Faceless Newby's... (39)

Nov 22, 2014 3:19 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
So let's face it, guys are wired differently as most of us Ladies and Men know or suspect, we have to have "visual feedback".... ( in the bedroom too....she says: 'let's turn the light off...'We say : 'let's not...'!

I'm amazed at how many new members (woman) come onto CS with no pic....Us guys need to see a physical match, as well as the rest, but we hardly going to read the profile of a faceless member...are we ??!?
Nov 22, 2014 3:43 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
africat41: So let's face it, guys are wired differently as most of us Ladies and Men know or suspect, we have to have "visual feedback".... ( in the bedroom too....she says: 'let's turn the light off...'We say : 'let's not...'!

I'm amazed at how many new members (woman) come onto CS with no pic....Us guys need to see a physical match, as well as the rest, but we hardly going to read the profile of a faceless member...are we ??!?


Same with the men - if you click on New Members and then Ireland, it's mostly faceless profiles. dunno

It's up to you who you communicate with or not. conversing
Nov 22, 2014 3:45 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
africat41: So let's face it, guys are wired differently as most of us Ladies and Men know or suspect, we have to have "visual feedback".... ( in the bedroom too....she says: 'let's turn the light off...'We say : 'let's not...'!

I'm amazed at how many new members (woman) come onto CS with no pic....Us guys need to see a physical match, as well as the rest, but we hardly going to read the profile of a faceless member...are we ??!?






Well as a woman I like visual too it's just we ladies might not always be so upfront about that,

However if that's the only thing that one has on their mind the visual it would do nothing for me on its own,


Alot of men not just after that either,

Or maybe it's just most of them on this site,

laugh
Nov 22, 2014 3:48 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Well as a woman I like visual too it's just we ladies might not always be so upfront about that,

However if that's the only thing that one has on their mind the visual it would do nothing for me on its own,Alot of men not just after that either,

Or maybe it's just most of them on this site,






Most of them with no pics up,


Like we women be interested,


Nor would I be interested in a lovely pic to look at but no chat ,

That's interesting or just plain good ol chat .
Nov 22, 2014 4:17 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
Don't get me wrong...it's just good to have "clue" as to who you chatting with.....ye the chat and banter more important....! For sure....!!!! But one has to be remotely physically attracted....!!!
Nov 22, 2014 4:19 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
Yep....this is true...!!
Nov 22, 2014 4:19 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
africat41: So let's face it, guys are wired differently as most of us Ladies and Men know or suspect, we have to have "visual feedback".... ( in the bedroom too....she says: 'let's turn the light off...'We say : 'let's not...'!

I'm amazed at how many new members (woman) come onto CS with no pic....Us guys need to see a physical match, as well as the rest, but we hardly going to read the profile of a faceless member...are we ??!?


I operate the the other way. Words/personality first.
Nov 22, 2014 4:21 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
africat41: Don't get me wrong...it's just good to have "clue" as to who you chatting with.....ye the chat and banter more important....! For sure....!!!! But one has to be remotely physically attracted....!!!


I completely understand, I wouldn't be chatting with someone (locally) who doesn't have a pic up. Too much messing going on.
Nov 22, 2014 4:41 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
Well....each one to their own of course...If your profile was down as long term (just say..!)....and got talking to a guy on a platonic level.....and a psychological bond is formed after a while....then you two met ( you being emotionally and physically attracted to him/ he only emotionally attracted to you)....can you imagine how hurt you'll be if it turns out he's not physically attracted....????....and had no clue what you looked like but turns out you're physically unmatched....!!!!
Nov 22, 2014 4:46 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Different horses for different courses,


Just like people have a preference that differs from another be it food,colour,clothes,anything really well so too is it with looks and personality.

We cannot generalise or stereotype as to what men or women preference is,


It's each to their own .

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Nov 22, 2014 4:46 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
africat41: Well....each one to their own of course...If your profile was down as long term (just say..!)....and got talking to a guy on a platonic level.....and a psychological bond is formed after a while....then you two met ( you being emotionally and physically attracted to him/ he only emotionally attracted to you)....can you imagine how hurt you'll be if it turns out he's not physically attracted....????....and had no clue what you looked like but turns out you're physically unmatched....!!!!


Thats what the ecard facility is for
Nov 22, 2014 4:49 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Fraya: Thats what the ecard facility is for





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Nov 22, 2014 4:51 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
faceless oldbie's
Nov 22, 2014 4:52 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
snowlynx: faceless oldbie's


Anseo laugh
Nov 22, 2014 5:11 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
Sure you knew what the e-card facility was when you posted your profile.....doubt it !!!!
Nov 22, 2014 5:15 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
africat41: Sure you knew what the e-card facility was when you posted your profile.....doubt it !!!!


Is that aimed at me? No, I didn't at the time.
Nov 22, 2014 5:22 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
No not aimed at you of course...this whole cyber-deception thing generally is my worry.......!!!
"catfish...."!!! ....hyperthetically, you could be a man and I'll not have a clue....!dunno
Nov 22, 2014 5:26 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
africat41: No not aimed at you of course...this whole cyber-deception thing generally is my worry.......!!!
"catfish...."!!! ....hyperthetically, you could be a man and I'll not have a clue....!


and you could be a 13yr old using your dads pic for I know. That's why connecting with the intellect is important for some.
Nov 22, 2014 5:28 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
africat41: No not aimed at you of course...this whole cyber-deception thing generally is my worry.......!!!
"catfish...."!!! ....hyperthetically, you could be a man and I'll not have a clue....!




Yes meets are much better when you see the person in their personality,

Because face comes with that and their body might have personality too,


Oh btw maybe you are an imposter you could be someone we knw of that robbed a profile,

It happens on here ,

Invaders of the body snatchers,

Well I'm me I just pinched myself.

Good luck on your mission.

sleep .

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Nov 22, 2014 5:38 PM CST Faceless Newby's...
africat41
africat41africat41Dublin 7, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 22 Posts
Obviously this is possible.... Take your point!! Just don't get why one person should "put themselves out there"...and another not...!!! It's debatable if this is " equal playing fields"....but each to their own... I respect that...!
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