what do you do when.... (31)
salankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Postsdazchef: That kinda depends on whats in your hands at the time.
seeing as its him i wouldnt need anything in my hands 
LadyBlackAdder: It's been long enough and you don't owe him anything, Sal. We've all romanticised our exes at low times and he'll get over it. Just after my marriage ended I was contacted by an ex from 20 years before. I was happy to chat with him until I discovered he seemed to presume I was going to get back with him. Never in a million years. Same as you, he had treated me badly and I had ended it. I don't know what he thought had changed in the meanwhile. Fortunately, he lives quite a distance away so no chance of bumping into him.
thats it i mean i did question myself for a while after we split and did try to get back with him and he said no at the time which upset me but after a few weeks i was so glad he had said no, i finally remembered what it was like to be happy again. dont live too close to him so would have to either go out of my way to find him or it would be a freak accident70Libra: Time for a little sit down to spell out exactly how you DON'T feel. Neutral territory, middle of the day, no alcohol, and a schedule (i.e. "I have to be somewhere in half an hour")
id rather not have to sit anywhere with him but it might come to that yet 
Be firm but gentle no need to mop the floor with him . Unless he deserves it that is
dazchef: Be firm but gentle no need to mop the floor with him . Unless he deserves it that is
I say go crazy spring cleaning is in
dazchef: Be firm but gentle no need to mop the floor with him . Unless he deserves it that is
im more the type to cut people with words as he knows but he also knows i can hold my own when needs be 70Libra: Time for a little sit down to spell out exactly how you DON'T feel. Neutral territory, middle of the day, no alcohol, and a schedule (i.e. "I have to be somewhere in half an hour")
If you don't feel comfortable Sal that's fine but you got to be completely detached from this and you need to spell it out to him in no uncertain terms. You got to be cruel to be kind.
vinny1967: If you don't feel comfortable Sal that's fine but you got to be completely detached from this and you need to spell it out to him in no uncertain terms. You got to be cruel to be kind.
yeah thats true. iv told him im not interested and he says he will leave me be so i guess well see what happens from now dazchef: Hmmm expect the ol drunken text messages so.....
them i can deal with cause he has a number i dont really use anymore 
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