Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
Arlene101: I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
Arlene101: I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
If this is because of his inability to vote for the Toronto Maple Leafs you are taking things too seriously honey. Without the other teams in the league their would be noone for the Leafs to play. Come on now just forgive him for his inability to see your team like that. Of course you can do it. One foot in front of the other. You'd look wonderfully enchanting in a wedding gown and you deserve this kind of Love you know.
Arlene101: I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
Being a Red Wings fan now, you have ballz...you'll get used to them
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Arlene101: I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
Can you say why you turned him down Arlene, or is that too personal?
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
BarrenPneuma: If this is because of his inability to vote for the Toronto Maple Leafs you are taking things too seriously honey. Without the other teams in the league their would be noone for the Leafs to play. Come on now just forgive him for his inability to see your team like that. Of course you can do it. One foot in front of the other. You'd look wonderfully enchanting in a wedding gown and you deserve this kind of Love you know.
He is a big Leafs fan!!!I was married twice (one deceased) and was engaged a few times and stood for SIX weddings and there is no way in hell I can babysit him. I had a more realistic man ask me the same thing early in January but He is always right and that is that. So , that was a very long and polite No.
If you can't do it, you can't do it. However did you get a chance to talk to him about his proposal, because I think you deserve that kind of love also.
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
mbcasey: Can you say why you turned him down Arlene, or is that too personal?
No Ken, it is not too personal! He is all about him and more or less needs a mother. After six years he didn't even know I have a 16 year old grandson and I know everything about him and he even tells people that. When he is asked a question , He says "Ask Arlene, she knows more about me than I do".
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
pubwrite08: If you can't do it, you can't do it. However did you get a chance to talk to him about his proposal, because I think you deserve that kind of love also.
No , I haven't talked to him yetbut I will. I just don't want another LARGE baby.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Arlene101: No Ken, it is not too personal! He is all about him and more or less needs a mother. After six years he didn't even know I have a 16 year old grandson and I know everything about him and he even tells people that. When he is asked a question , He says "Ask Arlene, she knows more about me than I do".
I am sorry he isn't someone you are not interested in. I don't blame you...I do hope a lucky man will grab you up though....
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
mbcasey: I am sorry he isn't someone you are not interested in. I don't blame you...I do hope a lucky man will grab you up though....
Thank you Ken but I just can't handle the actual living together and all the commitment thing. Hell, I can't even commit to joing a dat league or anything like that.
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
mbcasey: I am sorry he isn't someone you are not interested in. I don't blame you...I do hope a lucky man will grab you up though....
BTW Ken, I am interested in him because he is so much fun and has a whole different way of looking at life and I find that and him endearing and amusing but he is like a flea, always jumping up and down and going and not thinking too much about anything. It is the very thing that drew me to him in the first place. Go figure.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Arlene101: BTW Ken, I am interested in him because he is so much fun and has a whole different way of looking at life and I find that and him endearing and amusing but he is like a flea, always jumping up and down and going and not thinking too much about anything. It is the very thing that drew me to him in the first place. Go figure.
Maybe you can't live with him, but nothing wrong with having some fun with him....
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Arlene101: I had a marriage proposal last night from a guy who I have been seeing on and off for the last six years. More off than on and I never took it serious at first but he was serious and all I could do was giggle and tell Allan that I can't do it.
That is lovely, I am pleased for you, of course. I don't want to be a kill-joy but do you think the fact that its been on and off (more OFF) is saying something....?!
Arlene101OPCape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
roseofsharon: That is lovely, I am pleased for you, of course. I don't want to be a kill-joy but do you think the fact that its been on and off (more OFF) is saying something....?!
Head versus Heart?!
Thank you Alison. That is the very reason I said no. He will get over it and maybe even start paying more attention. He just doesn't listen because he is too self absorbed. Great to see you again.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Arlene101: Thank you Alison. That is the very reason I said no. He will get over it and maybe even start paying more attention. He just doesn't listen because he is too self absorbed. Great to see you again.
A fella that is self-absorbed?? You're having me on, aren't ya?!!
Yes, always a joy to see you, love. I am sure it will all work out for the best, you are a very enlightened lady....
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