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You are "set-up" for a better choice of words with someone that one of your friends think would be a great match for you.....you chat on the phone and in the week or two following, your conversation is a kaliedescope of thoughts and ideas......soooooo , dude asks you out but tells you he has no wheels.....so, of course, you pick him up and go out for dinner......something not too fancy and a laid back kinda place (eg. kelseys').the bill comes thru and buddy sits back and waits......I don't....I take out my wallet and he WAITS until I put in my portion.....
ok, so here is my thought......If a guy asks me out for the first time, is it rude to think that he would be paying the tab???? IS that such a bad thing to think?
Regardless, that was enough of a sign to think that dude is most definately NOT for me........
conversation has halted since that night....then dude has the "balls" (excuse the expression) to call me and text me this morning!....
am I wrong to think that if I am asked out, he should pay???? ok, I don't expect that all the time but I truly think that the first time going out, a man should pay (I guess I really AM old fashioned)....IF the relationship got further, heck, I have no prob paying, but come on! THE FIRST TIME? ........