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Feb 15, 2009 7:33 AM CST ur thoughts
yogi70
yogi70yogi70melbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 8 Posts
ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
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Feb 15, 2009 7:35 AM CST ur thoughts
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating


No! wave
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Feb 15, 2009 7:39 AM CST ur thoughts
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating



Going with your exact words - no, not at all.

Cheating is a break of trust, I can not see that in the above.

wine
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Feb 15, 2009 7:46 AM CST ur thoughts
In response to: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating



No it's not.
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Feb 15, 2009 7:53 AM CST ur thoughts
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating
yes in your fantsy and dreamsrolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2009 7:57 AM CST ur thoughts
rahenygirl
rahenygirlrahenygirlDublin-Carlow, Dublin Ireland11 Threads 435 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating





No they could of made some really good friends here i would'nt stop if i was dating someone. I would put on my profile i was not single but would still talk to friends. Trust no???
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Feb 15, 2009 8:17 AM CST ur thoughts
yogi70
yogi70yogi70melbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 8 Posts
nice reply
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Feb 15, 2009 9:15 AM CST ur thoughts
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: No it's not.


"Some", will differ with you...doh
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Feb 15, 2009 9:23 AM CST ur thoughts
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"No,it's not considered cheating to me.I have male friends
who I chat with.I'm in a relationship where he knows that
I chat here,on C.S.He understands that I have friends who
I'm not about to give up.Trust is very important in our
situation.But,so are my friends."


comfort
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Feb 15, 2009 9:26 AM CST ur thoughts
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "No,it's not considered cheating to me.I have male friends
who I chat with.I'm in a relationship where he knows that
I chat here,on C.S.He understands that I have friends who
I'm not about to give up
.Trust is very important in our
situation.But,so are my friends."


Some want a relationship.....heart wings

Some want a possession..doh
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Feb 15, 2009 9:30 AM CST ur thoughts
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating



You need to be clearer with your question? How much of a commitment have you made with the person? What are chating about? Clarify please.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:31 AM CST ur thoughts
HJFinAZ: "Some", will differ with you...



The only time I would consider it cheating would be if I was already involved with someone in the real world and began chatting with someone else either by phone or online then that I would consider cheating.

There's a particular man who's my hunting/fishing partner and also resides in the same neigborhood as I do ....but we're not in a romantic relationship with one another. So if I talk with other men I wouldn't consider it cheating on him.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:32 AM CST ur thoughts
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating


If this were cheating then we would all be cheating on and with out local telemarketing squad.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:36 AM CST ur thoughts
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
HJFinAZ: Some want a relationship.....

Some want a possession..


"Meaning...?I think you took my post in a wrong way.
He knows that I have friends on C.S. and,he knows
and understands that.He didn't suggest that I give
my friends up.I wouldn't let that happen,even if he did
ask."


cheers


hug
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Feb 15, 2009 9:38 AM CST ur thoughts
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
If there is no mutual understanding of the condition of the relationship then all is open. If one makes a commitment on any level, then to break the trust of the understanding is to cheat. Often one feels that a condition exist that does not in the other...but this is not the fault of the other and no cheating is done. But out of kindness one must define the relationship clearly and often to prevent a hurt in the the other. This is only fair and decent.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:41 AM CST ur thoughts
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "Meaning...?I think you took my post in a wrong way.
He knows that I have friends on C.S. and,he knows
and understands that.He didn't suggest that I give
my friends up.I wouldn't let that happen,even if he did
ask."


No, I did not take your post wrong. I understand that your man understands what you do with your friends.thumbs up

I have met some that are very possessive, I don't go there.doh

I have a LOT of female friends, never again will I give up my friends for a relationship.

If I were in a relationship, and she could not handle some of the women that bounce in and out of my house, it would be her that went bye bye....sigh
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Feb 15, 2009 9:44 AM CST ur thoughts
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
HJFinAZ: No, I did not take your post wrong. I understand that your man understands what you do with your friends.

I have met some that are very possessive, I don't go there.

I have a LOT of female friends, never again will I give up my friends for a relationship.

If I were in a relationship, and she could not handle some of the women that bounce in and out of my house, it would be her that went bye bye....


"I agree.I wouldn't give up my friends for anything!!
But,bounce in and out of your house..?..grin .
....stud.No offense."

cool
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Feb 15, 2009 9:45 AM CST ur thoughts
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
yogi70: ok people of the world if ur chatn with some1 online and uv neva physically met them ,uv spoken on the phone and one of the 2 is still chatn with other people on line is considered cheating


Ignorant people shouldn't be smoking pot !! uh oh
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Feb 15, 2009 9:46 AM CST ur thoughts
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
jvaski: Ignorant people shouldn't be smoking pot !!
rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2009 9:46 AM CST ur thoughts
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: If there is no mutual understanding of the condition of the relationship then all is open. If one makes a commitment on any level, then to break the trust of the understanding is to cheat. Often one feels that a condition exist that does not in the other...but this is not the fault of the other and no cheating is done. But out of kindness one must define the relationship clearly and often to prevent a hurt in the the other. This is only fair and decent.




It all depends on what you are chating about. Only friends, no cheat. If you are talking about intimate things in private, cheating.
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