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Feb 12, 2009 3:24 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.wine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:29 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
JDrfh
JDrfhJDrfhhollywood, Maryland USA1 Posts
claudya: If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.
we dont look for the perfect person, no one exists like that. What we look for is the perfect matchfor ourselves. The one whose faults we accept as well as the characteristics that we like as well. Thats just my opinion though

josh
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Feb 12, 2009 3:30 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
You are exactly right Claudya. However, I'm beginning to wonder if there's even anyone I'm compatible with. I've always known I'm a little off the wall and strange. But come on............LAUGHING OUT LOUD (At myself, yes!)rolling on the floor laughing tongue

Somebody help I'm on my way to looney bin!conversing



grin cool
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Feb 12, 2009 3:30 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
claudya: If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.


Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within.
Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort.
Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all.
Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them.
People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.hug
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Feb 12, 2009 3:30 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
chriselle
chrisellechriselleviimsi, Harjumaa Estonia2 Threads 33 Posts
I dont look. Honestly :)
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Feb 12, 2009 3:32 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
JDrfh: we dont look for the perfect person, no one exists like that. What we look for is the perfect matchfor ourselves. The one whose faults we accept as well as the characteristics that we like as well. Thats just my opinion though

josh
hello Josh,correct,we must look the perfect match and to like that person and accept howhe/she iswine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:34 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
BarrenPneuma: Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within.
Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort.
Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all.
Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them.
People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.



As usual, perfectly worded my friend! thumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 12, 2009 3:44 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
claudya: If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.


Hi Claudya...........wave

None of us are perfect.......But we are searching for someone that is perfect for us........

At least I am..........

wine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:45 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
hopefloats: You are exactly right Claudya. However, I'm beginning to wonder if there's even anyone I'm compatible with. I've always known I'm a little off the wall and strange. But come on............LAUGHING OUT LOUD (At myself, yes!)

Somebody I'm on my way to looney bin!
No Merky u are not strange u are a great lady,u didn't find uet u compatible person,because are too many scammers,to many men who don't know what they want,and the good ones are taken laugh
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Feb 12, 2009 3:46 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
claudya: No Merky u are not strange u are a great lady,u didn't find uet u compatible person,because are too many scammers,to many men who don't know what they want,and the good ones are taken


Thank you Claudya. I think.laugh doh grin
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Feb 12, 2009 3:48 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
vinny1967: Hi Claudya...........

None of us are perfect.......But we are searching for someone that is perfect for us........

At least I am..........
Hi Vinnywave u mean u look someone compatible for u,and complete uwine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:49 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
hopefloats: Thank you Claudya. I think.
welcome,hug
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Feb 12, 2009 3:51 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
BarrenPneuma: Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within.
Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort.
Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all.
Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them.
People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.
correct,we must look a compatible matchwine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:51 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
claudya: Hi Vinny u mean u look someone compatible for u,and complete u


Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me...........
Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....blushing

Now thats Perfect..........

wine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:53 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
vinny1967: Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me...........
Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....

Now thats Perfect..........
yes u have right i look same,but is hard to find
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Feb 12, 2009 3:55 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
claudya: yes u have right i look same,but is hard to find


thumbs up I agree...........

But the Human Spirit knows no fear Claudya and while I still breathe I can Hope.........

teddybear
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Feb 12, 2009 3:57 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
vinny1967: I agree...........

But the Human Spirit knows no fear Claudya and while I still breathe I can Hope.........
yes true so let's hope we finddancing wine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:57 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
I believe the majority here just want to be accepted for "who" they are. We don't want to be changed, but loved unconditionally/regardless. I learned along time ago that it's okay if everything isn't perfect. It's okay if I'm not perfect. It's okay if others aren't perfect.


wine
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Feb 12, 2009 3:58 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
vinny1967: Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me...........
Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....

Now thats Perfect..........


Was stimulation in the demandslaugh

No Hun I know exactly what you are saying

Ditto!!teddybear
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Feb 12, 2009 3:59 PM CST if nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
perfect for me does not mean perfect... by no means
vinny1967: Hi Claudya...........

None of us are perfect.......But we are searching for someone that is perfect for us........

At least I am..........
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