Not Single Not Looking!! (82)

Apr 12, 2015 3:07 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??conversing
Apr 12, 2015 3:11 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??

Yes, it´s where a boy can become a real man and have loads of birds at once
Apr 12, 2015 3:12 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??




I don't think it is any of our business really.
If they want to have an affair, they will.
if somebody wants to have an affair with them, they will.
It is not up to us to be involved one way or the other.
That is life.
Apr 12, 2015 3:12 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??


I don't facilitate non single men, just the single gentlemen
Apr 12, 2015 3:13 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
freeman65
freeman65freeman65Longford, Ireland373 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??


Now that would have read so much nicer had you said chatting. Cheating is such a horrible word.
Apr 12, 2015 3:14 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
DonPepperoni: Yes, it´s where a boy can become a real man and have loads of birds at once



Try a bird-feedeR.

I find they work.
Apr 12, 2015 3:18 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
freeman65: Now that would have read so much nicer had you said chatting. Cheating is such a horrible word.



It is also a horrible thing
Apr 12, 2015 3:19 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
DonPepperoni
DonPepperoniDonPepperoniMálaga, Andalusia Spain42 Threads 1 Polls 552 Posts
mollybaby: Try a bird-feedeR.

I find they work.

Where can I get one?
Apr 12, 2015 3:20 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
Interesting question - I have inadvertently spoken with a few married men (they only disclosed this further on in conversation) and for the most part, they were not looking to meet, they were lonely and obviously their relationship was in trouble.

I don't condone nor support cheaters; but sometimes people just want to be seen or heard, for their own reasons.

The dogs are very quick to reveal themselves, and those I just block.

It's not up to us to judge others' needs or reasons. We are only responsible for our own behaviour towards others.



scold
Apr 12, 2015 3:21 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
DonPepperoni: Yes, it´s where a boy can become a real man and have loads of birds at once



Ya reckon??
Apr 12, 2015 3:23 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
Agreed re cheaters - it's a horrible word, and a horrible thing.

Cheaters think they're clever, getting "one over" the partner they're cheating on. If the partner had any sense and knew about it, they'd kick the cheaters out on their ear, if only out of self respect for themselves. If he/she cheats once.... ahem.

If they don't know about the cheating, then only the cheater can answer what it is that drives him/her to do it.

Personally, I think they're cowards - if you're not happy, call it a day, and move on.
Apr 12, 2015 3:24 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
DonPepperoni: Where can I get one?



I have a spare one I can give you cool
Apr 12, 2015 3:26 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mollybaby: I have a spare one I can give you


I have a few dangling from my tree grin

ooeer, dangling doesn't sound healthy, does it uh oh
Apr 12, 2015 3:27 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
henonpause: Interesting question - I have inadvertently spoken with a few married men (they only disclosed this further on in conversation) and for the most part, they were not looking to meet, they were lonely and obviously their relationship was in trouble.

I don't condone nor support cheaters; but sometimes people just want to be seen or heard, for their own reasons.

The dogs are very quick to reveal themselves, and those I just block.

It's not up to us to judge others' needs or reasons. We are only responsible for our own behaviour towards others.



fair comment,, would they not be better off going to have some councelling, is a dating site the place to come, if they have relationship problems,, and how could it help.dunno
Apr 12, 2015 3:27 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mollybaby: I have had that on my profile also, and meant it.Maybe the thread name should be Not single/Looking


Think I shall change mine to

SINGLE / NOT LOOKING COS IT'S A WASTE OF TIME

grin
Apr 12, 2015 3:28 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
smalldutchgirl
smalldutchgirlsmalldutchgirlDublin, Ireland68 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??



From the messages I have had the age bracket for this "chatting" category is quite high. At least sites like these keep them out of the night clubs and will save generations of teenagers from being traumatised
Apr 12, 2015 3:35 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
Mauss
MaussMaussKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 196 Posts
annaroach: Are dating sites a place where married men and women can log into and chat with other men and women, in the privacy of their own room, with the intention of cheating on, and being decieptful to, their partners,, should women /men on this site facilitate that behaviour??

And the honesty of telling the world one is not single and/or not looking, or is single and not looking went past on the elven o'clock train from platform three.
Very deceitful, full of intentions... Anyway, everyone has their own interpretation of what it might be.
short-term, long term, dating, friends-hang out,intimate encounter,talk/email/penpal, activity partner are all as clear like single/not looking.
What you think does not equal other peoples thoughts. Jumping to conclusions does make the world more a fun place.
tip hat
Apr 12, 2015 3:36 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
mollybaby: I have had that on my profile also, and meant it.Maybe the thread name should be Not single/Looking


Yep, and thats covered by the "in a relationship" thingy as well. I do find it good if they are at least honest about it, however I wouldn't want to chat with them. I think its mainly posters who have the "not single/not looking" on their profile? confused
Apr 12, 2015 3:37 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
At least some have the honesty to put the truth on their profile whether that's not single or looking for NSA. They're being honest and upfront, no pretence.
Apr 12, 2015 3:42 PM CST Not Single Not Looking!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Mauss: And the honesty of telling the world one is not single and/or not looking, or is single and not looking went past on the elven o'clock train from platform three.
Very deceitful, full of intentions... Anyway, everyone has their own interpretation of what it might be.
short-term, long term, dating, friends-hang out,intimate encounter,talk/email/penpal, activity partner are all as clear like single/not looking.
What you think does not equal other peoples thoughts. Jumping to conclusions does make the world more a fun place.






Not me that is jumping to conclusions,, a man who is not single/not looking, that is very clear to me, but still wants no strings fun. well that speaks for itself
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