Cant find a man!! (54)
XxSouLsEaRcHerxXBlanchardstown, Dublin Ireland39 Threads 1 Polls 360 PostsDon't trust Postmen...
Many men have a cut off age of 30 years old on the dating apps – despite their own age being significantly older.
A woman I know told me dating got very harder after she turned 30. She says before 30 she had lots of options and had interest from men. Now she said, nobody cares anymore as she's 33. And she found no man interested in pursing a long-term relationship even after trying for 3 years. She said all other women she knows after 30 have the same issue. For women after 30, it becomes harder getting serious relationships because you have you less options as Men tend to be attracted to younger women in their 20's. I don't see that changing anytime soon. So many women make the mistake of spending their 20's on their career and rejecting genuine Men in the hope that they "deserve better" but by the time they hit the wall at 30, it's nearly always too late to find a Man by that stage because the pool of eligible Men rapidly shrinks. The "dating power flip at age 30", as it's called, is worth looking up.
A woman I know told me dating got very harder after she turned 30. She says before 30 she had lots of options and had interest from men. Now she said, nobody cares anymore as she's 33. And she found no man interested in pursing a long-term relationship even after trying for 3 years. She said all other women she knows after 30 have the same issue. For women after 30, it becomes harder getting serious relationships because you have you less options as Men tend to be attracted to younger women in their 20's. I don't see that changing anytime soon. So many women make the mistake of spending their 20's on their career and rejecting genuine Men in the hope that they "deserve better" but by the time they hit the wall at 30, it's nearly always too late to find a Man by that stage because the pool of eligible Men rapidly shrinks. The "dating power flip at age 30", as it's called, is worth looking up.
litelife: Many men have a cut off age of 30 years old on the dating apps – despite their own age being significantly older.
A woman I know told me dating got very harder after she turned 30. She says before 30 she had lots of options and had interest from men. Now she said, nobody cares anymore as she's 33. And she found no man interested in pursing a long-term relationship even after trying for 3 years. She said all other women she knows after 30 have the same issue. For women after 30, it becomes harder getting serious relationships because you have you less options as Men tend to be attracted to younger women in their 20's. I don't see that changing anytime soon. So many women make the mistake of spending their 20's on their career and rejecting genuine Men in the hope that they "deserve better" but by the time they hit the wall at 30, it's nearly always too late to find a Man by that stage because the pool of eligible Men rapidly shrinks. The "dating power flip at age 30", as it's called, is worth looking up.
I woman you know me holeA woman I know told me dating got very harder after she turned 30. She says before 30 she had lots of options and had interest from men. Now she said, nobody cares anymore as she's 33. And she found no man interested in pursing a long-term relationship even after trying for 3 years. She said all other women she knows after 30 have the same issue. For women after 30, it becomes harder getting serious relationships because you have you less options as Men tend to be attracted to younger women in their 20's. I don't see that changing anytime soon. So many women make the mistake of spending their 20's on their career and rejecting genuine Men in the hope that they "deserve better" but by the time they hit the wall at 30, it's nearly always too late to find a Man by that stage because the pool of eligible Men rapidly shrinks. The "dating power flip at age 30", as it's called, is worth looking up.
Let’s keep something real here. Men over 30 that have created value for themselves in life physically and financially which were shunned away in the teens and 20’s are now on the winning side of the spectrum. Yes, these same men are now punishing these post wall women for their past mistakes and not locking down a man of value when they were in their 20’s. Instead they decided to put the so called “nice guys” on hold while they decided to play with various roosters. This is a generational problem and it seems that a lesson will never be learned here, mainly thanks to feminism. The SM is deregulated, high value men have options and the post wall ladies are getting punished for ignoring the good men of their past. That is a fact. Enjoy your cats!
corkgirl26: Can you want romance too much that it just wont happen,on different sites " no luck" friends setting me up " no luck" nights out only meeting messers looking for a quick one..
pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
A watched kettle is slow to boil.pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
Take the focus off dating and men and focus on you...yourself, your hobbies likes dislikes etc get out and let fun be the motive for getting dressed up and going out...rather than looking for someone...flirt with many men...have fun and don't stress..
The problem women over 30 have when dating is that they still assume they can still date mostly men of their own age. In reality, they're too old for that and should look for men in their 40s. Women, compared to the pool of men they have access to in early 20s, have access to way less men by the time they turn 30. After 30, a woman generally starts losing her ability to bear children, quickly or slowly. In addition, good looks fade and she eventually becomes "invisible" to men.
I used to date some women in their early/mid 30's. With few exceptions, they turned out to be bitter, distrustful of men, and emotionally scarred from previous relationships. In addition, I find so few women over 32 to be attractive physically. Perhaps 1 in 50 women aged 30-35 are attractive to me compared to 1 in 15 for women 20-28.
I used to date some women in their early/mid 30's. With few exceptions, they turned out to be bitter, distrustful of men, and emotionally scarred from previous relationships. In addition, I find so few women over 32 to be attractive physically. Perhaps 1 in 50 women aged 30-35 are attractive to me compared to 1 in 15 for women 20-28.
litelife: The problem women over 30 have when dating is that they still assume they can still date mostly men of their own age. In reality, they're too old for that and should look for men in their 40s. Women, compared to the pool of men they have access to in early 20s, have access to way less men by the time they turn 30. After 30, a woman generally starts losing her ability to bear children, quickly or slowly. In addition, good looks fade and she eventually becomes "invisible" to men.
I used to date some women in their early/mid 30's. With few exceptions, they turned out to be bitter, distrustful of men, and emotionally scarred from previous relationships. In addition, I find so few women over 32 to be attractive physically. Perhaps 1 in 50 women aged 30-35 are attractive to me compared to 1 in 15 for women 20-28.
Wow, being such an expert on women it's shocking how you're still single.I used to date some women in their early/mid 30's. With few exceptions, they turned out to be bitter, distrustful of men, and emotionally scarred from previous relationships. In addition, I find so few women over 32 to be attractive physically. Perhaps 1 in 50 women aged 30-35 are attractive to me compared to 1 in 15 for women 20-28.
MysteriousGirl80: Wow, being such an expert on women it's shocking how you're still single.
With his list of demands,I can't understand why the queue hasn't formed 
jimgi: With his list of demands,I can't understand why the queue hasn't formed
Targeting the naive 20 year olds, because the women his own age and older can spot the red flags straight away. The profile is quite believable too 
When I was in my teens and twenties drifting from one low wage job to another I was invisible to women. After I graduated from university and entered a well paying profession in my late twenties, women who wouldn't have given me the time of day before were smiling and flirting. However, they were no longer attractive to me because they start hitting the wall at 26. Recently bought a nice car and have a very good job and my own place. I love being a man, but I am a very patient man! Strong and Independent women often forget about the second part of the phrase....independent! The wall awaits, independence lies on the other side of the wall! Where you can be as strong and independent as you want to be!
It's quite simple really. Prior to age 30 women have the advantage in the dating market, but after that age the pendulum swings the other way. Many women don't discover that until it's too late. There is sadly a large amount of Age 30+ single women on anti-depressants. What women don't understand is that nature is unforgiving. There is a time limit for fertility and beauty.
It's quite simple really. Prior to age 30 women have the advantage in the dating market, but after that age the pendulum swings the other way. Many women don't discover that until it's too late. There is sadly a large amount of Age 30+ single women on anti-depressants. What women don't understand is that nature is unforgiving. There is a time limit for fertility and beauty.
litelife: When I was in my teens and twenties drifting from one low wage job to another I was invisible to women. After I graduated from university and entered a well paying profession in my late twenties, women who wouldn't have given me the time of day before were smiling and flirting. However, they were no longer attractive to me because they start hitting the wall at 26. Recently bought a nice car and have a very good job and my own place. I love being a man, but I am a very patient man! Strong and Independent women often forget about the second part of the phrase....independent! The wall awaits, independence lies on the other side of the wall! Where you can be as strong and independent as you want to be!
It's quite simple really. Prior to age 30 women have the advantage in the dating market, but after that age the pendulum swings the other way. Many women don't discover that until it's too late. There is sadly a large amount of Age 30+ single women on anti-depressants. What women don't understand is that nature is unforgiving. There is a time limit for fertility and beauty.
That suggests that the only value women see in men is education, money or materials things That may be true for some women in some circumstances but is not true for all.It's quite simple really. Prior to age 30 women have the advantage in the dating market, but after that age the pendulum swings the other way. Many women don't discover that until it's too late. There is sadly a large amount of Age 30+ single women on anti-depressants. What women don't understand is that nature is unforgiving. There is a time limit for fertility and beauty.
Not every woman will want someone for their university education, nice car, own place or good job. Many such men are single.
corkgirl26: Can you want romance too much that it just wont happen,on different sites " no luck" friends setting me up " no luck" nights out only meeting messers looking for a quick one..
pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
Times have change. Men are no longer the hunters. Traditional women will have to adjust or remain single.pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
I might have to get one from Ireland, to swim over to me 
Hi I'm here 
heart4saleee: Hi I'm here
Says the man who heart is for sale
corkgirl26: Can you want romance too much that it just wont happen,on different sites " no luck" friends setting me up " no luck" nights out only meeting messers looking for a quick one..
pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
well I'd like to respond to this in some of my more dramatic tones ,,,, so ill have to settle for saying its a pile of Rolex,,,pretend it doesn't bother me but it does,everyone seems to be dating except me!!!
Write an ad like mine ........Be specific in what you want and it will fall into place
Ahem??????
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