LadyAussieAlone1Parkes, New South Wales Australia1 Threads1 Posts
LadyAussieAlone1OPParkes, New South Wales Australia1 posts
People To anyone who is listening, looking or just hanging about: Please make a point of checking your mail regularly; which means coming in here. I find it takes days, if ever; for a man to get back to me, when I have taken the trouble to make the first move. I am slim, reasonably attractive, employed, and have my own place. Is it because I don't have children, and will not be having any? Set your preferences in here so you receive email notification when a new message is received. If you get a message, from anyone: Take a couple of seconds to respond, because then at least they know, if you are not interested. Don't just abandon the site, because by doing so, you are leaving people waiting. If you are swamped daily with messages, then lucky you! But you can still be polite: Use a standard response for those you are not interested in. Regards LadyAussieAlone
Many if they aren't interested may not answer their mail. Also some aren't on everyday. So before writing them make sure they have been on with in a week. If they haven't been on within a week then I don't write them.
Maybe they aren't interested and do not want to hurt your feelings. I know you don't mind getting "thanks but I'm not interested" messages, but some don't answer because they don't want to send that email hurting someone because it makes them feel bad. It is pretty much common sense to me, that if I send an email and someone doesn't respond after they have logged in or shortly thereafter, I presume the obvious, the email must have gotten lost or corrupted from the server Seriously though if someone doesn't respond to me, I don't really care and the answer is obvious. They are not interested.
hawk69: Maybe they aren't interested and do not want to hurt your feelings. I know you don't mind getting "thanks but I'm not interested" messages, but some don't answer because they don't want to send that email hurting someone because it makes them feel bad. It is pretty much common sense to me, that if I send an email and someone doesn't respond after they have logged in or shortly thereafter, I presume the obvious, the email must have gotten lost or corrupted from the server Seriously though if someone doesn't respond to me, I don't really care and the answer is obvious. They are not interested.
if someone goes out of there way to e-mail me, i'm going to answer...to not do so is just rude...unless, ofcourse, it's obvious there's some scamming going on...
jlw45: if someone goes out of there way to e-mail me, i'm going to answer...to not do so is just rude...unless, ofcourse, it's obvious there's some scamming going on...
jlw45: if someone goes out of there way to e-mail me, i'm going to answer...to not do so is just rude...unless, ofcourse, it's obvious there's some scamming going on...
I have been answering the 20 & 30 something "hotties" saying to me, "tell me more about yourself dear and what you want out of a relationship" all along..
HJFinAZ: I have been answering the 20 & 30 something "hotties" saying to me, "tell me more about yourself dear and what you want out of a relationship" all along..
HJFinAZ: I have been answering the 20 & 30 something "hotties" saying to me, "tell me more about yourself dear and what you want out of a relationship" all along..
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To anyone who is listening, looking or just hanging about: Please make a point of checking your mail regularly; which means coming in here. I find it takes days, if ever; for a man to get back to me, when I have taken the trouble to make the first move. I am slim, reasonably attractive, employed, and have my own place. Is it because I don't have children, and will not be having any?
Set your preferences in here so you receive email notification when a new message is received. If you get a message, from anyone: Take a couple of seconds to respond, because then at least they know, if you are not interested. Don't just abandon the site, because by doing so, you are leaving people waiting. If you are swamped daily with messages, then lucky you! But you can still be polite: Use a standard response for those you are not interested in.
Regards
LadyAussieAlone