Jan1305OPSunshine and vino, Murcia Spain5,319 posts
Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.
I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?
I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.
I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?
I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.
Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?
No because although you don't want to relocate...maybe you will meet someone who will want to relocate to Spain...ya never know....
You never know..true...but highly unlikely I fear.
Jan1305: Hiya you!
You never know..true...but highly unlikely I fear.
Hey Jan..well I guess ya just never know what's around the corner or what the future might hold...I just try to stay positive regardless of the fact I have been here for almost 3 years...
Travel, definately, and I intend to. Relocate, well a little over a year ago I would have, now I'm not so sure. I won't say I wouldn't though, you never know.
I'm not sure I would re-locate right here in my own country, let alone to another. From what I can tell, it's a difficult process - and there's too much uncertainty for me.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.
I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?
I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.
Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?
Jan I am simply nonplussed , I mean Spain is not that far away .
Crikey in this day and age , with cheap flights and inexpensive accommadation , why wouldn't some1 travel to meet some1 they really ,really liked
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
Jan1305: Most people say they would travel, relocate to be with their potential love.
I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?
I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.
Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?
you never know, the other fact is this, if you enjoy the time you spend here and the friends you make it is not a waist of time in my mind.
You make a good point. There are some people who will do it but most of us unless there is a good amount of time traveling back and forth to get to know someone might not be as willing to relocate as we think. Let us have our little fantasies though Jan and good luck.
Dawn7z: You make a good point. There are some people who will do it but most of us unless there is a good amount of time traveling back and forth to get to know someone might not be as willing to relocate as we think. Let us have our little fantasies though Jan and good luck.
I agree I don't have the resources to travel back and forth to get to know someone well enough to give up my life here.
Jan I agree with Shelley and LL. You might actually meet someone that IS willing to relocate. And with the airfare being cheap right now, you never know! Don't give up sister, keep hangin' in there!
hopefloats: Jan I agree with Shelley and LL. You might actually meet someone that IS willing to relocate. And with the airfare being cheap right now, you never know! Don't give up sister, keep hangin' in there!
I bet you are a great person to pal around with Hope. You always seem to see the glass half full. What an awesome quality. Just noticed that in most of the comments I have read from you. Some guy is going to be very blessed by having you in his life.
I have travelled to Atlanta, Jacksonville, New York City, Vicksburg and San Francisco to have dates with lovely ladies. I clearly state in my profile that I am seeking someone willing to live on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Will it happen? Who knows! I'm I wasting my time on CS and other dating sites? I don't think so. I believe she is out there looking for me also and we will find each other one day.
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
Dawn7z: I bet you are a great person to pal around with Hope. You always seem to see the glass half full. What an awesome quality. Just noticed that in most of the comments I have read from you. Some guy is going to be very blessed by having you in his life.
trust me I feel very blessed every moment I have with her
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I think this is a lie, with most. Ok, I live in Spain, most of you here on the IF are American, so however many lovely emails or flowers I receive it´s like....what is the point? We are never going to meet why bother?
I´m not going to relocate, I have done so already from the UK to Spain, here is where I am happy, and here is where I stay.
Does that mean that I´m wasting my time here?