Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
Michael211_2000: Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael
THIS is your problem for this site! Or least mine anyways! LOL! Aside from that, give the forums a chance and be a regular poster. You're missing the chance of meeting some very precious people and new friends! Having a friend to talk to is better than not having anyone, don't you think?? Ahhhh yes, I don't even remember the last time that I had an evening out to a dinner and a movie with someone special! LOL! Do hope you will try the forums regardless.
Michael211_2000: Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael
If you have an open mind ......... you can do anything !!
Michael211_2000: Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael
Same thing here Michael but I have found and made great friends here. She might not be living in your same town or just a few mines away. Give it some time and enjoy the forums. You never know who you might find if you give it the chance.
I just did that same search for my area, but included that they had to have a photo & be a non smoker. Came up with 4...2 of the same guy & one who probably isn't really in this area because he's put california, california....and the 4th guy is really specific in what he's looking for....a Scorpio woman between 31 & 35 either white or native american. Counts me out on two out of three...lol I'm Gemini/49/white/cherokee/comanche/plus some...lol
hrt4lse: I just did that same search for my area, but included that they had to have a photo & be a non smoker. Came up with 4...2 of the same guy & one who probably isn't really in this area because he's put california, california....and the 4th guy is really specific in what he's looking for....a Scorpio woman between 31 & 35 either white or native american. Counts me out on two out of three...lol I'm Gemini/49/white/cherokee/comanche/plus some...lol
Did it again to accept profiles without photos & it only added one more.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Michael211_2000: Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael
It can be disheartening, I know..... tenacity is often the name of the game. Don't automatically assume its anything to do with you. There have been some positive responses here, I hope you take their input on board?
Take no notice of Tumtum... I have got to know many people here over quite some time and the majority are all only too happy to help where they can. The Forums is a good way of inter-acting and, in turn, it can maximise your chances further.
Michael211_2000: Is it really worth a single male having a profile on this site? I just did a search of women within 100 miles of my zip who've been active within the past month, and the results were nearly non-existant. This can't bode well for my chances of actually meeting anybody from CS.
I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael
Dude, you live in a big city. Shine up your swagger and the chics will come...
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I mean, if somebody hasn't even checked-in to CS in over a month (and it could be years since they last checked-in, the site only counts up to a month), the odds that they'll ever check-in again are pretty unlikely I'd imagine. And I really don't relate well with people from far away who I can't actually meet for dinner and a movie or something along those lines... know what I mean?
Thoughts? I find it basically impossible to meet anybody I feel at all compatible with, all my friends are married and nobody knows anybody they say they could even introduce me to. Seems like every way I turn all I've been finding are dead ends... getting more than a little tired of that. And I suspect CS is not going to be any different at this point.
It's been ages since I've had a bona-fide movie and dinner date. Something wrong with that I swear.
- Michael