Mean-spirited (13)

Sep 21, 2015 9:27 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
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Why do U suppose that some pple feel the need to be mean-spirited and sarcastic?(not in a good way)...confused

I think sometimes they lack the consideration for others feelings, or maybe having a bad day and wish to take it out on others..
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Any thoughts?..conversing
Sep 21, 2015 10:11 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49: Why do U suppose that some pple feel the need to be mean-spirited and sarcastic?(not in a good way)...

I think sometimes they lack the consideration for others feelings, or maybe having a bad day and wish to take it out on others..


Any thoughts?..


Any number of reasons. Could be from what said (having a bad day) to just simply hard wired to be an idiot to anything in between.

One thing they do have in common, at least part of their personality tends to be aggressive, combative, some can control it better than others.
Sep 21, 2015 10:28 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
Track16: Any number of reasons. Could be from what said (having a bad day) to just simply hard wired to be an idiot to anything in between.

One thing they do have in common, at least part of their personality tends to be aggressive, combative, some can control it better than others.


True enuf Track conversing I tend to walk away or gently smile and begone..whatever it is, its their problem ya?
Not a combative person, I feel their energy and its not good at any rate..doh
Sep 21, 2015 10:41 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49: True enuf Track I tend to walk away or gently smile and begone..whatever it is, its their problem ya?
Not a combative person, I feel their energy and its not good at any rate..


Its (most) always best to walk away. It will ruin their day but not yours :)
Sep 21, 2015 10:48 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
Track16: Its (most) always best to walk away. It will ruin their day but not yours :)


Yep not worth ruining my day..for suregrin
I will still have an awesome day..cuz I choose toogrin
Sep 21, 2015 10:56 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49: Yep not worth ruining my day..for sure
I will still have an awesome day..cuz I choose too


And that will make their day even worst lol. To engage someone in conflict is to feed their need for it, in a way, it makes them feel good. When you walk away, it really irritates them. Also, being overly nice to them bugs them too. They expect negative vibes from you, when you give them positive vibes, they hate that.
Sep 21, 2015 11:05 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
Track16: And that will make their day even worst lol. To engage someone in conflict is to feed their need for it, in a way, it makes them feel good. When you walk away, it really irritates them. Also, being overly nice to them bugs them too. They expect negative vibes from you, when you give them positive vibes, they hate that.


laugh I totally agree..I usually go with "Vibes"..from pple..and ya I don't get that need..for conflict or 'not so nice' sarcasm.
When I hear it..I am always amazed of their lack of real communication instead..of 'hiding' it behind mean words.
It must be a control thing?
Probably it makes them feel better about themselves?
Sep 21, 2015 11:19 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
Track16: And that will make their day even worst lol. To engage someone in conflict is to feed their need for it, in a way, it makes them feel good. When you walk away, it really irritates them. Also, being overly nice to them bugs them too. They expect negative vibes from you, when you give them positive vibes, they hate that.


G'nite Track, going to bay at the moon..laugh
Thanks for posting grin wave
Sep 22, 2015 11:06 AM CST Mean-spirited
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Lillie49: Why do U suppose that some pple feel the need to be mean-spirited and sarcastic?(not in a good way)...

I think sometimes they lack the consideration for others feelings, or maybe having a bad day and wish to take it out on others..


Any thoughts?..


Not quite sure if I have been guilty of Sarcasminnocent confused No way mean spirited, just not in me.
Some old farts are bitter for no reason at all. They had career,
family, Gr. Children, and still miserable.dunno
Sep 22, 2015 5:17 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
pedalguy59: Not quite sure if I have been guilty of Sarcasm No way mean spirited, just not in me.
Some old farts are bitter for no reason at all. They had career,
family, Gr. Children, and still miserable.


Nahh can't see you being either of those things Pedal.

I don't think it comes with age though..I think its instilled into some pple really, like a part of their character or maybe a learned behavior, sometimes pple show it right away, then others seem to wait and spring it on ya wow
Sep 22, 2015 10:17 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49: Nahh can't see you being either of those things Pedal.

I don't think it comes with age though..I think its instilled into some pple really, like a part of their character or maybe a learned behavior, sometimes pple show it right away, then others seem to wait and spring it on ya


I missed you tonight, tried to send a message but your settings wouldn't let me lol.

Hope everything is good wave
Sep 23, 2015 4:29 PM CST Mean-spirited
Lillie49
Lillie49Lillie49Nowhere, Alberta Canada35 Threads 804 Posts
Track16: I missed you tonight, tried to send a message but your settings wouldn't let me lol.

Hope everything is good


wave Hiya Track..I will change my settings for yacomfort
Everything is fine, just been bizzy..grin
Sep 25, 2015 3:45 PM CST Mean-spirited
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
That is just the way people are sometimes,,...
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