I Am Scared Now, What Have I Done (57)
The thing is James had just phoned me before this and begged me to just delete her e-mail and not answer her as she was mad at him for giving me her name.
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For every action.. there is a reaction.... this one is not going to be good.
It might be more than a hornet's nest..... I hope it all works out ok
It might be more than a hornet's nest..... I hope it all works out ok
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kitty01: I found out the name of my grand daughters father's girlfriend and e-mailed her and told her exactly what was going on with her boyfriend and my daughter.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
WOW! But what is done is done,Kitty. Now try to collect your emotions and do not go deeper. No one needed loud and angry explonations. Patience!
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In response to: I found out the name of my grand daughters father's girlfriend and e-mailed her and told her exactly what was going on with her boyfriend and my daughter.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
To learn not to react is a great discipline.
Try to let it go and not repeat.
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I just got tired of her blaming my daughter for everything that James was doing. James told her it was my daughter who kept phoning him and asking him to go out when it was the other way around.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
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kitty01: I just got tired of her blaming my daughter for everything that James was doing. James told her it was my daughter who kept phoning him and asking him to go out when it was the other way around.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
Well you did what you think is right...she knows the truth...so it's her hers to do with as she chooses...
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kitty01: I just got tired of her blaming my daughter for everything that James was doing. James told her it was my daughter who kept phoning him and asking him to go out when it was the other way around.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
I was here yesterday when he came to visit his daughter and asked my daughter if he wanted him to pick her up after her test. He told her to phone him when she was done. She did that and he was with his girlfriend and she got mad that she phoned and he acted like he knew nothing about why she would phone him.
He then told my daughter that she was causing trouble in his relationship and they were at the hospital as she is pregnant and she was causing her too much stress. That is why I first e-mailed she to tell her it was James who offered and well it just went from there.
Well hunni, this is just my opinion, but you are arguing with the wrong person. The other girl doesn't lie to your daughter, the other girl isn't cheating on your daughter, the other girl isn't using your daughter. Why give the other girl grief--it sounds like she is just as taken in by this person as your daughter is. She can be as nasty as she wants-but she is believing lies-and that's just sad. I feel sorry for both of the girls.
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I just wanted her to know that we did not want to cause her any trouble and that my daughter was not trying to make things hard for her, but she did not want to hear from me at all. She sent back the e-mail swearing at me.
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gypsykisses: Well hunni, this is just my opinion, but you are arguing with the wrong person. The other girl doesn't lie to your daughter, the other girl isn't cheating on your daughter, the other girl isn't using your daughter. Why give the other girl grief--it sounds like she is just as taken in by this person as your daughter is. She can be as nasty as she wants-but she is believing lies-and that's just sad. I feel sorry for both of the girls.
The person to blame for all of this is the guy. He is playing them both.. He will continue to do so as long as both females let him...they need to kick him to the kerb side..
If the girlfriend is pregnant...no matter how nasty she may be remember she is pregnant and what stress can do to the unborn child...
I think all you can do is support your daughter quietly and let them sort it out for themselves..
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kitty01: I just wanted her to know that we did not want to cause her any trouble and that my daughter was not trying to make things hard for her, but she did not want to hear from me at all. She sent back the e-mail swearing at me.
her reaction is not abnormal considering her condition hunni. What did you expect or want to happen? What was your ultimate outcome by emailing her?------ This thread is Archived ------
Just wanted her to know the truth. I do not like it when people lie and get other people in trouble over it.
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She was getting upset when James bought a bed for his daughter as she will be coming out of the crib soon. She says now that she is pregnant he needs to buy things for their baby. The thing is just because he is having another child he is still responsible for his daughter here.
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kitty01: Just wanted her to know the truth. I do not like it when people lie and get other people in trouble over it.
Then talk to the guy, as he is the one lying. jmo
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gypsykisses: Then talk to the guy, as he is the one lying. jmo
Yes you're right doll..playing both ends against the middle...and getting more than he deserves from both women....
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kitty01: She was getting upset when James bought a bed for his daughter as she will be coming out of the crib soon. She says now that she is pregnant he needs to buy things for their baby. The thing is just because he is having another child he is still responsible for his daughter here.
Understandable all the way around. If anything, I would suggest a heart to heart talk with just James, explaining to him, not only how it effects you, your daughter, his baby to be and his other girlfriend. Trying to make him see what damage he is causing, without being confrontational. He is responsible for the bad blood, as well as the drama. He is the one that needs to stop the cycle. Maybe you can help, maybe you can't. There's only one way to find out.
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gypsykisses: Well hunni, this is just my opinion, but you are arguing with the wrong person. The other girl doesn't lie to your daughter, the other girl isn't cheating on your daughter, the other girl isn't using your daughter. Why give the other girl grief--it sounds like she is just as taken in by this person as your daughter is. She can be as nasty as she wants-but she is believing lies-and that's just sad. I feel sorry for both of the girls.
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it was a mistake , but we all make them , ask God for help
and don't worry
and don't worry
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kitty01: I found out the name of my grand daughters father's girlfriend and e-mailed her and told her exactly what was going on with her boyfriend and my daughter.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.
Well what was you spose to do mate I should of done the same and emailed my ex,s ex,s girl friend but I don,t think she would get it as he is on to me co,s he knows I know.
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My daughter talked to James and told him I told Sandra everything. He says now his relationship is likely over.
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At first I was nice but she sent me a nasty e-mail back so then I let her know that he slept with my daughter at Christmas while she was away.
I think I just stirred up a hornet's nest.