He Said He Will Call ( Archived) (60)

Feb 5, 2009 10:28 AM CST He Said He Will Call
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

You meet someone for the first time. He/She is more that
you even imagined. Only get to spend a few minutes
together as he/she is at work. You both do just a wee
bit of flirting and you tell said person how much nicer
they look in person then profile pic.
He/She says as you are parting they will call. How long
do you wait for that call before you pretty much figure
out he/she did not have the same reaction that you did.

dunno
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Feb 5, 2009 10:30 AM CST He Said He Will Call
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
typing popcorn sad flower
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Feb 5, 2009 10:31 AM CST He Said He Will Call
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
24 hours.
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Feb 5, 2009 10:34 AM CST He Said He Will Call
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
who knows??? some stupid people play that game, of whatever some book told them do, like wait three days or a week so you don't look that desparate, or whatever... I don't remember anyone ever mentioning that those books say longer than a week, so I can see waiting a week but no longer then that....

then if or when he does call, ask him why he waited and if he says, he didn't want to seem desparate... dump him.. because he doesn't think for himself...JMO

Good luck though..cheers
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Feb 5, 2009 10:42 AM CST He Said He Will Call
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
Tater: who knows??? some stupid people play that game, of whatever some book told them do, like wait three days or a week so you don't look that desparate, or whatever... I don't remember anyone ever mentioning that those books say longer than a week, so I can see waiting a week but no longer then that....

then if or when he does call, ask him why he waited and if he says, he didn't want to seem desparate... dump him.. because he doesn't think for himself...JMO

Good luck though..


I've remotely heard of such rules, but never met anybody playing by them.

Usually if a person is interested they call the same or the next day.
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Feb 5, 2009 10:44 AM CST He Said He Will Call
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
I've remotely heard of such rules, but never met anybody playing by them.

Usually if a person is interested they call the same or the next day.[/quote]

Indeed!
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Feb 5, 2009 10:44 AM CST He Said He Will Call
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
sassy49senior: You meet someone for the first time. He/She is more that
you even imagined. Only get to spend a few minutes
together as he/she is at work. You both do just a wee
bit of flirting and you tell said person how much nicer
they look in person then profile pic.
He/She says as you are parting they will call. How long
do you wait for that call before you pretty much figure
out he/she did not have the same reaction that you did.


Usually that day or the next...
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Feb 5, 2009 10:54 AM CST He Said He Will Call
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
You meet someone for the first time. He/She is more that
you even imagined. Only get to spend a few minutes
together as he/she is at work. You both do just a wee
bit of flirting and you tell said person how much nicer
they look in person then profile pic.
He/She says as you are parting they will call. How long
do you wait for that call before you pretty much figure
out he/she did not have the same reaction that you did.[/quote

Within 2 days IMO..................

Hope your well Sassy.............teddybear
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Feb 5, 2009 10:54 AM CST He Said He Will Call
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
DazzleYou: 24 hours.
thumbs up
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Feb 5, 2009 10:56 AM CST He Said He Will Call
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
If I end up in a private call that I whish to continue, but I am tied up at the office, I will make the call first thing walking out that door.

If it takes three days to call back... hmm...

Same goes the other way around; I talk to her, she tell she will call back later since I am kept up by something at the moment.

Now, if I have not heard from her, I will call her back before going to bed or before leaving to the office next day.

If I do not have where to call, and it takes her three days to call back, though she initiated the call, I would get rather confused of her interest and intentions.

In my world - I don't wait. Burn that book of rules and make your own.

Have a coffee!

wave
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Feb 5, 2009 11:02 AM CST He Said He Will Call
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
I don't wait for the phone to ring. Men play the game of not wanting to show interest too early after the meeting. I don't mean "game" in a negative way.

Women walk around the house trying to convince themself that they shouldn't call him but eventually they do and the resp;onse they get says it was a wasted phone call. And then the ice cream comes out
laugh laugh
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Feb 5, 2009 11:03 AM CST He Said He Will Call
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
vinny1967: You meet someone for the first time. He/She is more that
you even imagined. Only get to spend a few minutes
together as he/she is at work. You both do just a wee
bit of flirting and you tell said person how much nicer
they look in person then profile pic.
He/She says as you are parting they will call. How long
do you wait for that call before you pretty much figure
out he/she did not have the same reaction that you did.[/quote

Within 2 days IMO..................

Hope your well Sassy.............





Hi Vinny, I am fine hun, thank you for your concern. Guess I
should have waited before starting this thread. Just posted
it and he called. kiss yay
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Feb 5, 2009 11:04 AM CST He Said He Will Call
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
mike69spain: If I end up in a private call that I whish to continue, but I am tied up at the office, I will make the call first thing walking out that door.

If it takes three days to call back... hmm...

Same goes the other way around; I talk to her, she tell she will call back later since I am kept up by something at the moment.

Now, if I have not heard from her, I will call her back before going to bed or before leaving to the office next day.

If I do not have where to call, and it takes her three days to call back, though she initiated the call, I would get rather confused of her interest and intentions.

In my world - I don't wait. Burn that book of rules and make your own.

Have a coffee!




T/Y Mike, Here's a coffee for you also. cheers
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Feb 5, 2009 11:05 AM CST He Said He Will Call
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I've always heard there was a "2-day rule"... dunno
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Feb 5, 2009 11:06 AM CST He Said He Will Call
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
snugglebunnie: And then the ice cream comes out


laugh

comfort

We are not all that bad - are we?
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Feb 5, 2009 11:06 AM CST He Said He Will Call
broncos
broncosbroncosToms River, New Jersey USA5 Threads 138 Posts
Why wait?? Strike while the iron's hot!!
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Feb 5, 2009 1:15 PM CST He Said He Will Call
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Wait???

For what???laugh
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Feb 5, 2009 1:19 PM CST He Said He Will Call
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
sassy49senior: Hi Vinny, I am fine hun, thank you for your concern. Guess I
should have waited before starting this thread. Just posted
it and he called.



Hey....cheering cheering thumbs up
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Feb 5, 2009 1:24 PM CST He Said He Will Call
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
snugglebunnie: I don't wait for the phone to ring. Men play the game of not wanting to show interest too early after the meeting. I don't mean "game" in a negative way.

Women walk around the house trying to convince themself that they shouldn't call him but eventually they do and the resp;onse they get says it was a wasted phone call. And then the ice cream comes out



Thats generalizing a bit isnt it?
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Feb 5, 2009 2:19 PM CST He Said He Will Call
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

T/Y For sharing. I am a mixed bag of feelings right now
as I have no idea where we are headed. He has called me
twice again today and we have been chatting for 3 weeks
now. I am going to be a little more cautious this time.

smitten love hug
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