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Feb 21, 2009 10:37 AM CST Finding someone
Steveno
StevenoStevenoQassim, Al-Qassim Saudi Arabia140 Threads 485 Posts
Do you think some people are just not meant to find someone?

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Feb 21, 2009 10:39 AM CST Finding someone
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Someone told me that about a week ago.

Two weeks ago, a relative said the same thing.

I don't want it to be true, thus I am here.
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Feb 21, 2009 10:42 AM CST Finding someone
gineadele
gineadelegineadeleclermont, Florida USA3 Threads 24 Posts
Starting to think that way myselfdunno
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Feb 21, 2009 10:48 AM CST Finding someone
Steveno: Do you think some people are just not meant to find someone?



No always the case. I think sometimes we can be looking to hard. Sometimes someone could/can be right under our nose and we're just to blind to see it.

Alot times when we're not looking for someone and that's when we do.
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Feb 21, 2009 10:49 AM CST Finding someone
somechick: No always the case. I think sometimes we can be looking to hard. Sometimes someone could/can be right under our nose and we're just to blind to see it.

Alot times when we're not looking for someone and that's when we do.


I meant Not always the case.OOPS
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Feb 21, 2009 10:52 AM CST Finding someone
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
somechick: No always the case. I think sometimes we can be looking to hard. Sometimes someone could/can be right under our nose and we're just to blind to see it.

Alot times when we're not looking for someone and that's when we do.



I agree with you whole heartedly but you have to be happy with yourself first, so if you arent how the hell can you be happy with anyone else!!!!
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Feb 21, 2009 10:53 AM CST Finding someone
Steveno
StevenoStevenoQassim, Al-Qassim Saudi Arabia140 Threads 485 Posts
gineadele: Starting to think that way myself


I think sometimes its good for people to learn how to be on their own and acccept themselves before they enter a relationship. I know it sounds fruity, but sometimes I think fate realises that you need to be alone at a certain time in your life so that you have the time to get to know and love yourself. Once you've reached that level of acceptance, you will have much more fulfilling relationships with the people you eventually become involved with. Its good to learn to live with yourself, before you learn live with someone else. Someone will come along when the time is right. Its better that way as you end up with someone you really love, rather than with someone just to avoid being alone.

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Feb 21, 2009 10:54 AM CST Finding someone
nuala: I agree with you whole heartedly but you have to be happy with yourself first, so if you arent how the hell can you be happy with anyone else!!!!



I agree with you too.My mom used to always say if you can't/don't love yourself first you can't expect anyone else to either.
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Feb 21, 2009 10:54 AM CST Finding someone
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Steveno: Do you think some people are just not meant to find someone?


Could happen, especially if some people believe it to be true...
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Feb 21, 2009 10:56 AM CST Finding someone
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Steveno: Do you think some people are just not meant to find someone?


I think some people are happier to be on their own.

cheers
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Feb 21, 2009 10:57 AM CST Finding someone
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
mbcasey: Someone told me that about a week ago.

Two weeks ago, a relative said the same thing.

I don't want it to be true, thus I am here.


Hey mbcasey! Great attitude my friend. Don't believe in that silly lie...
cheers
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Feb 21, 2009 10:57 AM CST Finding someone
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
vinny1967: I think some people are happier to be on their own.


Vinny...are you wearing lipstick????laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 21, 2009 10:57 AM CST Finding someone
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
vinny1967: I think some people are happier to be on their own.
theyres a pair of shoes to fit everyone in lifehead banger
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Feb 21, 2009 10:58 AM CST Finding someone
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
StressFree: Hey mbcasey! Great attitude my friend. Don't believe in that silly lie...


Thanks Tony....handshake

Sometimes I do believe it though. But that is the easy way out....
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Feb 21, 2009 10:58 AM CST Finding someone
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
vinny1967: I think some people are happier to be on their own.


I agree with that Vinny! Modern day society!
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Feb 21, 2009 11:01 AM CST Finding someone
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
mbcasey: Vinny...are you wearing lipstick????


Yes he is...the girl in the photo beside him decided to make him the next Max Factor Model....

She did such a good job of applying it he was still sporting it the next morning..... laugh
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Feb 21, 2009 11:02 AM CST Finding someone
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
mbcasey: Vinny...are you wearing lipstick????


rollers .............rolling on the floor laughing

It was taken at the CS do last Sat.........laugh

flirty

I agree SF.............There isn't the need anymore for people to live together and I also see some people become selfish in their habits and so on........

cheers
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Feb 21, 2009 11:02 AM CST Finding someone
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
mbcasey: Thanks Tony....

Sometimes I do believe it though. But that is the easy way out....


I agree Ken. I mean, there are people who claim that they are happier by themselves, but do they really wanna stay alone for the rest of their lives? I think some individuals can pull it off, and others can't.

I was happy being alone, but I did begin to miss the real intimacy after a while. I wasn't all trippin about it, but I did miss a woman's touch on every level.
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Feb 21, 2009 11:05 AM CST Finding someone
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
vinny1967: .............

There isn't the need anymore for people to live together and I also see some people become selfish in their habits and so on........


Yep, and I am all for this new paradigm in relationships...not living together. I enjoy my space and individual liberty...so does my girlfriend...me=luckylaugh
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Feb 21, 2009 11:08 AM CST Finding someone
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Tamarin: Yes he is...the girl in the photo beside him decided to make him the next Max Factor Model....

She did such a good job of applying it he was still sporting it the next morning.....


Sounds to me like you two had a wonderful evening.
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