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Jan 18, 2009 12:00 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
When can a "no" mean a yes? ...Examples,Scenarios..etc would be helpful...thank you!
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Jan 18, 2009 12:02 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
SweetbadgirlTiff
SweetbadgirlTiffSweetbadgirlTiffGainesville, Georgia USA10 Threads 2 Polls 169 Posts
lucky200761: When can a "no" mean a yes? ...Examples,Scenarios..etc would be helpful...thank you!


give her time then a no will sooner or later be a yes
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Jan 18, 2009 12:04 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
SweetbadgirlTiff: give her time then a no will sooner or later be a yes



If a guy made that statement...women would be all over him, calling him on it!!scold



NO...never means yes. No means notongue
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Jan 18, 2009 12:07 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
pretzelman: If a guy made that statement...women would be all over him, calling him on it!!
NO...never means yes. No means no
wave ...how's it going?..........did you voluntarily put that on your face??
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Jan 18, 2009 12:08 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
SweetbadgirlTiff: give her time then a no will sooner or later be a yes
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Jan 18, 2009 12:10 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
lucky200761: ...how's it going?..........did you voluntarily put that on your face??



Yes!laugh
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Jan 18, 2009 12:13 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
lucky200761: When can a "no" mean a yes? ...Examples,Scenarios..etc would be helpful...thank you!


An apologetic type no followed by a lengthy explanation could potentially become a yes if she is honest; the tone of her voice is very telling, so you might want to pay close attention to that, and btw....good lucklaugh
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Jan 18, 2009 12:13 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
SweetbadgirlTiff
SweetbadgirlTiffSweetbadgirlTiffGainesville, Georgia USA10 Threads 2 Polls 169 Posts
pretzelman: If a guy made that statement...women would be all over him, calling him on it!!
NO...never means yes. No means no


i didnt mean it in that way i meant it like like if she said no not right now then sooner or later she will say yes if she really likes him
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Jan 18, 2009 12:14 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
lucky200761: When can a "no" mean a yes? ...Examples,Scenarios..etc would be helpful...thank you!


I can only think of one occasion...

There is a character on the hilarious English T.V. series,
"The Vicar of Dibley" with Dawn French.

He is a scrawny looking gentleman with a speech impediment. When he wants to say yes, it will go something like this...

....."no, no, no, no, no....yes "

dunno
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Jan 18, 2009 12:14 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
SweetbadgirlTiff
SweetbadgirlTiffSweetbadgirlTiffGainesville, Georgia USA10 Threads 2 Polls 169 Posts
lucky200761: ...


ok for that guy to put it that way what do you mean to your question explain more
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Jan 18, 2009 12:22 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
SweetbadgirlTiff: i didnt mean it in that way i meant it like like if she said no not right now then sooner or later she will say yes if she really likes him


...handshake , but what is supposed to happen from now till then?
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Jan 18, 2009 12:33 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
SweetbadgirlTiff: ok for that guy to put it that way what do you mean to your question explain more


Are you suggesting that men should doubt every 'no' from a woman, because maybe one day, she might change her mind, for whatever reason?

Surely, as we can assume from what you stated, that the woman's 'no' meant 'no' at the time, and both parties to treat as such.

Then IF, and only IF, that same woman does change her mind, it will be totally her responsibility to convey that change of mind to the guy.

In the meantime, he would be advised to treat her original answer as a 'no' and to take her at her word, at the time.

JMO

handshake
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Jan 18, 2009 12:36 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
SweetbadgirlTiff
SweetbadgirlTiffSweetbadgirlTiffGainesville, Georgia USA10 Threads 2 Polls 169 Posts
lucky200761: ... , but what is supposed to happen from now till then?


i dont know sweetie you will just have to wait and see what happens you ever heard of the saying if you wait good things will happen if i said that right lol
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Jan 18, 2009 12:37 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
SweetbadgirlTiff
SweetbadgirlTiffSweetbadgirlTiffGainesville, Georgia USA10 Threads 2 Polls 169 Posts
venere08: Are you suggesting that men should doubt every 'no' from a woman, because maybe one day, she might change her mind, for whatever reason?

Surely, as we can assume from what you stated, that the woman's 'no' meant 'no' at the time, and both parties to treat as such.

Then IF, and only IF, that same woman does change her mind, it will be totally her responsibility to convey that change of mind to the guy.

In the meantime, he would be advised to treat her original answer as a 'no' and to take her at her word, at the time.

JMO


no i was saying give her time she will finely say yes god its kinda hard to explain i just need to keep my mouth shut lol frustrated
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Jan 18, 2009 12:42 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 Posts
venere08: Are you suggesting that men should doubt every 'no' from a woman, because maybe one day, she might change her mind, for whatever reason?

Surely, as we can assume from what you stated, that the woman's 'no' meant 'no' at the time, and both parties to treat as such.

Then IF, and only IF, that same woman does change her mind, it will be totally her responsibility to convey that change of mind to the guy.

In the meantime, he would be advised to treat her original answer as a 'no' and to take her at her word, at the time.

JMO


Not that long ago that would've been my opinion also, but I'm not so sure now...wave
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Jan 18, 2009 1:48 AM CST Ladies...When can a "no" be a yes?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
SweetbadgirlTiff: no i was saying give her time she will finely say yes god its kinda hard to explain i just need to keep my mouth shut lol


No, Sweet. I do know what you mean.

What I am saying is your thinking is not particularly rational.

That is the point I was trying to make.drinking

bouquet
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