Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child ( Archived) (62)

Feb 23, 2009 4:45 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Ok............I have been thru this recently and wanted to see other peoples opinions on this.

I have a 17 year old daughter and she is on the Contraceptive Pill for nearly a year now.

It is not something that just happened. Myself and My ex wife and our daughter discussed it in depth for a couple of months before decinding that it was the correct thing to do.

Please Discuss.........

What would you have done.........dunno

conversing
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Feb 23, 2009 4:48 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
gm vinny off yo work here, you did the right thing by discusing it between the three of youthumbs up
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Feb 23, 2009 4:51 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
tumtum52: gm vinny off yo work here, you did the right thing by discusing it between the three of you
by the way my son became a father almost at 18, and now has 3 bots, hes married has 3 boys at 24, but things worked out because the parents supported him, hes working ,owns his home, and finishing school in may
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Feb 23, 2009 4:51 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
boys, sorry about that
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Feb 23, 2009 4:52 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
TLC69
TLC69TLC69duncannon, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 270 Posts
vinny1967: Ok............I have been thru this recently and wanted to see other peoples opinions on this.

I have a 17 year old daughter and she is on the Contraceptive Pill for nearly a year now.

It is not something that just happened. Myself and My ex wife and our daughter discussed it in depth for a couple of months before decinding that it was the correct thing to do.

Please Discuss.........

What would you have done.........


My daughter and i had the same conversation, she said she wouldn't be in need for quite a while......I was 17 once also, so i remind her about once a month that we have options.

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Feb 23, 2009 4:52 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
I think you did the right thing ,I have a son so never had to go thru that, but I whole heartly support your position here
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Feb 23, 2009 4:54 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
jessejess47: I think you did the right thing ,I have a son so never had to go thru that, but I whole heartly support your position here
why should boys be different, they still can get a girl pregnantconfused
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Feb 23, 2009 4:56 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
tumtum52: by the way my son became a father almost at 18, and now has 3 bots, hes married has 3 boys at 24, but things worked out because the parents supported him, hes working ,owns his home, and finishing school in may


Hi TT...........wave

Sounds like you have a nice Family TT........

Is it because she is my daughter......dunno I have a son who is nearly 15 and I would be recommending he use preventitive measures but somehow its diff with my Daughter.......dunno

I know it doesnt make sense but I want to strangle the boyfriend sometimes............laugh
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Feb 23, 2009 4:56 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
tumtum52: why should boys be different, they still can get a girl pregnant
not that I was trying to take away here,I always made sure my son had protection should the need comes
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Feb 23, 2009 4:58 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
TLC69: My daughter and i had the same conversation, she said she wouldn't be in need for quite a while......I was 17 once also, so i remind her about once a month that we have options.


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I think its brilliant that we are able to talk to our daughter about it. I hear some horror stories about seperation, but we have always communicated so well when it comes to our children.....

Good on you..............cheers
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Feb 23, 2009 4:59 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
jessejess47: not that I was trying to take away here,I always made sure my son had protection should the need comes



Oh I always remember putting all my sons clothes away that I had ironed and I always giggled to myself cause they were glow in the dark thingslaugh
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Feb 23, 2009 4:59 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
tumtum52: gm morgan, did you forget you were 17 at one time and human
not at all, but it's an aceptance that she was an adult, not my little girl anymore. I'm lucky to have aa very open relationship with her, she is my best friend as well as my daughter
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Feb 23, 2009 5:02 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
morgan5: not at all, but it's an aceptance that she was an adult, not my little girl anymore. I'm lucky to have aa very open relationship with her, she is my best friend as well as my daughter
most kids are close to their mother, because they came from your bodyheart beating
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Feb 23, 2009 5:03 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
not much at all, you can lead a horse to water, but cant force him to drink
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Feb 23, 2009 5:04 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
jessejess47: I think you did the right thing ,I have a son so never had to go thru that, but I whole heartly support your position here


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Ta Jesse..............Like your Posts.......

I even suggested that she make the boyfriend contribute to the costs............My ex pointed out that our Daughter shd take responsibilty herself and she was right........

cheers
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Feb 23, 2009 5:04 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
jetdevil2001
jetdevil2001jetdevil2001Tashkent, Uzbekistan6 Threads 1 Polls 406 Posts
doh what would our parents say 40 years agodoh
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Feb 23, 2009 5:05 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
tumtum52: not much at all, you can lead a horse to water, but cant force him to drink
exactlyhandshake
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Feb 23, 2009 5:05 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
jetdevil2001: what would our parents say 40 years ago
confused
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Feb 23, 2009 5:05 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Mercedes1: Well Im just in awe that your daughter felt so comfortable both with her mum and dad to be able to discuss that!
Maybe if other kids could do that then this world would be a better place


Yeah well we have a good relationship thankfully and I wont say it was easy for her but she did realise that we had to sit down and discuss it...........

bouquet
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Feb 23, 2009 5:10 AM CST Moral Question...........The Conntraceptive Pill & Your Child
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
jetdevil2001: what would our parents say 40 years ago


confused

Am not sure what you mean........?teddybear
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