profiles with no pictures ? (83)

Nov 11, 2014 3:47 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
some individuals , for one reason or another , choose not to publicly display a profile picture , and thankfully , cs has an e card facility where members can share a photo in private .

yet it seems that trying to get a picture out of some people is like trying to get blood out of a stone . i get requests for personal info , such as my mobile number or email address so they can send me a picture there !

has any one else come across this and has any one any suggestions as to why people would be so reluctant to share a picture , even in private on site ? professor
Nov 11, 2014 3:51 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
ellimere: some individuals , for one reason or another , choose not to publicly display a profile picture , and thankfully , cs has an e card facility where members can share a photo in private .

yet it seems that trying to get a picture out of some people is like trying to get blood out of a stone . i get requests for personal info , such as my mobile number or email address so they can send me a picture there !

has any one else come across this and has any one any suggestions as to why people would be so reluctant to share a picture , even in private on site ?



They might be shy.

They may be in a relationship,.

They may not feel comfortable with their pic up because he might have dated hundreds,lol,

Work reasons,

They might not feel confident displaying themselves in front window of the shop on here,lol,


It could be a way of getting your email address or phone number.
Nov 11, 2014 3:54 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: They might be shy.

They may be in a relationship,.

They may not feel comfortable with their pic up because he might have dated hundreds,lol,

Work reasons,

They might not feel confident displaying themselves in front window of the shop on here,lol,It could be a way of getting your email address or phone number.




They could be in prison,

They could be a real prince from Saudia Arabia,

You had one email you ellimere right,smitten .

They may have had Botox and look too puffy,lol.

wave
Nov 11, 2014 3:56 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba: They could be in prison,

They could be a real prince from Saudia Arabia,

You had one email you ellimere right, .

They may have had Botox and look too puffy,lol.


ive had several and usually if they wont send a picture on site , i wish them the best and leave them at that as i find it strange to converse with a faceless person ! i dont know if thats a bit harsh
Nov 11, 2014 4:02 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba: Yes I know what you mean ,I have chatted to a man that was faceless reluctant to send their pic,

It's happend afew times and with you also,

Yes I say send it to my ecards because like most of us we don't want to be giving out our telephone number.

It's mad isnt it.


it kind of makes you question who they are exactly and also why they bother sending a message when they know people will want to see who they are talking to .
Nov 11, 2014 4:05 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
ellimere: ive had several and usually if they wont send a picture on site , i wish them the best and leave them at that as i find it strange to converse with a faceless person ! i dont know if thats a bit harsh



I don't want to judge but I'd say alot that won't put up their pic in ecards or on site are just messing around,could be they in a relationship but wouldn't actually act on it as meeting up but are just content to try flirt .i think the way social media is these days with lots dating sites etc makes it alot more excess able for a man or woman to just go on line and flirt ,yes I know couple who have trusting relationships everything fine wouldn't do that but it's just more tempting lets say as some might think its just a laugh,
Yes I know it's not but to them they think it is,

Just my opinion ellimere.
Nov 11, 2014 4:05 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
mine just cant pass the ugly filter moping
Nov 11, 2014 4:08 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
ellimere: it kind of makes you question who they are exactly and also why they bother sending a message when they know people will want to see who they are talking to .



Think I look stupid with that bat hat on me now,Halloween over ,I'm just going to change it,

Good thread ellimere,

thumbs up .

Hey don't mind those faceless ones but like you I get curious and want to know why,

wine
Nov 11, 2014 4:10 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mine just cant pass the ugly filter[/



Lends to mystery for a lady.

thumbs up
Nov 11, 2014 4:12 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
fifitrixibelle: mine just cant pass the ugly filter




Your excused anyway as you are a forum poster.

V I p .


laugh .


Okay goodnight all.

yawn
Nov 11, 2014 4:12 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba: I don't want to judge but I'd say alot that won't put up their pic in ecards or on site are just messing around,could be they in a relationship but wouldn't actually act on it as meeting up but are just content to try flirt .i think the way social media is these days with lots dating sites etc makes it alot more excess able for a man or woman to just go on line and flirt ,yes I know couple who have trusting relationships everything fine wouldn't do that but it's just more tempting lets say as some might think its just a laugh,
Yes I know it's not but to them they think it is,

Just my opinion ellimere.

there is some of that going on for sure , weve all come across it. some guys are honest and say they are looking for extra curricular activities , while i think its wrong , i appreciate their honesty !
Nov 11, 2014 4:13 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
fifitrixibelle: mine just cant pass the ugly filter


dont say that !!!! teddybear
Nov 11, 2014 4:38 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I don't mind faceless people. That is their choice.

But if there is private emailing going on, with a view to meeting, then pictures should be exchanged.
Nov 11, 2014 4:44 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
mollybaby: I don't mind faceless people. That is their choice.

But if there is private emailing going on, with a view to meeting, then pictures should be exchanged.


in my experience people who are reluctant to share even private photos , have very little intentions of meeting !

im just wondering if im not giving them enough of a chance . when should you cut your losses. i usually ask twice for a picture through e cards and if they insist on obtaining my email / number .. i just wish them luck
Nov 11, 2014 4:44 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
mollybaby: I don't mind faceless people. That is their choice.

But if there is private emailing going on, with a view to meeting, then pictures should be exchanged.



thumbs up
Nov 11, 2014 4:52 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
fifitrixibelle: mine just cant pass the ugly filter


I love your hair, similar to my own rollers


I don't have a picture up, I think if you are serious about meeting someone off here then a picture is better as it cuts out the old rejection that comes when pictures are shared.
wine
Nov 11, 2014 4:55 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
ellimere: in my experience people who are reluctant to share even private photos , have very little intentions of meeting !

im just wondering if im not giving them enough of a chance . when should you cut your losses. i usually ask twice for a picture through e cards and if they insist on obtaining my email / number .. i just wish them luck


They may be even reluctant to post pics on ecards

Why not set up a separate email account for this purpose.

They might feel better about sending it there, and you will lose out on nothing.
Nov 11, 2014 4:57 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
ellimere: in my experience people who are reluctant to share even private photos , have very little intentions of meeting !

im just wondering if im not giving them enough of a chance . when should you cut your losses. i usually ask twice for a picture through e cards and if they insist on obtaining my email / number .. i just wish them luck


If they wanted to give you a picture they could, they don't need your phone number or email its easy enough on here. I've had the same requests and when they say oh I can't use e-card, I said no bother and leave it at that. lol
Though one way around it is to set up a email just for that, without your real name or anything in it, then they have no more excuses and have no further details on you. thumbs up
Nov 11, 2014 5:01 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
WittyandWise: If they wanted to give you a picture they could, they don't need your phone number or email its easy enough on here. I've had the same requests and when they say oh I can't use e-card, I said no bother and leave it at that. lol
Though one way around it is to set up a email just for that, without your real name or anything in it, then they have no more excuses and have no further details on you.


maybe it is just me (okay rolling on the floor laughing it probably is just me) but I get the creeps when people want to email me on private email.....uh oh
Nov 11, 2014 5:01 PM CST profiles with no pictures ?
WittyandWise: I love your hair, similar to my own I don't have a picture up, I think if you are serious about meeting someone off here then a picture is better as it cuts out the old rejection that comes when pictures are shared.


it would help , i use dating apps as well and its quite rare you would find someone with no picture on them !
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