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Feb 26, 2009 11:36 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
tabyjean
tabyjeantabyjeanShingle Springs, California USA8 Threads 35 Posts
WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING


A message every adult should read because children
are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you hang my
first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately
wanted to paint another one.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you feed a
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind
to animals.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make my
favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little
things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a
prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always
talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make a
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I
learned that we all have to help take care of each
other.


When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of
your time and money to help people who had nothing,
and I learned that those who have something should
give to those who don't.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you take care
of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have
to take care of what we are given.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw how you
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't
feel good, and I learned that I would have to be
responsible when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw tears come
from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things
hurt, but it's all right to cry.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw that you
cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.


When you thought I wasn't looking I learned most of
life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and
productive person when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I looked at you and
wanted to say, 'Thanks for all the things I saw when
you thought I wasn't looking.'

I AM SENDING THIS TO ALL OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW


WHO DO SO MUCH FOR OTHERS,
BUT THINK THAT NO ONE EVER SEES.


LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT.


Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend) influences the life of a child.

How will you touch the life of someone today? Just by
sending this to someone else, you will probably make
them at least think about their influence on others.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.


Leave the rest to God.
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Feb 26, 2009 11:46 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Enjoyed reading thumbs up
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Feb 26, 2009 12:15 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
wine Good post.
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Feb 26, 2009 12:18 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
that is so true. Thanks for sharing it teddybear
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Feb 26, 2009 1:42 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
The eyes of a child are always on you...yes even when you think they aren't looking...and they learn....hug kiss hug heart beating
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Feb 26, 2009 2:49 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
rolltideroll
rolltiderollrolltiderollKillen, Alabama USA27 Threads 17 Polls 172 Posts
Loved this little poem it really does say the truth about children. Thank youhug
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Feb 26, 2009 3:08 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Very nice and positive and so true makes true the phrase that " Children grow up learning by the things "caught" rather than "taught".
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Feb 26, 2009 3:09 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
I enjoy reading this one every time. Thanks for posting it!thumbs up
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Feb 26, 2009 3:12 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
maline
malinemalinedublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 349 Posts
very good post,loved reading itteddybear
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Feb 26, 2009 5:23 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
nurcnurc
nurcnurcnurcnurcLongwood, Florida USA6 Threads 1,192 Posts
Good reminder to remember how we carry ourselves is seen by so many, and the ones who truly matter are the children.
Thanks for posting.
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Feb 26, 2009 6:45 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
a lovely post to remind us just how we influence children even when we dont realise it ..im goona copy it and bring it into work..i work in a creche.....teddybear
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Feb 26, 2009 8:11 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
hara11
hara11hara11Town, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 54 Posts
Dear Tabyjean,

This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for this great reminder that all we do does make a difference.
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Feb 26, 2009 10:51 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
tabyjean
tabyjeantabyjeanShingle Springs, California USA8 Threads 35 Posts
I posted this because I've learned a lot being a single mother. I have seen my son do so much that I haven't taught him! I've seen & heard him do things I would never want him to do cuz he learned from watching me. He has also, in what few relationships I have had watched how he should & shouldn't treat the ladies. I love that. I never taught him to open the doors for women, how to protect women when people aren't treating them right! I never taught him those things. I'm not proud of some of the things he's seen but they have taught him how to be a loving kind boy because he's watch how others have done things & how it affects me & the ones he cares for! & watching him grow & learn has also taught me so much.
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Feb 26, 2009 11:00 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
In response to: Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.


I'm the pied-piper.
I'm the pied-piper.

dancing
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Feb 27, 2009 5:35 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Very goog reminder and very true in all aspects.hug thumbs up thumbs up hug
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Feb 27, 2009 5:36 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
CjTenorSax: Very goog reminder and very true in all aspects.


Gooddoh doh doh
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Feb 28, 2009 3:50 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
pesh121
pesh121pesh121Manila, Metro Manila Philippines30 Threads 2 Polls 435 Posts
tabyjean: WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING


A message every adult should read because children
are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you hang my
first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately
wanted to paint another one.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you feed a
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind
to animals.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make my
favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little
things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a
prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always
talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make a
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I
learned that we all have to help take care of each
other.


When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of
your time and money to help people who had nothing,
and I learned that those who have something should
give to those who don't.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you take care
of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have
to take care of what we are given.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw how you
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't
feel good, and I learned that I would have to be
responsible when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw tears come
from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things
hurt, but it's all right to cry.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw that you
cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.


When you thought I wasn't looking I learned most of
life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and
productive person when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I looked at you and
wanted to say, 'Thanks for all the things I saw when
you thought I wasn't looking.'

I AM SENDING THIS TO ALL OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW WHO DO SO MUCH FOR OTHERS,
BUT THINK THAT NO ONE EVER SEES. LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT.


Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend) influences the life of a child.

How will you touch the life of someone today? Just by
sending this to someone else, you will probably make
them at least think about their influence on others.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.


Leave the rest to God.


teddybear
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Mar 14, 2009 10:03 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
very nice, very positive, n touched hug teddybear hug
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Mar 14, 2009 10:07 AM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
TLC69
TLC69TLC69duncannon, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 270 Posts
thumbs up
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Mar 14, 2009 6:06 PM CST When you thought I wasn't looking
Leesha1
Leesha1Leesha1,,,,,,,,,, Wicklow Ireland2 Posts
Beautiful poem, having two boys myself that poem meant alot to me
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