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1) Welcome the move.
2) Become a stunned dear, and allow the move to happen.
3) Put the brakes on, saying I want to take the time to get to you better, than and only than can you move in.
4) Run for the hills, and end the relationship immediately.
I am asking this, because a recent experiance, I have had this happen to me. And I became the stunned dear. Even helped her to move in. I didn't know her well, and didn't know if I would learn to love her. Eventaully, after taking 5 months I decided that that this person was not for me. And noticed that there was no love for this person developing in me. At this point I told her she had to leave. And she has.
I have learned a valuable lesson.
I would be interested, in others experiances in this matter.