what went wrong (26)

so one day i open cs account as you do and i find mail which i open and read i was thinking its would most lightly spam but no turns out to be a nice sounding lady in cork

we get chating was going good after a while ask if id like to meet up for a tea i said sure we set up a time and a place that okay with both of us but the day before i get a message

(cant make it tomorrow,sorry for inconvience)i go to right back to say sure maybe so other time but her profile is gone i think she hide it than about week later shes back

so here my Q
is it to much to ask why

She may have got cold feet,? Who knows there could of been loads of reasons for her not getting back,

When I first joined I got chatting to a fine man from Denmark but lived in Dublin as he was a captain on ship North Sea ..

We were getting on very well and he even said that he enjoyed chatting with me, he was very good looking and big as in muscley as he used to be a body builder and still kept fit,..anyway
I aked him had he had Irish girlfriends and he said yes but they never stick around him for long,,I joked with him and said do ya treat them mean,,he said I shouldn't assume that and no he didnt,he said maybe I find out the reason why when I meet him,anyway he told me he had to go back on the ship for few weeks and hopefully we meet up around Xmas,,,anyway the very next day his profile was gone from the site,,and there was me getting to like this guy and gonna meet up with him,,he has a house in Dublin, I did wonder for awhile why did he just go like that,strange one.

I dunno Ken, I know it must be frustrating, but I wouldn't ask myself.

A lot of people chat to more than 1 person, maybe she met someone else and wanted to see how that goes. It mightn't have gone anywhere and she is back.

A i thought i was the for you ......................how could you

I'd never chase anyone , I've encountered similar, people sometimes are like that

Hi Keen,

As KN said, she obviously got a better offer.

She went with it instead of playing the 2 of you. You could see that as a positive. It didn't work out for whatever reason, now she is available again.

Put it down to experience and move on. Plenty more out there

life is full of maybe's, she got cold feet, met someone else
or her partner/ husband found out she was on the site....
same happened to me some time ago, i was chatting to a female
for at least 2 weeks, no profile photo,
when we arranged to me she sent me a photo,
when i saw it it turned out to be,
she was the wife of someone i worked with years ago,
when i asked her to explain, she deleted her profile and
havent heard from her since......
before you ask. No i didnt tell him.........[/quote




Lord.