Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew. ( Archived) (29)

Feb 22, 2009 7:30 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
hmmm, that must me true or false, right or wrong???innocent innocent innocent
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Feb 22, 2009 7:41 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Hey moonlove.

You don't have to forget about someone you loved, but you can move on and make peace with it...
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Feb 22, 2009 7:59 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Never ever forget someone you have loved it shapes you into the person you are...

If you have lost someone you loved the pain becomes less sharp over time, to a dull ache and then a memory you can carry on living with....time is a great healer!
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Feb 22, 2009 8:02 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
It's like having deja vu and amnesia at the same time! laugh
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Feb 22, 2009 8:02 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
moonlove: Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
hmmm, that must me true or false, right or wrong???


Some people know me in that my wife died of cancer after we had a beautiful and long life together. I will never try to forget her. She is a part of my life and will be until the day I died. Trying to forget someone you love is impossible and shouldn't be thought about doing. Enjoy the love you have. Bring that love with you. Your heart is large enough to have room for another love. Seek that new "someone" you don't know and you will remember them also.
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Feb 22, 2009 8:05 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Big_John: Some people know me in that my wife died of cancer after we had a beautiful and long life together. I will never try to forget her. She is a part of my life and will be until the day I died. Trying to forget someone you love is impossible and shouldn't be thought about doing. Enjoy the love you have. Bring that love with you. Your heart is large enough to have room for another love. Seek that new "someone" you don't know and you will remember them also.



thumbs up heart wings
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Feb 22, 2009 9:27 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
buzzy: It's like having deja vu and amnesia at the same time!


sorry, i don't understand though...hmmmmdunno
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Feb 22, 2009 9:37 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
moonlove: sorry, i don't understand though...hmmmm


To me this means you are re-living the moments with someone you love over and over, but at the same time you don't remember doing it.

Did you ever see the movie "Groundhog Day"?
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Feb 22, 2009 9:39 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Yes, both are impossible.

None of us can forget someone we've loved, nor stop loving someone that we've ever truly loved. However, we have an unlimited capacity as humans to love, and so can move on to find another love, or a better love, while still loving others who are not right for us, or are gone from our lives. We love each person differently and uniquely. wine
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Feb 22, 2009 9:47 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
Look, like my mate in London always used to say: The moment someone you love walks out on you, go straight out and find a new one. If you don't then you'll just brood. And think of the advantages too....You can fall in love AGAIN! Love is usually unrequited, so just make the most of it...
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Feb 22, 2009 9:47 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
moonlove: sorry, i don't understand though...hmmmm


Amnesia- loss of memory

deja vu- feeling you have been here before
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Feb 22, 2009 9:51 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Big_John: To me this means you are re-living the moments with someone you love over and over, but at the same time you don't remember doing it.

Did you ever see the movie "Groundhog Day"?



Thanks though...hehe, i never seen that movie...bouquet
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Feb 22, 2009 10:50 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
buzzy: It's like having deja vu and amnesia at the same time!


Yes, I forgotten that before.... I think?!! dunno confused

laugh
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Feb 22, 2009 10:51 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
StressFree: Hey moonlove.

You don't have to forget about someone you loved, but you can move on and make peace with it...


Excellent answer Tony...thumbs up handshake
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Feb 22, 2009 11:05 AM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
mbcasey: Excellent answer Tony...
wine
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Feb 22, 2009 12:14 PM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
writer
writerwriterdhaka, Dhaka Bangladesh5 Threads 5 Polls 7 Posts
how are you? you are ok........but Human live around HOPE.....and for that......they love to dream and want to be happy in every moment.....so...take care
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Feb 22, 2009 12:18 PM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
roseofsharon: Yes, I forgotten that before.... I think?!!


But you sort of remember it though! laugh
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Feb 22, 2009 12:20 PM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
writer: how are you? you are ok........but Human live around HOPE.....and for that......they love to dream and want to be happy in every moment.....so...take care


Do you always answer your own question for other people? laugh
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Feb 22, 2009 12:26 PM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
moonlove: Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
hmmm, that must me true or false, right or wrong???
damn, that could make a good line for a songprofessor conversing

i don't think we should forget them all together...they are another chapter from our lives that are memorys, good and bad...sigh
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Feb 22, 2009 12:55 PM CST Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
sambhava: Look, like my mate in London always used to say: The moment someone you love walks out on you, go straight out and find a new one. If you don't then you'll just brood. And think of the advantages too....You can fall in love AGAIN! Love is usually unrequited, so just make the most of it...



grin peace bouquet thumbs up
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