catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
Colin, I don't fool around.
I am a monogamous woman looking for long term/marriage eventually.
So many things come into play when making that choice. Yes, I think about marriage, even though my 20 year relationship with my ex husband did not work, does not mean that I am giving up in the institution of marriage.
Eventually I will as long as I find the right guy for me, but again signing a paper doesn't mean much to me other than not to be called "my girlfriend" for the rest of my life; my parents have being together for 40 years and they never married.
catwm No I see in your notes you don't fool around phyicaly ,but mentaly you ask alot of questions,i sure having your education your very smart but does that mean you should depreve yourself out of a relationship with a man,how many more questions? and if you did finally meet your mate could you trust him or more question? What about live and Let live?
This Is Fun GRowing Intellectually,Your Great catwm.Its always a Pleasure Talking with you and the other Women,Its very exciting for me,because where else could I possibly go to be with Brainy women.Even as tired as I am It is a great Time Just talking with YOU!!!!!!!!
murasakiheart,Your The One that tells all those Jokes I've read and Laught at,Yes a paper doesn't mean alot except legal,but it the emotions that go with it,it means too me i with a great friend and other guys stay away,not that it the end of life but a beging of lifes gifts a Partnership as Equals.....................................
I tried the whole.... fooling around... random hookups... one night stand kinda life... It's fun for a while... but it's lonely.. I would totally get married today if the right guy asked.
Very true cat, but may I add that being alone doesn't have to mean one is lonely. In fact I would rather be alone than be lonely in an empty relationship. Been there done that, got the T-shirt to prove it.
marriage enters at least 3 of my conversations daily... and the one common remark is "Why" what are the true benefits of marriage when true love is involved? does it enhance the love, does it gaurantee the love is everlasting? will it prevent any hard times, arguments??
30 year ago, it was You have to be married... they even withheld certain priviledges from couples that where unmarried.
hey that's my quote there live and let live? i didn't want to get married it's just a pieces of paper and to much trouble for the divorce collin can we divorce b4 we get mariied lol.............
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