claudya: If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.
we dont look for the perfect person, no one exists like that. What we look for is the perfect matchfor ourselves. The one whose faults we accept as well as the characteristics that we like as well. Thats just my opinion though
You are exactly right Claudya. However, I'm beginning to wonder if there's even anyone I'm compatible with. I've always known I'm a little off the wall and strange. But come on............LAUGHING OUT LOUD (At myself, yes!)
claudya: If nobody is perfect why we look a perfect person,better we look a compatible one,because this counts more in a relation.
Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within. Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort. Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all. Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them. People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.
JDrfh: we dont look for the perfect person, no one exists like that. What we look for is the perfect matchfor ourselves. The one whose faults we accept as well as the characteristics that we like as well. Thats just my opinion though
josh
hello Josh,correct,we must look the perfect match and to like that person and accept howhe/she is
BarrenPneuma: Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within. Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort. Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all. Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them. People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.
hopefloats: You are exactly right Claudya. However, I'm beginning to wonder if there's even anyone I'm compatible with. I've always known I'm a little off the wall and strange. But come on............LAUGHING OUT LOUD (At myself, yes!)
Somebody I'm on my way to looney bin!
No Merky u are not strange u are a great lady,u didn't find uet u compatible person,because are too many scammers,to many men who don't know what they want,and the good ones are taken
claudya: No Merky u are not strange u are a great lady,u didn't find uet u compatible person,because are too many scammers,to many men who don't know what they want,and the good ones are taken
BarrenPneuma: Many people try to find someone who can fill all the gaps in their own personality or life. They want completeness but from an outside source rather than from within. Many people carry a tally of the good they have encountered in life and of the bad. They measure everyone against this to get the most for the least effort. Many people see faults as flaws rather than the person's individuality. They do not realize that without these characteristics they would never have been drawn to them at all. Flaws also tend to act as mirrors and most people do not wish to see their worst side reflected back at them so they prefer to seek for someone who is lacking in all of them. People see with their eyes far too often and not with their hearts. While the eyes are the most developed sense we have, they should never be given reign over the mind or the heart. The rate of divorce in the world will attest to this.
claudya: Hi Vinny u mean u look someone compatible for u,and complete u
Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me........... Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....
vinny1967: Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me........... Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....
I believe the majority here just want to be accepted for "who" they are. We don't want to be changed, but loved unconditionally/regardless. I learned along time ago that it's okay if everything isn't perfect. It's okay if I'm not perfect. It's okay if others aren't perfect.
vinny1967: Someone that will accept me for who I am............faults and all........Now that would be perfect to me........... Someone who will stimulate my mind as well as my .........well you know....
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