ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
Going with your exact words - no, not at all.
Cheating is a break of trust, I can not see that in the above.
In response to: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
No they could of made some really good friends here i would'nt stop if i was dating someone. I would put on my profile i was not single but would still talk to friends. Trust no???
"No,it's not considered cheating to me.I have male friends who I chat with.I'm in a relationship where he knows that I chat here,on C.S.He understands that I have friends who I'm not about to give up.Trust is very important in our situation.But,so are my friends."
Polarbutterfly: "No,it's not considered cheating to me.I have male friends who I chat with.I'm in a relationship where he knows that I chat here,on C.S.He understands that I have friends who I'm not about to give up.Trust is very important in our situation.But,so are my friends."
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
You need to be clearer with your question? How much of a commitment have you made with the person? What are chating about? Clarify please.
The only time I would consider it cheating would be if I was already involved with someone in the real world and began chatting with someone else either by phone or online then that I would consider cheating.
There's a particular man who's my hunting/fishing partner and also resides in the same neigborhood as I do ....but we're not in a romantic relationship with one another. So if I talk with other men I wouldn't consider it cheating on him.
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
If this were cheating then we would all be cheating on and with out local telemarketing squad.
"Meaning...?I think you took my post in a wrong way. He knows that I have friends on C.S. and,he knows and understands that.He didn't suggest that I give my friends up.I wouldn't let that happen,even if he did ask."
If there is no mutual understanding of the condition of the relationship then all is open. If one makes a commitment on any level, then to break the trust of the understanding is to cheat. Often one feels that a condition exist that does not in the other...but this is not the fault of the other and no cheating is done. But out of kindness one must define the relationship clearly and often to prevent a hurt in the the other. This is only fair and decent.
Polarbutterfly: "Meaning...?I think you took my post in a wrong way. He knows that I have friends on C.S. and,he knows and understands that.He didn't suggest that I give my friends up.I wouldn't let that happen,even if he did ask."
No, I did not take your post wrong. I understand that your man understands what you do with your friends.
I have met some that are very possessive, I don't go there.
I have a LOT of female friends, never again will I give up my friends for a relationship.
If I were in a relationship, and she could not handle some of the women that bounce in and out of my house, it would be her that went bye bye....
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
RillyNiceGuy: If there is no mutual understanding of the condition of the relationship then all is open. If one makes a commitment on any level, then to break the trust of the understanding is to cheat. Often one feels that a condition exist that does not in the other...but this is not the fault of the other and no cheating is done. But out of kindness one must define the relationship clearly and often to prevent a hurt in the the other. This is only fair and decent.
It all depends on what you are chating about. Only friends, no cheat. If you are talking about intimate things in private, cheating.
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