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Feb 25, 2009 9:24 AM CST For all military and formoer military
etacalpha
etacalphaetacalphacolorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 17 Posts
Just curious and bored, But of all the military here I would like to know what lessons learned have served you the best throught your career?
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Feb 25, 2009 9:27 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
etacalpha: Just curious and bored, But of all the military here I would like to know what lessons learned have served you the best throught your career?



I am not military but grew up a military brat and have dated a soldier in the past...

I think most appreciate the friendship, togetherness.

We all appreciate the sun going down and then watching a new dawn and a fresh new day with loved ones still with us...
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Feb 25, 2009 9:31 AM CST For all military and formoer military
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Extreme stress handling, group and resource management, and what food we really need to survive with an energy reserve.

Personally I also found that I do not like the person I became in a uniform...
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Feb 25, 2009 9:36 AM CST For all military and formoer military
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I found that it taught me a lesson in boot camp that I have carried through my life thus far. "This too shall pass." I learned that I can survive anything by keeping my eye on the big picture and knowing that whatever it is that's wrong is temporary. That, combined with the self confidence I gained, have been the best things I got out of the military, and they have had a profound effect on my life.

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Feb 25, 2009 12:13 PM CST For all military and formoer military
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Tamarin: I am not military but grew up a military brat and have dated a soldier in the past...

I think most appreciate the friendship, togetherness.

We all appreciate the sun going down and then watching a new dawn and a fresh new day with loved ones still with us...


I grew up a military brat too. It was like living in your own community when you lived in the PMQ's. Everyone knew each other and you could not go anywhere without running into someone.

What I hated the most was making and keeping friends, they were always coming or going. That is why I always wished I had a brother or sister as when moving to a new place would of had someone to face all the new kids with.
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Feb 25, 2009 12:34 PM CST For all military and formoer military
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
kitty01: I grew up a military brat too. It was like living in your own community when you lived in the PMQ's. Everyone knew each other and you could not go anywhere without running into someone.

What I hated the most was making and keeping friends, they were always coming or going. That is why I always wished I had a brother or sister as when moving to a new place would of had someone to face all the new kids with.


Understand that fully the moving ever 18mths to two years...

You had friends but not ones you kept for years and years...

My parents took the decision to send me to private boarding

school after numerous school moves and then I had those full

time friends and I had my best friend for 27 years.....
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Feb 25, 2009 12:45 PM CST For all military and formoer military
Steevyv
SteevyvSteevyvsisak, Central Croatia Croatia65 Threads 805 Posts
etacalpha: Just curious and bored, But of all the military here I would like to know what lessons learned have served you the best throught your career?


I still can't find words with which I can express what word WAR means. The ugliest I've found are not ugly enough. I am still thinking.
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Feb 25, 2009 12:48 PM CST For all military and formoer military
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Steevyv: I still can't find words with which I can express what word WAR means. The ugliest I've found are not ugly enough. I am still thinking.
hug comfort There are no words ugly enough, Steevy. hug
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Feb 26, 2009 7:42 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Sniper1
Sniper1Sniper1Ulster, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 22 Posts
Steevyv: I still can't find words with which I can express what word WAR means. The ugliest I've found are not ugly enough. I am still thinking.


As much as I hate the WWF(rasslin)I have to admit they got it right when they reversed the letters into RAW,forward or backward the word still means the same,"THE ART OF KILLING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING",right or wrong WAR/RAW is a way of life for some.
George Carlin(R.I.P.)said and I quote"MORE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN KILLED IN THE NAME OF GOD THAN ANY OTHER REASON"unquote.He was absolutely correct.

PS,I will not tolerate being bashed on this subject.
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Feb 26, 2009 7:45 AM CST For all military and formoer military
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Integrity. Accomplish the mission (regardless).

Plus the travel all over the world was really cool.
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Feb 26, 2009 7:45 AM CST For all military and formoer military
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
Duck when you hear a big bang.
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Feb 26, 2009 8:02 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Sniper1
Sniper1Sniper1Ulster, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 22 Posts
foreveryoung1: Duck when you hear a big bang.


NOT,REPEAT,NOT FUNNY!
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Feb 26, 2009 8:07 AM CST For all military and formoer military
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
Sniper1: NOT,REPEAT,NOT FUNNY!


It was not meant to be funny, REPEAT, REPEAT, REPEAT
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Feb 26, 2009 8:32 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I was in the US Air Force for 20 years and served in Vietnam. The military is no different than a civilain career in that it takes working hard, intelligence, and dedication. If you give it your best, it will repay you for your efforts. Pick your friends carefully, pick your co-workers more carefully, and look at the ones who are successful and follow them.
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Feb 26, 2009 8:47 AM CST For all military and formoer military
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
foreveryoung1: Duck when you hear a big bang.


well i thought it was funnyrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 26, 2009 9:22 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Sniper1
Sniper1Sniper1Ulster, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 22 Posts
readyornot0: well i thought it was funny



"May the blessing of light be on you—
light without and light within.
May the blessed sunlight shine on you
and warm your heart
till it glows like a great peat fire".
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Feb 26, 2009 9:27 AM CST For all military and formoer military
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
"May the blessing of light be on you—
light without and light within.
May the blessed sunlight shine on you
and warm your heart
till it glows like a great peat fire".[/quote

and may the sun always be upon your back
and the road rise to meet you feet
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Feb 26, 2009 9:38 AM CST For all military and formoer military
Sniper1
Sniper1Sniper1Ulster, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 22 Posts
readyornot0: "May the blessing of light be on you—
light without and light within.
May the blessed sunlight shine on you
and warm your heart
till it glows like a great peat fire".[/quote

and may the sun always be upon your back
and the road rise to meet you feet



"Wishing you a rainbow
For sunlight after showers—
Miles and miles of Irish smiles
For golden happy hours—
Shamrocks at your doorway
For luck and laughter too,
And a host of friends that never ends
Each day your whole life through!"handshake
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Feb 26, 2009 9:57 AM CST For all military and formoer military
integrity333
integrity333integrity333Eagle, Idaho USA25 Posts
Sniper1: Do NOT let the shrinks get their paws on him,surround him
with family,true friends and (clergy?) every day and night,but don,t make him feel like he's being smothered by it all.
Two key words here,TIME and PATIENCE.


This confuses me a bit, as to advising not to seek professional help. My understanding of Vietnam is that the lack of professional help led to high statistics of suicide.

???
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Feb 26, 2009 10:09 AM CST For all military and formoer military
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
integrity333: This confuses me a bit, as to advising not to seek professional help. My understanding of Vietnam is that the lack of professional help led to high statistics of suicide.

???


and your right please dont listen to the ramblings of a fool there are experts in this field and not many priests qualified as profesional counselors ,
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