Marriage horror stories ( Archived) (19)

Jan 18, 2009 3:26 AM CST Marriage horror stories
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Got any?
By all means and according to most sources I NEED to be married in my age.

I really don't want to. Really. Can I get a public approval or something?
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Jan 18, 2009 3:29 AM CST Marriage horror stories
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Zeloniy: Got any?
By all means and according to most sources I NEED to be married in my age.

I really don't want to. Really. Can I get a public approval or something?


You NEED to be married?

Let me for one moment assume you might even WANT to be married.

So you think collecting a bunch of marriage horror stories will help you get there?dunno
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Jan 18, 2009 3:31 AM CST Marriage horror stories
abbiye
abbiyeabbiyesofia, Sofia City Bulgaria10 Threads 344 Posts
venere08: You NEED to be married?

Let me for one moment assume you might even WANT to be married.

So you think collecting a bunch of marriage horror stories will help you get there?
laugh laugh laugh
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Jan 18, 2009 3:32 AM CST Marriage horror stories
princessadele
princessadeleprincessadelemurray bridge, South Australia Australia11 Threads 9 Polls 127 Posts
what u trying to do put us all off from ever wanting to get married
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Jan 18, 2009 3:33 AM CST Marriage horror stories
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Have a trial and just live in sinangel
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Jan 18, 2009 3:47 AM CST Marriage horror stories
Horror stories? No...not really.....

...but if it were me to suggest.....would not bother to get married if I had to go at it.......too much hassle and very costly affair when things don't work out.....

Believe me....I know...been there done that......and have been happily single ever since....

roll eyes
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Jan 18, 2009 3:52 AM CST Marriage horror stories
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Well the long and short of the subject is "Mrs. Bobbit"
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Jan 18, 2009 12:57 PM CST Marriage horror stories
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
Zeloniy: Got any?
By all means and according to most sources I NEED to be married in my age.

I really don't want to. Really. Can I get a public approval or something?


Z, you don't need marriage horror stories to persuade you not to marry. If you don't want to marry, don't. Don't do something because people tell you to. Do it because you want to and your heart is telling you to, or not to; in your case at this particular time. There's a lifetime ahead of you, enjoy each and every day. Most of all BE HAPPY and TRUE TO YOURSELF!

I'm sure you'd much rather be happy by yourself, than miserable and resentful with someone else.

wine
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Jan 18, 2009 1:22 PM CST Marriage horror stories
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Well the long and short of the subject is "Mrs. Bobbit"
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up Best one, Rilly!
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Jan 18, 2009 1:24 PM CST Marriage horror stories
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
DoznEggs: Z, you don't need marriage horror stories to persuade you not to marry. If you don't want to marry, don't. Don't do something because people tell you to. Do it because you want to and your heart is telling you to, or not to; in your case at this particular time. There's a lifetime ahead of you, enjoy each and every day. Most of all BE HAPPY and TRUE TO YOURSELF!

I'm sure you'd much rather be happy by yourself, than miserable and resentful with someone else.


Good answer, Eggs. wine

All of us who've been married can tell horror stories, I'm sure. But there are many who are happily married as well. Do what feels right for you and the lady, not what others say you should do. Nobody can predict the future...and love is always a risk.
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Jan 18, 2009 1:28 PM CST Marriage horror stories
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Zeloniy: Got any?
By all means and according to most sources I NEED to be married in my age.

I really don't want to. Really. Can I get a public approval or something?



There is nothing good about marriage. But for you "Christian" types...Paul said it is better to marry than to burn!! What a great advocate for marriage!!rolling on the floor laughing He also said...marriage is honorable among all men, and the bed ..undefiled!
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Jan 18, 2009 2:59 PM CST Marriage horror stories
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
DoznEggs: Z, you don't need marriage horror stories to persuade you not to marry. If you don't want to marry, don't. Don't do something because people tell you to. Do it because you want to and your heart is telling you to, or not to; in your case at this particular time. There's a lifetime ahead of you, enjoy each and every day. Most of all BE HAPPY and TRUE TO YOURSELF!

I'm sure you'd much rather be happy by yourself, than miserable and resentful with someone else.
THat is a good answer. grin
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Jan 18, 2009 3:21 PM CST Marriage horror stories
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
druidess6308: Good answer, Eggs.

All of us who've been married can tell horror stories, I'm sure. But there are many who are happily married as well. Do what feels right for you and the lady, not what others say you should do. Nobody can predict the future...and love is always a risk.



Zeloniy: That is a good answer.


Thank you guys!

bouquet hug
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Jan 18, 2009 3:38 PM CST Marriage horror stories
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
well- only you can know if you should get married- ( never get married because someone tell you you need to!!)

I think most of the ex marrieds on here will admit that, while they are no longer married, there were good times in that marriage. I know i feel that way-I may have been 'discontented' at points in my marriage, and finally realised i was not happy and wanted some other kind of life, but I can't say i regret being married to him. Obviously many others marry and are happy with that person for life.
I say, when you find the person you truly believe you want to spend the rest of your life with, then go for it, and hopefully it will be for everwine
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Jan 18, 2009 4:44 PM CST Marriage horror stories
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
I agree. Don't do it because of the NEED to be married. Marriage should be about loving and wanting somebody for the rest of your life, and you wanting to marry them. All I can say horror story wise, make sure you truly KNOW a person. I got married at 18 thinking I truly knew somebody, who turns into a complete oppisite a year AFTER we were married.
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Jan 18, 2009 4:49 PM CST Marriage horror stories
Zeloniy: Got any?
By all means and according to most sources I NEED to be married in my age.

I really don't want to. Really. Can I get a public approval or something?


Do you have a rich relative requiring you to be married b4 inheriting that $30Million ?


If so, I hope they are wise enough to make sure the additional requirement is you inherit only, if you marry for Love and are committed. Otherwise, stop setting yourself up for the mind trips you are trying to. . . there is no reason for it.
sad flower sad flower
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Jan 18, 2009 4:52 PM CST Marriage horror stories
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Zeloniy: Got any?
I GOT ONE.....






































SHE SAID , ''I DO''.....uh oh rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 18, 2009 5:01 PM CST Marriage horror stories
Wednesday74
Wednesday74Wednesday74Central, Florida USA3 Threads 1 Polls 813 Posts
I loved being married. Everything about it was absolutely amazing every single day. I miss it terribly - which is one reason why I'm here. Yes, I have horror stories but what will I gain out of living them all over again? It took a long, long time to heal and get over it all but I did. And now I'm ready to live in the future and meet a wonderful man!

I think it's silly to discuss all the horror stories whether you are pro or anti marriage. There is no point to it. Either you want to be married or you don't.sigh Simple as that.
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Jan 18, 2009 5:04 PM CST Marriage horror stories
zeelanderer
zeelandererzeelandererLouisville, Kentucky USA24 Threads 531 Posts
OMG where do I start... there are just so many for one marriage.

zee
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