Deceitful man (5)

I was seeing this man, he is from the Ivory Coast, South Africa.
For almost 1yr he was lying to me, said I was the love of his life and wanted a future. Recently I found out he is actually married to a woman in Ghana, and has been for years. How could I not know? I found out through browsing his laptop and he also had communication with other woman from the States, here in Canada and also at work ! I cannot believe how blind I was, and how secretive and deceiving one could be! You just never know. He acts like a saint, but under the front he is the most heartless human I have ever come across. It actually frightens me how one can be calm and believable! No love found-no love lost, but it's just disturbing how one can be so deceitful..So ladies&gents be ware, some can act like saints, but they really are far from...I would break his legs, but he ain't worth the energy&Karma knows no discrimination..

Its not your fault if he intentionally set out to lie to you. He used you for a purpose, his purpose.

I hope you were able to safely get away and put this behind you. Not all men are like that, thank god for that!

I am fine today, thank you, it was hard to accept, but karma gives me piece of mind. Too bad for him, those who play on others lives have it coming back to them in the worst way-as I've seen it happen time and time again...

I thought at first I was overly emotional,and he,male like-like having no compassion for certain things that would pull on your conscience,but really he had no heart !
How can someone be so disconnected with themselves? Can trauma be the root of his disconnectedness?