What Signs!! (48)

Aug 14, 2015 9:07 AM CST What Signs!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
What signs would you look for to tell you that a first date should be a last date?
Aug 14, 2015 9:25 AM CST What Signs!!
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
annaroach: What signs would you look for to tell you that a first date should be a last date?



If she turns up and you find that her photos were actually of her cousin that she likes to think she looks like. laugh
Aug 14, 2015 9:48 AM CST What Signs!!
thetindrum
thetindrumthetindrumNorth Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland40 Posts
annaroach: What signs would you look for to tell you that a first date should be a last date?

I do not look for signs that should make the first date the last.
I do look for signs that the first date could result into a second date.

If you look for incompatibility you will always be 100% successful.
I don't see the point in that.
Aug 14, 2015 11:09 AM CST What Signs!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
thetindrum: I do not look for signs that should make the first date the last.
I do look for signs that the first date could result into a second date.

If you look for incompatibility you will always be 100% successful.
I don't see the point in that.


It's the same process, of acceptance, or non acceptance!
Aug 14, 2015 12:13 PM CST What Signs!!
thetindrum
thetindrumthetindrumNorth Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland40 Posts
annaroach: It's the same process, of acceptance, or non acceptance!

While the results might be the same, the same it is not.
Looking for, and finding faults is easy.
Looking for/finding common ground requires effort.
The eternal compromise called relationship does never lasts by emphasising the negative of the compromise.
I prefer to look for things that might work.
Going on a date specific to look for reasons not to go on a date seems like a waist of petrol, time and coffee to me.
Aug 14, 2015 12:23 PM CST What Signs!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
thetindrum: While the results might be the same, the same it is not.
Looking for, and finding faults is easy.
Looking for/finding common ground requires effort.
The eternal compromise called relationship does never lasts by emphasising the negative of the compromise.
I prefer to look for things that might work.
Going on a date specific to look for reasons not to go on a date seems like a waist of petrol, time and coffee to me.


I don't think anyone goes on dates to find fault,or we wouldn't bother in the first place.
Aug 14, 2015 12:37 PM CST What Signs!!
thetindrum
thetindrumthetindrumNorth Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland40 Posts
annaroach: I don't think anyone goes on dates to find fault,or we wouldn't bother in the first place.

Maybe your opening post might have been better with 'would you look for' left out.
What signs would tell you that a first date should be a last date?
tip hat
Aug 14, 2015 1:06 PM CST What Signs!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
thetindrum: Maybe your opening post might have been better with 'would you look for' left out.
What signs would tell you that a first date should be a last date?



Thank you for pointing that out to me, as it was what i meant
but i posted it first and re-read it then, but i will think twice before i post in futuregrin
Aug 14, 2015 2:03 PM CST What Signs!!
annaroach: Thank you for pointing that out to me, as it was what i meant
but i posted it first and re-read it then, but i will think twice before i post in future


Rudeness, to the waiter/bar staff.
Aug 14, 2015 2:07 PM CST What Signs!!
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
If he was checking himself out in every and any available relfective surface.

Rudeness as well.
Aug 14, 2015 2:20 PM CST What Signs!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
snowlynx: Rudeness, to the waiter/bar staff.


Rudeness is never acceptable!
Aug 14, 2015 2:24 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Fraya: Did you buy her a cidona too
no actually she was hungover laugh jayus i do meet them ireland
Aug 14, 2015 2:29 PM CST What Signs!!
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: no actually she was hungover jayus i do meet them


How did all that play out before you gave her "the flick" I havn't heard that expression before. Isn't that something one does to a snot?
Aug 14, 2015 2:30 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
snowlynx: In what way(s) did she not measure up?
nice looking good personality just something missing couldnt put my finger on it confused
Aug 14, 2015 2:34 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Fraya: How did all that play out before you gave her "the flick" I havn't heard that expression before. Isn't that something one does to a snot?
chatted got on well she wanted to meet again just made my excuses nice girl maybe its me laugh some dates i just feel really comfortable with and others just there to be polite, ya the flick means wave or give her the spanish fiddler el-bow wave
Aug 14, 2015 2:39 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67: nice looking good personality just something missing couldnt put my finger on it



That can happen alright.
Aug 14, 2015 2:40 PM CST What Signs!!
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
mjpd67: chatted got on well she wanted to meet again just made my excuses nice girl maybe its me some dates i just feel really comfortable with and others just there to be polite, ya the flick means or give her the spanish fiddler el-bow


So you make your mind up on the first date? I guess it's the lack of spark thing? Did her hang-over put you off? Sure you have those from time to time.
Aug 14, 2015 2:40 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
snowlynx: That can happen alright.
god ya im a normal fella but some women im instantly hooked laugh
Aug 14, 2015 2:41 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
Fraya: So you make your mind up on the first date? I guess it's the lack of spark thing? Did her hang-over put you off? Sure you have those from time to time.
god ya but id never show up to meet a woman hungover innocent
Aug 14, 2015 2:43 PM CST What Signs!!
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
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