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Jan 21, 2009 8:35 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
I am very much in love with a beautiful women. She loves me and is either ALL about me or the best actress on the planet. The problem is she is a man magnet. DRIVES ME NUTS!!!!!!!!!! I feel like constantly saying " dude, step off" Guys constantly approach her. She blows them off and never invites this stuff but she's awesome. I know the problem is mine but?????????? errrrrrrrrrr New for me!!! Guys, ever deal with this one? help!! girls??
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Jan 21, 2009 8:37 PM CST help, my old friends
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
bob1959: I am very much in love with a beautiful women. She loves me and is either ALL about me or the best actress on the planet. The problem is she is a man magnet. DRIVES ME NUTS!!!!!!!!!! I feel like constantly saying " dude, step off" Guys constantly approach her. She blows them off and never invites this stuff but she's awesome. I know the problem is mine but?????????? errrrrrrrrrr New for me!!! Guys, ever deal with this one? help!! girls??


I think as long as she's blowing them off and not giving them any attention you shouldn't worry about it. It's when she starts listening to them & giving them attention that you should worry.
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Jan 21, 2009 8:38 PM CST help, my old friends
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
Thank your lucky stars she wants you and only you and quit worrying about it. When she quits showing you all her attention is when you should start to worry.
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Jan 21, 2009 8:39 PM CST help, my old friends
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
If "I" do not trust her, I have no right to be with her.dunno
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Jan 21, 2009 8:39 PM CST help, my old friends
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
hrt4lse: I think as long as she's blowing them off and not giving them any attention you shouldn't worry about it. It's when she starts listening to them & giving them attention that you should worry.
I agree and just be proud you have found one so desirable. Stay out of bars with her though. You don't want to deal with the drunks that want her.professor Goodluck to both of you.applause hug wine
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Jan 21, 2009 8:40 PM CST help, my old friends
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hrt4lse: I think as long as she's blowing them off and not giving them any attention you shouldn't worry about it. It's when she starts listening to them & giving them attention that you should worry.


thumbs up Ditto.
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Jan 21, 2009 8:45 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
hrt4lse: I think as long as she's blowing them off and not giving them any attention you shouldn't worry about it. It's when she starts listening to them & giving them attention that you should worry.
I got just what I always wished for............I guess the old saying is true.. be carefull what you wish for...you might just get it!!! I totally trust her. Like I said , the problem is mine. It's just new for me, thats all. I was hoping for some advise on how to manage my feelings.dunno
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Jan 21, 2009 8:46 PM CST help, my old friends
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
bob1959: I got just what I always wished for............I guess the old saying is true.. be carefull what you wish for...you might just get it!!! I totally trust her. Like I said , the problem is mine. It's just new for me, thats all. I was hoping for some advise on how to manage my feelings.
You will get used to it and after awhile you might be able to give the men the LOOK and they will know not to bother to approach.laugh wink devil
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Jan 21, 2009 8:49 PM CST help, my old friends
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
bob1959: I am very much in love with a beautiful women. She loves me and is either ALL about me or the best actress on the planet. The problem is she is a man magnet. DRIVES ME NUTS!!!!!!!!!! I feel like constantly saying " dude, step off" Guys constantly approach her. She blows them off and never invites this stuff but she's awesome. I know the problem is mine but?????????? errrrrrrrrrr New for me!!! Guys, ever deal with this one? help!! girls??


Just curious, Bob, how do you constantly get into these situations?

Are men who always approaching your g/f her friends, aquentances, strangers?

I am sure she is a wonderful woman, but if the two of you are some place as a couple, and men keep approaching your woman there, maybe it's about places you spend your free time at?

Just a thought.
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Jan 21, 2009 8:57 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
laura225: Just curious, Bob, how do you constantly get into these situations?

Are men who always approaching your g/f her friends, aquentances, strangers?

I am sure she is a wonderful woman, but if the two of you are some place as a couple, and men keep approaching your woman there, maybe it's about places you spend your free time at?

Just a thought.
It dosen't matter if i'm there or not. She's THAT attractive. I'm not a tough guy or anything but I'm a fairly big imposing dude and still...... I'm sure there are guys with similar experience. I'm going to have to deal with it. Just not sure how. She had to go to court to straiten out some deed stuff. TWO guys approached her at the cout house. See what I mean? We don't hang out in bars. She dosen't drink and I drink rarely, but we do go out to eat where there are bars.
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Jan 21, 2009 8:57 PM CST help, my old friends
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
bob1959: I am very much in love with a beautiful women. She loves me and is either ALL about me or the best actress on the planet. The problem is she is a man magnet. DRIVES ME NUTS!!!!!!!!!! I feel like constantly saying " dude, step off" Guys constantly approach her. She blows them off and never invites this stuff but she's awesome. I know the problem is mine but?????????? errrrrrrrrrr New for me!!! Guys, ever deal with this one? help!! girls??


Bobby!!! hug

Ive been wondering how you're doing

Lets get this one right - if its causing you so much concern - hmmmm

Bob sweetie - just let it take its course, the more of these kinda storms you learn to ride, the better man you will eventually be - its you she goes home with at nights and she does blow your competition off so whats your prob - she loves you sweetie, believe in it applause wave
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Jan 21, 2009 9:05 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
trish123: Bobby!!!

Ive been wondering how you're doing

Lets get this one right - if its causing you so much concern - hmmmm

Bob sweetie - just let it take its course, the more of these kinda storms you learn to ride, the better man you will eventually be - its you she goes home with at nights and she does blow your competition off so whats your prob - she loves you sweetie, believe in it
TRISH MY OLE' BUDDY. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING UP NOW!!!So nice to see you. I guess you know what I've been up to!!I've found love again!!!My problem....well it might be a guy thing. Tough to let a it be. I love her. OOOOh you should meet her, then you'd know.
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Jan 21, 2009 9:06 PM CST help, my old friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Hey -- where you been hiding? Good to see you and sounds like you're a lucky man -- relax!
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Jan 21, 2009 9:17 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Charli15695: Hey -- where you been hiding? Good to see you and sounds like you're a lucky man -- relax!
Oh Charlene(probably got the spelling wrong..sorry)She's going to be mad about me posting on a singles site... dosen't get CS?? I'll have to come clean now. At least you understand now. Not you AT ALL. Wanted to write sooooooooo bad but I was afraid she wouldn't get it. I guess I can open your mail now. I think the world of you. hope you understand now????

Your Bud,
Bob

p.s. Definatly not swimming on the river now. (frozen)
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Jan 21, 2009 9:21 PM CST help, my old friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Awesome! I am soooooooo very happy for you -- this is such good news to hear. You deserve this, allow yourself to have this beautiful person in your life, without reservation.

Brrrrrrrrr.....frozen swimming hole....don't think so!snowman
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Jan 21, 2009 9:27 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Charli15695: Awesome! I am soooooooo very happy for you -- this is such good news to hear. You deserve this, allow yourself to have this beautiful person in your life, without reservation.

Brrrrrrrrr.....frozen swimming hole....don't think so!
Frozen swimming hole, I have to shovel the roof tommorrow. Was -28 last fri. Talking below zero again next weekend. Sound like your va-ca destination?
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Jan 21, 2009 9:35 PM CST help, my old friends
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
bob1959: TRISH MY OLE' BUDDY. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING UP NOW!!!So nice to see you. I guess you know what I've been up to!!I've found love again!!!My problem....well it might be a guy thing. Tough to let a it be. I love her. OOOOh you should meet her, then you'd know.


To love somebody Bobby is to give them their freedom - hold your palm outstretched and if the bird flies, then so be it - if it remains then there is your answer hug
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Jan 21, 2009 9:37 PM CST help, my old friends
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
trish123: To love somebody Bobby is to give them their freedom - hold your palm outstretched and if the bird flies, then so be it - if it remains then there is your answer
Thus far the bird remains. I'm so lucky!!!
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Jan 21, 2009 9:43 PM CST help, my old friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
bob1959: Frozen swimming hole, I have to shovel the roof tommorrow. Was -28 last fri. Talking below zero again next weekend. Sound like your va-ca destination?


Owieeeeeeeeee - no thanks...it was 80 here today! yay
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Jan 21, 2009 9:44 PM CST help, my old friends
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
bob1959: Thus far the bird remains. I'm so lucky!!!


and worry will only ever cause dischord Sweetie, trust and love her and there you have her - its all in the very palm of your hands......... hug
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