Does Anybody Think About Marriage? ( Archived) (58)

Jun 10, 2006 7:10 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
The Total Commitment Of Does Fooling around Make More Sence?
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Jun 10, 2006 7:12 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Colin, I don't fool around.

I am a monogamous woman looking for long term/marriage eventually.

So many things come into play when making that choice. Yes, I think about marriage, even though my 20 year relationship with my ex husband did not work, does not mean that I am giving up in the institution of marriage.
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Jun 10, 2006 7:20 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
murasakiheart
murasakiheartmurasakiheartSprings, Florida USA7 Threads 343 Posts
Eventually I will as long as I find the right guy for me, but again signing a paper doesn't mean much to me other than not to be called "my girlfriend" for the rest of my life; my parents have being together for 40 years and they never married.
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Jun 10, 2006 7:22 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm No I see in your notes you don't fool around phyicaly ,but mentaly you ask alot of questions,i sure having your education your very smart but does that mean you should depreve yourself out of a relationship with a man,how many more questions? and if you did finally meet your mate could you trust him or more question? What about live and Let live?
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Jun 10, 2006 7:26 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Questioning is what keep our human minds growing. If we do not question, we do not grow intellectually.

I do not plan to deprive myself from a relationship, however, I do not want to be with someone just because they are there.

There are far worse things than being alone, one is being with the wrong person for the wrong reason.
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Jun 10, 2006 7:28 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Truer words were never spoken.
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Jun 10, 2006 7:30 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
I love you...you're just too cool....Will you marry me? grin
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Jun 10, 2006 7:36 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Sure baby. kiss
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Jun 10, 2006 7:49 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
This Is Fun GRowing Intellectually,Your Great catwm.Its always a Pleasure Talking with you and the other Women,Its very exciting for me,because where else could I possibly go to be with Brainy women.Even as tired as I am It is a great Time Just talking with YOU!!!!!!!!
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Jun 10, 2006 7:51 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Thank you Colin, there are many intelligient women on this site and many offer good advice.

The best part is that we are pretty too.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:03 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
murasakiheart,Your The One that tells all those Jokes I've read and Laught at,Yes a paper doesn't mean alot except legal,but it the emotions that go with it,it means too me i with a great friend and other guys stay away,not that it the end of life but a beging of lifes gifts a Partnership as Equals.....................................
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Jun 10, 2006 8:09 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
shallyjean
shallyjeanshallyjeanWinnipeg, Manitoba Canada45 Threads 624 Posts
Here here...professor cat and I think alike... if your unhappy in a relationship... just make like a tree and leave...


Hell I can nto even date more than oen person at a time because I am caught up in a moral issue about it....
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Jun 10, 2006 8:10 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
Queen_E
Queen_EQueen_EEdmonton, Canada3 Threads 55 Posts
I tried the whole.... fooling around... random hookups... one night stand kinda life... It's fun for a while... but it's lonely.. I would totally get married today if the right guy asked.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:12 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
Maggalicious
MaggaliciousMaggaliciousBerlin, Wisconsin USA19 Threads 1,101 Posts
I think about marriage, and it makes me want to hurl!!!barf
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Jun 10, 2006 8:15 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
jrcfan
jrcfanjrcfanStayner, Canada3 Threads 78 Posts
Very true cat, but may I add that being alone doesn't have to mean one is lonely. In fact I would rather be alone than be lonely in an empty relationship. Been there done that, got the T-shirt to prove it.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:20 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Yes, there is a difference between being alone and being lonely.

I live alone, however, I am not always lonely.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:25 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
OH ...Really,I guess Living In Florida there are Lots of Men,Ohlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Jun 10, 2006 8:35 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
specialk1
specialk1specialk1Cupids Junction, USA16 Threads 391 Posts
I think about marraige sometimes. I would probably do it again but it would take a very special man to have me walk down the isle again.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:37 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
marriage enters at least 3 of my conversations daily... and the one common remark is "Why" what are the true benefits of marriage when true love is involved?
does it enhance the love, does it gaurantee the love is everlasting? will it prevent any hard times, arguments??

30 year ago, it was You have to be married... they even withheld certain priviledges from couples that where unmarried.
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Jun 10, 2006 8:45 AM CST Does Anybody Think About Marriage?
hey that's my quote there live and let live? i didn't want to get married it's just a pieces of paper and to much trouble for the divorce collin can we divorce b4 we get mariied lol.............
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