C´mon be honest folks ( Archived) (37)

Feb 24, 2009 8:35 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.

I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?

I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.

Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?
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Feb 24, 2009 8:38 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.

I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?

I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.

Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?



No because although you don't want to relocate...maybe you will meet someone who will want to relocate to Spain...ya never know....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Feb 24, 2009 8:42 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: No because although you don't want to relocate...maybe you will meet someone who will want to relocate to Spain...ya never know....


Hiya you!

You never know..true...but highly unlikely I fear.
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Feb 24, 2009 8:45 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Jan1305: Hiya you!

You never know..true...but highly unlikely I fear.
Jan1305: Hiya you!

You never know..true...but highly unlikely I fear.



Hey Jan..well I guess ya just never know what's around the corner or what the future might hold...I just try to stay positive regardless of the fact I have been here for almost 3 years...wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating roll eyes laugh
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Feb 24, 2009 8:45 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Travel, definately, and I intend to. Relocate, well a little over a year ago I would have, now I'm not so sure. I won't say I wouldn't though, you never know.



wave
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Feb 24, 2009 8:46 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
I'm not sure I would re-locate right here in my own country, let alone to another. From what I can tell, it's a difficult process - and there's too much uncertainty for me.
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Feb 24, 2009 8:46 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.

I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?

I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.

Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?



Jan I am simply nonplussed ,
I mean Spain is not that far away .

Crikey in this day and age , with cheap flights and inexpensive accommadation , why wouldn't some1 travel to meet some1 they really ,really liked dunno
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Feb 24, 2009 8:46 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.

I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?

I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.

Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?



you never know, the other fact is this, if you enjoy the time you spend here and the friends you make it is not a waist of time in my mind.
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Feb 24, 2009 8:46 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
livinglarge: Jan I am simply nonplussed ,
I mean Spain is not that far away .

Crikey in this day and age , with cheap flights and inexpensive accommadation , why wouldn't some1 travel to meet some1 they really ,really liked
bouquet
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Feb 24, 2009 8:47 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
You make a good point. There are some people who will do it but most of us unless there is a good amount of time traveling back and forth to get to know someone might not be as willing to relocate as we think. Let us have our little fantasies though Jan and good luck.hug
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Feb 24, 2009 8:48 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Evening Thomas hug
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Feb 24, 2009 8:49 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Dawn7z: You make a good point. There are some people who will do it but most of us unless there is a good amount of time traveling back and forth to get to know someone might not be as willing to relocate as we think. Let us have our little fantasies though Jan and good luck.


I agree thumbs up I don't have the resources to travel back and forth to get to know someone well enough to give up my life here.
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Feb 24, 2009 8:49 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Jan I agree with Shelley and LL. You might actually meet someone that IS willing to relocate. And with the airfare being cheap right now, you never know! Don't give up sister, keep hangin' in there!comfort hug
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Feb 24, 2009 8:51 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
hopefloats: Jan I agree with Shelley and LL. You might actually meet someone that IS willing to relocate. And with the airfare being cheap right now, you never know! Don't give up sister, keep hangin' in there!



I bet you are a great person to pal around with Hope. You always seem to see the glass half full. What an awesome quality. Just noticed that in most of the comments I have read from you. Some guy is going to be very blessed by having you in his life.thumbs up
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Feb 24, 2009 8:51 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
livinglarge: Jan I am simply nonplussed ,
I mean Spain is not that far away .

Crikey in this day and age , with cheap flights and inexpensive accommadation , why wouldn't some1 travel to meet some1 they really ,really liked


It´s not far from you Irish girl, but from America, it is much much further, and culturally even further.
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Feb 24, 2009 8:52 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
livinglarge: Evening Thomas
blushing
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Feb 24, 2009 8:57 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Jan1305: It´s not far from you Irish girl, but from America, it is much much further, and culturally even further.


I hear you ,

however, Jan ,its not like a hundred years ago,

my Grandmother moved to marry my Grandfather and never saw her

own family again. People didn't travel then, there was no money .

She was only about 5 hours away from them ,yet it was considered a long journey .

Nowaday we can go where we please, no?

I mean we can save up and plan our trip ,its not called a Global

Village for nothing , it is a small world IMO


bouquet hug
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Feb 24, 2009 8:58 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
opps didn't mean to make you blush Tlaugh

bouquet
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Feb 24, 2009 9:01 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I have travelled to Atlanta, Jacksonville, New York City, Vicksburg and San Francisco to have dates with lovely ladies. I clearly state in my profile that I am seeking someone willing to live on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Will it happen? Who knows! I'm I wasting my time on CS and other dating sites? I don't think so. I believe she is out there looking for me also and we will find each other one day.
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Feb 24, 2009 9:02 PM CST C´mon be honest folks
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
Dawn7z: I bet you are a great person to pal around with Hope. You always seem to see the glass half full. What an awesome quality. Just noticed that in most of the comments I have read from you. Some guy is going to be very blessed by having you in his life.




trust me I feel very blessed every moment I have with her grin heart beating
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