I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
Sorry Girls
But not always is so bad, I met my love by this way, internet and we are so happy together, IM from México and he is from Sweden
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
Never fall inlove till after you meet him. From all you have said I take it as he played you, but he found a better game, forget him and all of his lies to you. If he really did love you, yes he would have found away to leave messages. But you can let your self fall for someone till you have met and gotten to know them. Or this will happen many many times to you. As I have also learned.
mylifewithu: Never fall inlove till after you meet him. From all you have said I take it as he played you, but he found a better game, forget him and all of his lies to you. If he really did love you, yes he would have found away to leave messages. But you can not let your self fall for someone till you have met and gotten to know them. Or this will happen many many times to you. As I have also learned.
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
might want to take it slower next time, probably don't put your whole heart into one person and wait to meet him to actually decide to fall in love with him. I don't think that you are being too sensitive. I have spoke for hours on the internet with someone-that didn't end up working out, and I felt an extreme loss of what we had in the beginning. Finally I just decided to get over it and open myself up to new people. Good luck to you hunni.
"i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue...."
Unrealistic, untrue?????? Could it be???? Because it is!
Get yourself a quart of ice cream and a good chick flick -- you've been had! And then laff later when you realize who lucky you are that he didn't ask for money!
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
It's a hit and miss on here to pick out the genuine ones...nobody asks you to be their g/f just from a pic doll...only those lookin for something that's not real...it's an ego trip for some to see just how many women or men they can get interested in them...be careful...be cautious...and most of all don't give your heart away too soon....It's a learning thing...you have to remember that just because you are genuine and honest...not everyone you meet on-line is going to be...I had learn the same thing the hard wayyyyyy but eventually you do learn....
mylifewithu: Never fall inlove till after you meet him. From all you have said I take it as he played you, but he found a better game, forget him and all of his lies to you. If he really did love you, yes he would have found away to leave messages. But you can let your self fall for someone till you have met and gotten to know them. Or this will happen many many times to you. As I have also learned.
mylifewithu: Never fall inlove till after you meet him. From all you have said I take it as he played you, but he found a better game, forget him and all of his lies to you. If he really did love you, yes he would have found away to leave messages. But you can let your self fall for someone till you have met and gotten to know them. Or this will happen many many times to you. As I have also learned.
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RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
Yep a month is an eternity I am sure he loves you so,so,so so much. He is probably at home now crying over you now And so hartbroken he can't be online with his harts desire
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
You really need to be careful this is not one of those foreign scammers we have 2 other forums in here chatting about who is setting you up with stories of tragedy in order to get your money. How can anyone fall in love with someone they have never met?? That is beyone my comprehension? Even if you see someone in person, there is little chance you will be very compatibel mush less fall in love. PLEEZ!!!!!!!!that is not realistic and I think you need to stop being so "desperate" for love. Almost everyone lies and mis-represents themselves online an they will likely not look like their good pics when you meet them. You are not going to make a life with anyone in a far away town, state, or espec from another country. The chance of anyone relocating and finding a job and starting a new life in a strange place is far from reality. Best to stick to your home town!!! Oh don;t fall in love with a lousy picture....be real to yourself!
FuninCali: You really need to be careful this is not one of those foreign scammers we have 2 other forums in here chatting about who is setting you up with stories of tragedy in order to get your money. How can anyone fall in love with someone they have never met?? That is beyone my comprehension? Even if you see someone in person, there is little chance you will be very compatibel mush less fall in love. PLEEZ!!!!!!!!that is not realistic and I think you need to stop being so "desperate" for love. Almost everyone lies and mis-represents themselves online an they will likely not look like their good pics when you meet them. You are not going to make a life with anyone in a far away town, state, or espec from another country. The chance of anyone relocating and finding a job and starting a new life in a strange place is far from reality. Best to stick to your home town!!! Oh don;t fall in love with a lousy picture....be real to yourself!
Almost all of our married couples here have found love far away. But they took time to know and then finally meeting each other. Long distance love can work if we are cautious.
RebeccaWYR: I met my bf online one month ago.Without asking any other question,he ask me to be his girlfriend after he saw my pic. And i agree.I think i love him at first sight. But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far. Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday. However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now. And he is not sure when he will come online again. i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that! i just can't adapt to life without him. i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me. why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again. am i too sensitive?i feel hurt
Please don't take this the wrong way but maybe you are in love with the idea of being in love. I have had women tell me they think they love me after a few chats. To me that sends up a huge warning flare. One this women is looking for a Green Card to the USA, a sugar daddy or both. When that happens I just turn the other way. Maybe that is what happened to him and just didn't know how to tell you. What ever the reason please make sure that it is love and not just the idea of love. Hope it helps.
mylifewithu: Well read what the other girls here have wrote too, we have all been in this place you are in right now. Time will heal sweetie.
Well don't worry about it.I met a girl not to long ago.We talked for about a week and then never heard from here again.That is internet dating.Just talk with people and see what happens
gypsykisses: might want to take it slower next time, probably don't put your whole heart into one person and wait to meet him to actually decide to fall in love with him. I don't think that you are being too sensitive. I have spoke for hours on the internet with someone-that didn't end up working out, and I felt an extreme loss of what we had in the beginning. Finally I just decided to get over it and open myself up to new people. Good luck to you hunni.
Sometimes i just feel he is too good to be true. And i try hard to judge him when chatting. but i know no matter how hard i try, i can't just know a person behind the internet. I have mixed feeling and feel so painful
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And i agree.I think i love him at first sight.
But he is from another country and he doesn't know when he can come to me becoz he lacks money.....so we never meet so far.
Previously we talked on MSN almost everyday.
However,4 days ago, he told me that there was sth wrong in his family :his 12 year-old niece meet some bad guy.it's a great shock and he was very upset and not in a position to come online now.
And he is not sure when he will come online again.
i feel very sad and bad.I don't understand why he even didn't leave offline messages to me these days.it would only take him several mintues to do that!
i just can't adapt to life without him.
i even doubt whether he really loves me or he's just playing with me.
why internet love seem so unrealistic,untrue......i really suffer from the waiting......and i don't know when he will be online again.
am i too sensitive?i feel hurt