I got annoy by some people, maybe probably alot... (28)
moonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 PostsMost of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
We all get many like that. They go by the pictures, then contact us. 
I haven't found any tricks to stop them other than taking down my picture.
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This happens to us all my dear. When it becomes obvious from the onset of the email that the person initiating the contact hasn't even read my profile -- I block them and delete. You can't control the actions of others - you can control how their actions affect you - don't take it personal.
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Use the option to block them, when they contact you is all you can do, if they harass you.
Send them an email saying you are not interested and if they contact you again, block them.
Send them an email saying you are not interested and if they contact you again, block them.
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You have come to the same conclusion over the same problem as most of the females on here and quite a few of the guys too.
It's the rear of the medallion of on-line dating
Some people just don't know to read, they only know to click pictures
It's the rear of the medallion of on-line dating
Some people just don't know to read, they only know to click pictures
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I just finished explaning the same thing to a man who thinks I owe him love, just because he is African like I am. I told him to read my profile next time, because it took my good time to decode his e-mail.
Some men are so desperate, it's disgusting.
He is hereby blocked, just like his head.
Some men are so desperate, it's disgusting.
He is hereby blocked, just like his head.
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
Yes....I understand what you are saying,and I can honesty say I always read the Ladies Profile first,and respect the Lady requirements of what she is looking for,like age...etc...Then I will decide to email her or not...so simple...but unfortunately not everyone reads a persons profile first.
Oh,if you get a Man annoying you with an inappropriate message,block him straight away,that's the best advice I can give you .....
Now to answer a question on your Profile,personally I think its the Lady that Chooses the Man,not the Man that Chooses the lady.
Have a good Night,take care,be safe John Dutchie
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lusciousmile: I just finished explaning the same thing to a man who thinks I owe him love, just because he is African like I am. I told him to read my profile next time, because it took my good time to decode his e-mail.Some men are so desperate, it's disgusting. He is hereby blocked, just like his head.
Good to be like that..but i feel to becosideration for them..i afraid, they will feel guilty or disappoint for some reason so i did not reply anything..
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
I just hit the delete button nowadays and block if they are persistent - least said soonest mended
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trish123: I just hit the delete button nowadays and block if they are persistent - least said soonest mended
I just block, then delete...
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trish123: I just hit the delete button nowadays and block if they are persistent - least said soonest mended
Very good advice Trish.
No need to worry about it and certainly no need to insult or hurt someone who may have been sincere but inarticulate.
That's one of the good things about this kind of site.
If we're not interested, it doesn't require a "scene" to deal with it.
A few keystrokes and the whole thing is over and done with.
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
I looked at your profile and, (to be honest), except for the precision that you want to meet people of your own age group, it isn't too specific about who you do and do not want to hear from.
In fact, rather than list your interests and disinterests you invite people to write you in order to get to know you.
Such an invitation is sure to draw the more "desperate" men to contact you.
If unwanted emails are a problem, you might try redoing your profile to be more specific about who you want to hear from.
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
Laugh at them and move on.
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trish123: I just hit the delete button nowadays and block if they are persistent - least said soonest mended
hmmm, some people they did not write, they just keep IM request again and again, hmmmmm, really annoy..
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You have a very nice profile. You know who you are and what your self-worth is. My suggestion is that you shouldn't be rude. Two wrongs don't make a right. Just block the idiots like we all do.
moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
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In response to: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
I'd just block them.I wouldn't even respond to them or otherwise they'll keep mailing you.
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moonlove: hmmm, some people they did not write, they just keep IM request again and again, hmmmmm, really annoy..
Again... this thing with IM and blocking.
To the developers of CS :> WHY CAN WE NOT BLOCK PEOPLE FROM IM
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moonlove: Most of people who contacted me they did not read my profile so keep contact and made me not feel good about that...i want people read my profile before they contact me..hmmm, i can't fingure out that annoy, sometimes turned me a bad mood...i want to rude to them...for keeping continue..but..Can you give me a better advice to deal with that......
Like someone else said, you are not going into a lot of details about yourself or what you are looking for, just the age and if I were in that age group I would email you. You are getting upset when maybe it is you who needs to do something different. There is no such thing as a perfit match, so the ones that you block and delete may have you near perfit match inthat bunch.Becareful and don't miss the one you love.------ This thread is Archived ------
Charli15695: This happens to us all my dear. When it becomes obvious from the onset of the email that the person initiating the contact hasn't even read my profile -- I block them and delete. You can't control the actions of others - you can control how their actions affect you - don't take it personal.
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moonlove: hmmm, some people they did not write, they just keep IM request again and again, hmmmmm, really annoy..
You can turn your IM off, that's what most of us have done who find this annoying. Go to "Edit Profile", then options, and you will see where you can do this. You'll still get requests in your IM requests (I do), but they won't come through to annoy you anymore.
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