Ladies: Do you judge a man by his photo "before" contacting him?? (59)
John1966Calgary, Alberta Canada16 Threads 143 PostsWell...do you, ladies?
Is beauty no in the eye of the beholder?
The photo shows what he looks like, not who he is. If you judge a book by its cover you might just miss all the good things inside 
gotta love a good book........
yeah, especially if it has a happy ending 
well like the little girl that lives withen all of us,all fairytales have a happily ever after,so never stop dreaming,and in this case,never stop reading,your page is bound to turn up......
No, I wouldn't judge the man by his photo. I am more interested in what is going on with the individual. Looks fade sometimes, like old photograph, so it is the beauty inside that I look for.
Sounds like a crock to me.
If there's no spark you ladies hit the door running.
If there's no spark you ladies hit the door running.
Wake up on the wrong side of the bed,that was pretty harsh for a first post.....
You think the spark comes from the photo?
You think the spark comes from the photo?
The question is... do you judge BEFORE contacting him.. not the other way around.
If someone contacts you then yes it is polite to respond... BUT
You can't sit there and say that when you are scanning profiles you are reading the profile and NOT looking at the picture. And if you are looking at the picture and you don't like what you see.. you will not even read the profile.
Come on and lets me honest here, there has to be a attraction of somekind to the outside of a person, wether it is the body, eyes, smile which ever.
If someone contacts you then yes it is polite to respond... BUT
You can't sit there and say that when you are scanning profiles you are reading the profile and NOT looking at the picture. And if you are looking at the picture and you don't like what you see.. you will not even read the profile.
Come on and lets me honest here, there has to be a attraction of somekind to the outside of a person, wether it is the body, eyes, smile which ever.
But we all see beauty in a diffrent form.
Am not saying that something has to cathc my eye,but that can be a wide range of things.....
Am not saying that something has to cathc my eye,but that can be a wide range of things.....
*am not saying that something doesn not have to catch my eye
So what you are saying... is that to some degree you do !!!!
I"m saying that how one veiws one is not how another views it.So in which case,how and what am I judging?
I respond to all who contact me,how far the conversation goes is another story completly,but the qusestion was,do I judge a man by his photo before contacting him,and my reply,is no.
I respond to all who contact me,how far the conversation goes is another story completly,but the qusestion was,do I judge a man by his photo before contacting him,and my reply,is no.
You won't judge... but you won't contact him either.... correct???
Contact who,all memembers on site,no I haven't.
Judge, no, but I believe everyone has an emotional reaction or forms an opinion when they view a picture (whether it is accurate or justified is besides the point). Opinions change with more information, once you get to know someone's personality, it can mean the difference between finding them attractive or repulsive.
Sounds like you are back peddling to me
Not at all,you may just be surprised at those I have made contact with.....
Ask me a pacific question and I can give you a pacific answer.
Ask me a pacific question and I can give you a pacific answer.
ok rephrasing yet again..
If you are looking through profiles and you see a man that is not to your likeing.. Do you read his profile or pass him by?
If you are looking through profiles and you see a man that is not to your likeing.. Do you read his profile or pass him by?
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