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I look around and see how many of us nowadays jump into bed almost first thing. We are led by physical attraction, long before we can actually tell whether that other matches our true hopes and needs.
To be compatible physically is of course important, but a relationship is clearly made up of far more than time spent in bed together. Are we treating physical intimacy far too lightly? Are we ruining our chances for true intimacy by being intimite with basically strangers?
Looks a bit like we are bridling the horse from the wrong end these days, and a bridle on the tail of a horse surely does not lead to a smooth ride, or does it?