Why Hate? (6)

Mar 29, 2007 6:56 PM CST Why Hate?
AmenRa
AmenRaAmenRaChesapeake, Virginia USA1 Threads 3 Posts
This thread is to see if I can get an honest answer from atleast one female that the question/s I pose to you all, may apply to.

1. Why do you change up after you get the man to commit to you?

2. Why do you allow your friends and or family members to interfere
in your relationship that do not have a man of their own or are
lonely. Changing men more than their?

3. Why are you mad when your relationship with a man ends and he
finds another woman, to pamper and give the things you wanted
but never knew how to go about getting them?

4. Why are you mad when your man leaves for work you are sleep, when
he comes home from work your on the phone, When he ask what's for
dinner you say, "I was thinking about going out to eat". But on
payday Your hand is out and you get nothing?
Most Importantly Though

5. Why are you furious when he leaves you and finds a woman that is
doing the things you are not willing to or just simply refuse to
do and then total devestation and hatred for him arises when
you find out she is a WHITE WOMAN !!!

YOU CAN AVOID SUCH A SCENARIO IF YOU DO LIKE YOU SHOULD TO KEEP
WHAT YOU HAVE...
uh oh dunno
Apr 9, 2007 2:51 AM CST Why Hate?
chrisc79
chrisc79chrisc79Suffolk, Virginia USA1 Threads 174 Posts
Sounds like you've been through some drama man! drinking
Apr 11, 2007 5:44 PM CST Why Hate?
AmenRa
AmenRaAmenRaChesapeake, Virginia USA1 Threads 3 Posts
Well it sounds to me that one of two things may of happened
1.You may not read as well as you think you can?

2. You are not sure what you are.....?confused

I say this since I asked for an honest answer from a "WOMAN" and you replied instead I don't understand why would you answer if all the women felt this question was un-answerable by them????
Apr 13, 2007 8:18 PM CST Why Hate?
chrisc79
chrisc79chrisc79Suffolk, Virginia USA1 Threads 174 Posts
Hmmconfused well i can read pretty good.. I'm a guy..yep yep.
I just noticed that you didnt have any replies and I was bored and replied to every Post from Virginia that night and thought i'd maybe start some convo or whatev..but hey whatev! Be ignant if ya wanna be.. thumbs up
Aug 22, 2007 8:50 PM CST Why Hate?
ShortyRed
ShortyRedShortyRedAthens, Tennessee USA6 Threads 624 Posts
Here are my honest answers......

1. Because, as all people do, we change, grow (mentally), and adapt to various things in our environment (work or home). Sometimes, as feelings become deeper, we decide we want the boundaries of the "relationship" to change.

2. Because men will come and go, but your friends and family will always be there. They know you best and only want the best for you. Usually, they're just pointing out things that we can't see because we're too close to the situation or blinded by love and they're only looking out for us. If we're not being mistreated, they shouldn't interfere and if they do, the woman needs to be strong enough to tell them to butt out!

3. If the relationship ended BEFORE he found someone else, it shouldn't matter. I wouldn't say we're mad. We're jealous, because it hurts to realize that he cares more for her.

4. I cannot answer this, because I work 50 hours a week, so if I'm asleep when he leaves, it's because I have to go to work or I just got off work. I prefer eating out, unless he's willing to help with dishes etc. , but I don't mind paying for my own or even treating my man. I Don't put my hand out on payday - unless your half of the bills are due.

5. Once again, if he left me first, it wouldn't matter. I can't answer the rest of it, because I am a WHITE WOMAN!!!
Aug 25, 2007 8:23 AM CST Why Hate?
crazedangel89
crazedangel89crazedangel89VIRGINIA BEACH, Virginia USA41 Threads 441 Posts
1. I dont change after i get a guy to commit i am me through and through. i am me the first time we meet ,the second time,the 40th time...ect i will not act differently to try to impress a guy i will always be myself

2. when friends and family come to talk to me about someone i am seeing i will sit and listen to them. tell them i'll think on it or ask proof of what they say then i will ask my partner if what they say is true or just ingore them all together. i look for honesty in a person and if i see it start to falter in them i call them out on it.

3. when a realtionship ends for me it is usually for the best and i am never mad at the guy for finding another that is able to give him the things i could not or would not. the only thing i want from a guy is trust,honesty,loyalty, eventually love. those things have no price tags on them and what i ask for i will give in return.

4. he gotta go to work i wouldnt be mad at him for that. and i would offer going out to dinner if i was paying or at least paying my share of the bill. the only reason my hand would be out on payday is because i need his half of the bills that are due or if he owes me money for losing a bet or something like that. if i want something i will buy it that is just the way i am.

5. hhmm... didnt i already answer this. the only reason i would be mad that he left me for someone else is because he was already seeing her while he was with me, or that the reasons that he said he broke up with me for are the same reasons he is going out with this new girl. and it wouldnt matter race.


well those are my answers and they are 100% honest
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