Still not getting Blokes..... (11)

Apr 19, 2014 5:34 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
....Will men get the plot?...

After chatting with female friends and my very significant other, im staggered at the lengths men will go to to make complete tools of themselves and then wonder 'why they get knocked back'.....
Tales of video camera 'indiscretions' and 'smutty talk' (my discriptives, not theirs) abound, pledges of "your the woman for me", found to be a blatant lie with there being 'another woman' clearly in the picture....Is it any wonder women are sick to the back teeth with whats out there in 'dating land'....
Is this a freesite phenomina, or is this just men in the 21st centuary, is this a chancer mentality, and if so, what price an honest fella?....
Not every bloke gets painted with the same brush of course, but good news seldom travels while bad news has got its running shoes on and is doing the hundred metre dash....
If ya wanna discuss this, go ahead, if ya wanna ignore it, well ya can do that too...Me, im just gonna give my one a big hug and tell her,"its alright dear, the others are buried underneath the patio", and ill keep a perfectly straight face when i say it....
Apr 19, 2014 5:41 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
About_Blank: ....Will men get the plot?...

After chatting with female friends and my very significant other, im staggered at the lengths men will go to to make complete tools of themselves and then wonder 'why they get knocked back'.....
Tales of video camera 'indiscretions' and 'smutty talk' (my discriptives, not theirs) abound, pledges of "your the woman for me", found to be a blatant lie with there being 'another woman' clearly in the picture....Is it any wonder women are sick to the back teeth with whats out there in 'dating land'....
Is this a freesite phenomina, or is this just men in the 21st centuary, is this a chancer mentality, and if so, what price an honest fella?....
Not every bloke gets painted with the same brush of course, but good news seldom travels while bad news has got its running shoes on and is doing the hundred metre dash....
If ya wanna discuss this, go ahead, if ya wanna ignore it, well ya can do that too...Me, im just gonna give my one a big hug and tell her,"its alright dear, the others are buried underneath the patio", and ill keep a perfectly straight face when i say it....

Probably an internet phenomenon.... with the high ratio of men to women on the internet, as opposed to the roughly 50/50 on the outernet.... something isn't right. grin

That said... the women are just as bad. Messers, half of them. wave
Apr 19, 2014 5:54 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
MADDOG69: Probably an internet phenomenon.... with the high ratio of men to women on the internet, as opposed to the roughly 50/50 on the outernet.... something isn't right.

That said... the women are just as bad. Messers, half of them.


Absolutely right, here as an illustration, the ratio is 2 to 1 men for women....
As regards women being messers, is it a case of we get what we give?, my female friends, made here and elsewere have been for the most part very sound people, that said, there has always been a mailing thing going on here first to establish whether or not we have a 'commonality' of interest and mind set...(consider it a vetting process that works both ways)....

So, hope your keeping well fella, not that many of us 'old schoolers' still left here now...laugh....
Apr 19, 2014 5:58 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
XxSouLsEaRcHerxX
XxSouLsEaRcHerxXXxSouLsEaRcHerxXBlanchardstown, Dublin Ireland39 Threads 1 Polls 360 Posts
What makes You Think That The Guy's Are the problem.....

Think You Expect Too Much, Like Most Girls??

Think About It??
Apr 19, 2014 6:09 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
XxSouLsEaRcHerxX: What makes You Think That The Guy's Are the problem.....

Think You Expect Too Much, Like Most Girls??

Think About It??


Well fella, you might need to talk to women and get their 'minds eye view' on men, in the way i have....
Saying 'I expect too much', presumes you know me....well you dont, im not being hostile, but you dont know me from Adam, and to say 'like most girls', is a generalisation which will will do nothing for your arguement (if you decide to have one)....
...and 'Think about it'....yeah, ok if you say so....

roll eyes
Apr 19, 2014 6:10 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
About_Blank: Absolutely right, here as an illustration, the ratio is 2 to 1 men for women....


That's about right. And you can roughly test it. If you go to the last page of the searchs on list view for men seeking women in ireland the cut off is 'online within 1 week'

To reach the same cut off on profiles you go to page 6-7. About half. thumbs up
About_Blank:
As regards women being messers, is it a case of we get what we give?, my female friends, made here and elsewere have been for the most part very sound people, that said, there has always been a mailing thing going on here first to establish whether or not we have a 'commonality' of interest and mind set...(consider it a vetting process that works both ways)....

I think it's an age thing. THe younger wans often join up for a bit of ego.... or the famous "we're on a break/he treats me bad" when you find out their various social presence/Instant messaging still has a pic of the other on the front. And of course there's Maddogs golden rule 'The prettier she is on the internet, the more problems she has'
laugh

About_Blank:
So, hope your keeping well fella, not that many of us 'old schoolers' still left here now.......

That's right. The Great IE Forum Famine of 2014 has killed off all, but the hardiest. laugh ireland
Apr 19, 2014 7:28 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
far more single women than men out there at the moment around the early 20 to late 30 age bracket..a lot of men have emigrated..suits me down to the ground..I've been cleaning up this past year or soireland
Apr 19, 2014 7:40 AM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
About_Blank: ....Will men get the plot?...

After chatting with female friends and my very significant other, im staggered at the lengths men will go to to make complete tools of themselves and then wonder 'why they get knocked back'.....
Tales of video camera 'indiscretions' and 'smutty talk' (my discriptives, not theirs) abound, pledges of "your the woman for me", found to be a blatant lie with there being 'another woman' clearly in the picture....Is it any wonder women are sick to the back teeth with whats out there in 'dating land'....
Is this a freesite phenomina, or is this just men in the 21st centuary, is this a chancer mentality, and if so, what price an honest fella?....
Not every bloke gets painted with the same brush of course, but good news seldom travels while bad news has got its running shoes on and is doing the hundred metre dash....
If ya wanna discuss this, go ahead, if ya wanna ignore it, well ya can do that too...Me, im just gonna give my one a big hug and tell her,"its alright dear, the others are buried underneath the patio", and ill keep a perfectly straight face when i say it....


You know what, Blank? It's not an internet thing. It's out there IRL and frankly, it's yawn-worthy now.yawn
Apr 19, 2014 12:54 PM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Hi L, wave hope you're well.

I do think it's a cultural thing, and not everyone is the same, but you do get a lot of similar stuff on here - I prefer to meet people through friends or a group of like-minded people in RL where it's easier not to waste your time with messers.
Apr 22, 2014 4:37 PM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
modermen
modermenmodermencork, Cork Ireland66 Threads 1,108 Posts
MADDOG69: That's about right. And you can roughly test it. If you go to the last page of the searchs on list view for men seeking women in ireland the cut off is 'online within 1 week'

To reach the same cut off on profiles you go to page 6-7. About half.

I think it's an age thing. THe younger wans often join up for a bit of ego.... or the famous "we're on a break/he treats me bad" when you find out their various social presence/Instant messaging still has a pic of the other on the front. And of course there's Maddogs golden rule 'The prettier she is on the internet, the more problems she has'
That's right. The Great IE Forum Famine of 2014 has killed off all, but the hardiest.
Lets just say other things are going on or you could say I have been dancing in the shadows, still here.
Apr 23, 2014 4:42 PM CST Still not getting Blokes.....
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
FB to the rescue :

"Be strong enough to stand alone;
Be yourself enough to stand apart;
But we wise enough to stand together
when the time comes..."

Equality in a relationship, yes, but with different roles. I don't want to be a man, I am a woman. And to celebrate that I need a man to be a man, in his own right. I am happy to cook the meals, hang out the washing, whilst he cuts the lawn or does a few jobs around the place. Balance. That way, you enhance each other's strengths, and support the weaknesses, in a balanced way, without draining the lifeblood from each other. It's a partnership - your mate walks alongside you, not head of you, nor behind you. If you spend your life tearing each other apart, what will be left?

Too many relationships today are hell-bent on trying to get one over the other, trying to conquer, to own... sure, that's not love. That's ownership. And a sign of a weak Self Ego.
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