it be for the table or a racing pig ?
Sep 30, 2008 4:33 PM CST I've been single 5 years as of this month :(
girlie29
girlie29girlie29Limerick, Ireland1 Posts
I know i have loved my single life for the last few years and wouldn't change a bit of it.. Most of my friends are now married with smallies so now it kind of hits home a bit more!!!
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