Is explaining your character being defensive. (8)

Met a man on here, really liked him. We spent weekends together and after the second weekend he wanted me to be more open. I thought he wanted to move too fast. He became very aggressive and I wanted help him understand me better by explaining. By the forth weekend he is telling me that he didn't have a good time at the auction because I didn't talk to other people enough. He told me that when I have trouble in my community I should manipulate instead of confronting the issues. He said I must be one of those people who likes to be upset at people all the time . When I attempted to share some of my experiences to give him a fuller picture of who I am. He said I was being argumentative and defensive. I am confused. Feed back please.

# 1. He is a jerk.


JMO ... Be yourself. He sounds a bit too critical ... a red flag to stay away from him.

Me thinks runner's instincts are giving her messages ... and she is smart enough to know something is not right.

HEY ... Never mind????? (I never had one.)

Thanks guys. I have good instincts but tend to second guess myself. So it is so great to have a community that is here to support you. Thank-you

Just my opinion, but perhaps by him focusing on what he thinks is wrong with you, he is avoiding what needs to be fixed in his own life, sounds like he has some issues. Just be who you are and walk away from the situation.